The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Aug 10, 2013 @ 16:48
Originally posted by Inactive User
Goes both ways homie. She could see you as a platonic friend, but she may think of your efforts as inconvenient. I can't pick up feelings from texts in most cases. just go see her. you'll know from her reception of you, whether or not she's interested

and don't use smileys. breaks sexual tension. you have to come off as serious in your messages, but not angry

if she makes a joke, don't do "lol" do "lhh" (laughing hella hard) the hood bitches I know do that shit) if she's black and doesn't know that abbreviation she may be more used to being around white people than you can assume

i'd prefer you don't type either but not in this case
Big ups for all the insight. THRILLMATIC FOR MOD

Last night was pretty strange tbh. The date itself was basic. Nothing much in the way of signals. When we went back to her house there were a bunch of her cousins there and shit, and I don't know if she was expecting that. The ones I met were really cool to me. It ended up just being the two of us, her sister and one of her cousins sitting in the living room doing nothing. The cousin asked me what I was doing now that I've graduated, and then she made it a point to note that she already knew of my graduation, like letting me know that this girl talks about me. I told her about the job I got recently and how I'm getting this nice salary and benefits and she said I'll be able to take the girl to nicer places now. Later on she said, "I'm sure I'll be seeing more of you."

But the girl would barely even acknowledge me while I was there. She spent a lot of the time showing vine videos to her cousin and laughing her ass off to them. It was almost like she was shy or even inexperienced with dating. I still have never seen her bedroom (I don't even know the layout of the house). It's cool if that's moving too quick for her, but I was disappointed that she couldn't at least pull me aside for a just a moment of privacy. She eventually ushered me out of the house and sent me on my way, because apparently her cousin wanted to go to 7-11 for a slurpee and wanted her to go with (yeah I dunno). She hugged me goodbye and gave me one of those fake ass Hollywood cheek kisses, which is less than what I got last time. I get that she might have been uncomfortable kissing me in front of family, but like I said, just a moment of privacy would have been nice (she knows the house, I don't).

I texted her when I got home and she said, "It was really nice hanging with you. My cousin and sister think you're really sweet. I agree." I told her I had fun and wished we could have chilled longer, to which she replied, "Aw no worries. Other times." But her reply to doing it again was "We'll see."

I really don't know anymore. I think I'm fairly experienced, but this might be the most confused I've ever been. She's either really inexperienced or really gaming me hard. I know you told me not to, but I'm more than a little tempted to just ask her once and for all where we stand. If I don't get a solid answer I might just have to cut her loose.
Aug 11, 2013 @ 00:16
How the fuck do I move on? I broke up with my girl after she cheated on me yet I seem to be the one that cares more, I can't stop looking at her shit and trying to text her and I can't bring myself to delete her number or anytihng like that cause I get so lonely, I lost most of my friends because I fucked them off to spend time with her. I'm a mess what do I do

Edit: She's already seeing another guy after saying she want's to be single and he's an obvious downgrade, not even trying to be big headed or whatever, he genuinely is a downgrade.
Aug 11, 2013 @ 01:52
^I would probably apologize to my friends and try to get back together with them again. And the best way to get over a break up is to try to keep yourself busy with other things. But first you got to delete her number off your phone and etc cause like the saying, "out of sight, out of mind."
Aug 11, 2013 @ 02:03
Tried speakin to em, they ignore everything I say
Aug 11, 2013 @ 02:05
How the fuck do I move on? I broke up with my girl after she cheated on me yet I seem to be the one that cares more, I can't stop looking at her shit and trying to text her and I can't bring myself to delete her number or anytihng like that cause I get so lonely, I lost most of my friends because I fucked them off to spend time with her. I'm a mess what do I do

Edit: She's already seeing another guy after saying she want's to be single and he's an obvious downgrade, not even trying to be big headed or whatever, he genuinely is a downgrade.
Shit sucks but give it time. Just remember you're not the only person thats ever gone through something like that. Get back on your feet and show that bitch your confident and happy without her (even if your not-its one step closer to getting your next girl). You have to get rid of everything otherwise they bring back suttle little reminders.  Contact all your old homies, if need be offer them beer/bud if that's what it takes. They lost trust with you putting them on the back burner, you've got to earn it back. If the bridges are completely burnt start befriending people at work/school.
Aug 11, 2013 @ 02:07
How the fuck do I move on? I broke up with my girl after she cheated on me yet I seem to be the one that cares more, I can't stop looking at her shit and trying to text her and I can't bring myself to delete her number or anytihng like that cause I get so lonely, I lost most of my friends because I fucked them off to spend time with her. I'm a mess what do I do

Edit: She's already seeing another guy after saying she want's to be single and he's an obvious downgrade, not even trying to be big headed or whatever, he genuinely is a downgrade.
Shit sucks but give it time. Just remember you're not the only person thats ever gone through something like that. Get back on your feet and show that bitch your confident and happy without her (even if your not-its one step closer to getting your next girl). You have to get rid of everything otherwise they bring back suttle little reminders.  Contact all your old homies, if need be offer them beer/bud if that's what it takes. They lost trust with you putting them on the back burner, you've got to earn it back. If the bridges are completely burnt start befriending people at work/school.
Yeah think there's gonna be no making it up with them, I grew up with them but we've sorta got different interests not much in common anymore, it's just nicer to have more connections
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Aug 11, 2013 @ 04:05
How the fuck do I move on? I broke up with my girl after she cheated on me yet I seem to be the one that cares more, I can't stop looking at her shit and trying to text her and I can't bring myself to delete her number or anytihng like that cause I get so lonely, I lost most of my friends because I fucked them off to spend time with her. I'm a mess what do I do

Edit: She's already seeing another guy after saying she want's to be single and he's an obvious downgrade, not even trying to be big headed or whatever, he genuinely is a downgrade.
Went through a breakup, minus the cheating, and yo...... You GOTTA delete, facebook, phone number, instatwittersnap, etc..  Everything.  That's the first thing when you need to do.  If she wants to move on, cool, her loss, go occupy yourself with other stuff like @upvote said.

I kept (sometimes still do) thinking about the girl, and deleting her and her sister from all my shit helped put her out of mind for sure.  It was impossible to move on when I was still hung up on the idea that maybe she would change her mind, and maybe we'd get back together.  Writing in a journal was one of my coping mechanisms; when I write, I work on getting all my thoughts out, whatever it was that set me off that particular day.

I dunno about all that stuff I wrote second, but you gotta delete her from the other stuff, for your own good/sanity.

bitch.

Aug 11, 2013 @ 04:54
Aye help me out HB fam. 

Last year this girl from Cali moved to my neighborhood. A fine ass latina chick. Recently though she's been talking to one of my homies but he just wants to smash but i'm trying to make this a real thing. You know? I really care about this girl like no other I have ever met, swear to God i listen to Drake more than I use to. She says she's tired of meeting dudes that just want to smash and leave though

Should I just tell her my nigga doesn't want anything serious or should I just let it play out and catch her off the flip?

I need answers for real.
Aug 11, 2013 @ 05:03
all these girls in my city are typical high school white girls b. always tweeting about the beach Taco Bell and whatever bullshit they into. swear we ain't got no other race than white girls here bruh, other than the occasional ratchet black girl. I play football for my hs so I'm not a loner or anything, but I'm like the only one in my school who fucks with and is really into music art and fashion (not like I'd want a career in it or something) but I just like it, and I can't open up and get into a relationship with a bitch unless we share the same interests and shit. it sucks not being able to talk bout what you love with anyone cause they don't know anything about it. fuck. I'm tired of seeing all these fuckboy ass white girls around here man. damn

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Aug 11, 2013 @ 11:08
so the girl i was talking about earlier ended up late replying to me....and i ended up replying back. my thirst level is high on this one, fam. i cant just ignore her. shit is tough b. imma try one more time. i highly doubt the play of having her missing me will work, this girl has enough guys chasing after her, including me.

might i add I'm not the type of dude who be talking to more than 2 girls, b
I fucking feel you b, I'm thirsting hard on this girl who always has niggas hitting her up on the reg just to get at her, I'm in your exact position right now fam, I'm trying not to reply to her snapchats, texts, etc but its hard. I always talk shit about those simp niggas but im kinda simping on this girl too, saying shit like, "you're far from ugly, you're gorgeous," like what the fuck was I thinking?

@Dino I tried hitting up the same girl I was talking about on a date but she said that, "I'll see" shit too then we changed the subject, but a big problem with that is I asked on Wednesday and it was this coming Saturday and she gave me no response on any of the days leading up to Saturday , so she left a nigga hanging smh
Aug 11, 2013 @ 13:34
Yo wtf, this incident is pathetic and revolves around the internet but yeah yall can read it and laugh, its not too serious, especially relative to your situations

Some girl on twitter I follow, very pretty etc, so she asks people to ask her questions on ask.fm as usual. So I thought yeah why not, I start asking questions, at the same time another guy is asksing her stuff as well. So this guys asking these thirsty questions, continually asking why she didn't follow him back. Meanwhile I'm just asking about her in general whilst popping some jokes. Eventually I'm like yeah imma leave it so i basically wish her luck in life and she comments 'Why you gotta be anonymous ( smokeyface', bear in mind this is to MY comment. Lol this other guy that was asking her stuff jumps in and says i'm anonymous becasue you didn't follow back

Looool this guy basically slipped in and stole the moment, obviously because its anonymous she thought his comments were mine etc

But yeah abit of a pointless story, there should be a moral in there somewhere. Probably something cliche like if you want something go grab it
Aug 11, 2013 @ 13:42
^ Real niggas never go anonymous. you let these bitches know who you are from the get go even if youre taking the L or W

hansum is 4ever

Aug 11, 2013 @ 13:50
But how though? I guess I couldve got her to follow back and dm'd her
Aug 11, 2013 @ 19:20
Yo im such a simp, wtf

Im starting to realise it now lol
Aug 12, 2013 @ 08:16
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Aug 12, 2013 @ 08:32
They don't work. There, schooled.
Aug 12, 2013 @ 23:43
What do you guys think about talking to a girl that just got out of a relationship?

She's my sister's friend and I don't know her at all if that matters. 

Pretty Young Thug

Aug 20, 2013 @ 02:34
One of my friends from highschool died in a tragic car crash 2 nights ago. I wasn't as close with her as much as the people im cool with but she was a good friend, going to the crash site & dropping off flowers to visting her parents made me realize how much she affected so many people just by her positive attitude, and no matter who you were she'll treat you like family. when I used to walk the hallways of my school going to class, every party i went to she'd was always have a smile. she was only 19 & her birthday is just next month, and i just remembered people already planning her party.

This isnt just post about my sorrow , it made me realize that life is truly short, enjoy every moment, dont take things for granted. love everyone, appreciate everyone no matter who they are, appreciate life because in a split second it can all change. 


Rest In Paradise, Bhaarti Sharma.

hansum is 4ever

Aug 20, 2013 @ 03:30
RIP. smh

any more pics tho? 

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Aug 20, 2013 @ 03:51
Originally posted by Inactive User
RIP.

any more pics tho? 
I feel fucked up for laughing.

RIP
Aug 20, 2013 @ 11:52
Originally posted by Inactive User
RIP.

any more pics tho? 
..... this nigga heartless!
Aug 20, 2013 @ 16:38
What do you guys think about talking to a girl that just got out of a relationship?

She's my sister's friend and I don't know her at all if that matters. 
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Beat it. Skeet it. Leave it

She deff still got feelings for her ex. Dont wife

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Aug 21, 2013 @ 00:39
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Aug 25, 2013 @ 20:19
Am I an asshole for this. Me and my girk were talking about how she likes to do things for me. One time she did my quotes for a class when she was sick. She likes to exaggerate and say she is dying when she is sick. I said thst was so sweet that you did that. She said she was dying I said you were fine after thst lol. Then she called me mean and said insolent know how she felt that day and night. All I said after was you didn't die so I was saying you were fine. 
Aug 25, 2013 @ 22:28
Am I an asshole for this. Me and my girk were talking about how she likes to do things for me. One time she did my quotes for a class when she was sick. She likes to exaggerate and say she is dying when she is sick. I said thst was so sweet that you did that. She said she was dying I said you were fine after thst lol. Then she called me mean and said insolent know how she felt that day and night. All I said after was you didn't die so I was saying you were fine. 
girls always exaggerate.  you just gotta say ok, whatever, you are right.  actually, thats the answer to probably 90% of this thread.  

but no, you're not an asshole for it...

Fucktard we been developed a ratio

Aug 25, 2013 @ 22:34
So recently my girl has really been trippin about me moving away to college this semester. When I asked her what her concerns were exactly, she told me that she's gonna have hella sports and shit goin on and that I'll be an 1 /12 to 2 hours away so we'll see each other a lot less. It's definitely a big change from the norm since we used to go to the same school and we could chill whenever, but now I won't be around for days or even weeks at a time so she's buggin. I wish it was as simple as just tellin her some assuring combination of words and everything being cool, but it ain't that easy

Can someone school me on long distance relationships?
they don't fuckin work.  end of story.  especially when you're young.  

what inevitably happens is one person meets someone else, then gets resentful they are in a relationship, because naturally they want to fool around without having to break up or break the others heart.  so they either cheat, or they hold a resentment that they're in a long distance relationship.  both means death of a relationship whether it be a quick or slow death

Fucktard we been developed a ratio

Aug 25, 2013 @ 22:38
What do you guys think about talking to a girl that just got out of a relationship?

She's my sister's friend and I don't know her at all if that matters. 
depends.  on a lot of things.  in general, it's not necessarily a bad thing, but ex boyfriends can be jealous pieces of shit, stalkery and a pain in the ass if they arent over it.  if she is still "talking" or talks about being "friends" with her ex, then shes full of shit and it wont work.  but if it's a clean break and they aren't on speaking terms, catching her on the rebound can be fine.  

Fucktard we been developed a ratio

Aug 27, 2013 @ 05:25
not even tryin  to go there but ive been trying to get with ex for like a month she on some bullshit
Aug 27, 2013 @ 05:30
smh she was carrying my child too 
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