you're either a good fit for each other, or your aren't. i know how that is, looking to simp in a relationship, but you got to just be yourself and give her a chance to like you for who you really are. i hate to be the bearer of bad news and don't want to start shit where there isn't, but i had a friend in a similar situation, and it sounds like shes dating someone else, or seeing someone else at the same time, which is well within her rights and you should respect that decision.So i've been having trouble keeping a girl interested. The first few weeks, she would always initiate text conversations and we connected really well. I could tell she was interested in me. We had a good first date and kept in contact. We planned to go out on a second date but she stood me up and the next few dates we were in limited contact. It seems like I'm always the one starting conversations now. Yesterday, out of the blue she reschedules our date, which is a good sign. But i'm looking for a Long-term relationship with her, how do i keep her interested prior to and after that second date.
keep her interested prior to and after the second date? why don't you plan something fun that you can both look forward to, so she knows that you're a fun guy that knows how to treat a girl right and show her a good time? if she is excited for the date then suddenly you have become an exciting person in her eyes. boost. after the second date? send her flowers or chocolates or some small gift, tell her you had a good time and want to take her out to ______ or go do ________ next time.