Big ups for all the insight. THRILLMATIC FOR MODGoes both ways homie. She could see you as a platonic friend, but she may think of your efforts as inconvenient. I can't pick up feelings from texts in most cases. just go see her. you'll know from her reception of you, whether or not she's interestedOriginally posted by Inactive User
and don't use smileys. breaks sexual tension. you have to come off as serious in your messages, but not angry
if she makes a joke, don't do "lol" do "lhh" (laughing hella hard) the hood bitches I know do that shit) if she's black and doesn't know that abbreviation she may be more used to being around white people than you can assume
i'd prefer you don't type either but not in this case
Last night was pretty strange tbh. The date itself was basic. Nothing much in the way of signals. When we went back to her house there were a bunch of her cousins there and shit, and I don't know if she was expecting that. The ones I met were really cool to me. It ended up just being the two of us, her sister and one of her cousins sitting in the living room doing nothing. The cousin asked me what I was doing now that I've graduated, and then she made it a point to note that she already knew of my graduation, like letting me know that this girl talks about me. I told her about the job I got recently and how I'm getting this nice salary and benefits and she said I'll be able to take the girl to nicer places now. Later on she said, "I'm sure I'll be seeing more of you."
But the girl would barely even acknowledge me while I was there. She spent a lot of the time showing vine videos to her cousin and laughing her ass off to them. It was almost like she was shy or even inexperienced with dating. I still have never seen her bedroom (I don't even know the layout of the house). It's cool if that's moving too quick for her, but I was disappointed that she couldn't at least pull me aside for a just a moment of privacy. She eventually ushered me out of the house and sent me on my way, because apparently her cousin wanted to go to 7-11 for a slurpee and wanted her to go with (yeah I dunno). She hugged me goodbye and gave me one of those fake ass Hollywood cheek kisses, which is less than what I got last time. I get that she might have been uncomfortable kissing me in front of family, but like I said, just a moment of privacy would have been nice (she knows the house, I don't).
I texted her when I got home and she said, "It was really nice hanging with you. My cousin and sister think you're really sweet. I agree." I told her I had fun and wished we could have chilled longer, to which she replied, "Aw no worries. Other times." But her reply to doing it again was "We'll see."
I really don't know anymore. I think I'm fairly experienced, but this might be the most confused I've ever been. She's either really inexperienced or really gaming me hard. I know you told me not to, but I'm more than a little tempted to just ask her once and for all where we stand. If I don't get a solid answer I might just have to cut her loose.