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July 16, 2013 @ 11:43 PM
The Ders

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Join Date: Apr 2012

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shoulda addressed that. Me and my current girl have been becoming distant lately. and its not like i wanna see other chicks. i just want to be able to hang out with other people and she just isnt my highest priority like she used to be. Shit has just been getting old lately.like weve been dating so long its like were just trying to keep it going now you know? And lately i feel like i havent been myself around her lately except when im high. like i feel like im putting up a show for her almost. and thats the thing also, if i were to think about ending thins with her i wouldnt even know where to start. we rarely fight and for the first year i really liked it but now i feel like this "perfect" little relationship is just getting old and i feel like im just putting up a show for her. But when im with Chick A i am genuinely enjoying myself whether im high or not. 
Maybe you just needa rekindle the love? Might sound stupid but but if you've been going out for like 2 years there has to be something there? You guys should just talk it out tbh, so many problems lie with lack of communication. Ultimately do what makes you happy but I think you have a responsibility towards B to treat her with respect and put her down lightly if you wanna go for A, OR talk it out with her and stay.
if i were to put shit down with my current chick, where the hell would i start? like i said, we never fight. i feel like she would be crushed if she found out that i was even thinking about ending things, let alone that i cheated on her.Do you think i should even tell her? the thing is i know nobody will ever find out that i hooked up with chick A. me and her have been friends for the longest time and weve told each  other shit we would never tell others. believe me on this, there is no possible way that anyone would ever find out because neither of us would ever say anything about it.
Tbh I don't know my man, never been in this kinda situation. Maybe someone else here has better advice but personally if you hook up with A you're straight violating B because she's been loyal to you (or at least I am assuming so). I know we got them urges but doing something like hooking up with A behind B's back is a little messed up to me and I'd never do that. But like I said theres other knowledgable guys who can help out, ultimately you should look at what others say and take your happiness and B's into account as well as your responsibilities towards B. 

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July 17, 2013 @ 12:00 AM
wackies

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Appreciate the Help G. one last question. Do you still think its wrong if i hang out with A just as a friend? like we like to blaze all the time. should we contiue to even though weve hooked up now? or do you think its best if i just try and kick her out of my life. Only thing wrong i see with that is that i would only be ignoring her in hopes of fixing things with B. I feel like ignoring A will only make me want her more, but hanging out with her will do the same. i dont know what to do mansad
July 17, 2013 @ 06:59 AM
ftx

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You just need to think it through hard man, if you're having this so called "happy relationship" with Chick B then why you tryna end it man? I think you're just wanting something different, hence you're going back to Chick A (or should I say, last saved checkpoint of feels) 

It is still up to you man, but I just feel it would be very unfair to Chick B if you're gonna let her down without any proper reason other than "im putting up a show", if you're going to stay with Chick B then i suggest not hanging out with Chick A cause y'all are gonna hook up again and again, trust me on that.

Just my 2 cents worth yo.
July 17, 2013 @ 07:10 AM
The Ders

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You just need to think it through hard man, if you're having this so called "happy relationship" with Chick B then why you tryna end it man? I think you're just wanting something different, hence you're going back to Chick A (or should I say, last saved checkpoint of feels) 

It is still up to you man, but I just feel it would be very unfair to Chick B if you're gonna let her down without any proper reason other than "im putting up a show", if you're going to stay with Chick B then i suggest not hanging out with Chick A cause y'all are gonna hook up again and again, trust me on that.

Just my 2 cents worth yo.
I agree with this, don't go back to A on an impulse cause your relationship with B is stale, you should jumpstart the relationship by sitting down with B and having a real face to face talk about you two. Like ^ said though, up to you in the end.

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July 17, 2013 @ 06:15 PM
wackies

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You just need to think it through hard man, if you're having this so called "happy relationship" with Chick B then why you tryna end it man? I think you're just wanting something different, hence you're going back to Chick A (or should I say, last saved checkpoint of feels) 

It is still up to you man, but I just feel it would be very unfair to Chick B if you're gonna let her down without any proper reason other than "im putting up a show", if you're going to stay with Chick B then i suggest not hanging out with Chick A cause y'all are gonna hook up again and again, trust me on that.

Just my 2 cents worth yo.
I agree with this, don't go back to A on an impulse cause your relationship with B is stale, you should jumpstart the relationship by sitting down with B and having a real face to face talk about you two. Like ^ said though, up to you in the end.
you guys are right. i just told A that i wanted some distance. i know that if we hung out it wouldnt lead to anything good. Gonna try my best to fix things up with B now. Dont get me wrong, shes an incredible chick and i really do have mad feels for her. its just that things have become so routine lately. want that to change, i dont want to feel obligated to text, call, hangout with her; i want it to be something that i want to do. feel me? only question is, how do yall think i should do this? dont get me wrong, the sex is bangin' but i feel like sometimes thats all we ever do now. 
Appreciate the help fam. mad respect on me end towards you two
July 18, 2013 @ 07:03 AM
ftx

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If things are routine then do something that you normally wouldn't do man!!

I'm sure you can think of fun things you can do as a couple that would "reignite" that fire.

Cheers man, I'm sure you'll do fine.
July 18, 2013 @ 07:40 AM
The Ders

Post: 1393

Join Date: Apr 2012

Location: Yass

You just need to think it through hard man, if you're having this so called "happy relationship" with Chick B then why you tryna end it man? I think you're just wanting something different, hence you're going back to Chick A (or should I say, last saved checkpoint of feels) 

It is still up to you man, but I just feel it would be very unfair to Chick B if you're gonna let her down without any proper reason other than "im putting up a show", if you're going to stay with Chick B then i suggest not hanging out with Chick A cause y'all are gonna hook up again and again, trust me on that.

Just my 2 cents worth yo.
I agree with this, don't go back to A on an impulse cause your relationship with B is stale, you should jumpstart the relationship by sitting down with B and having a real face to face talk about you two. Like ^ said though, up to you in the end.
you guys are right. i just told A that i wanted some distance. i know that if we hung out it wouldnt lead to anything good. Gonna try my best to fix things up with B now. Dont get me wrong, shes an incredible chick and i really do have mad feels for her. its just that things have become so routine lately. want that to change, i dont want to feel obligated to text, call, hangout with her; i want it to be something that i want to do. feel me? only question is, how do yall think i should do this? dont get me wrong, the sex is bangin' but i feel like sometimes thats all we ever do now. 
Appreciate the help fam. mad respect on me end towards you two
I think you made the right move. But to keep things fresh just do something out of the ordinary, something both of you will remember. You could even have her make the plans and go do what she wants to do together. Learning something new together might be fun too. Stay positive. cool

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July 19, 2013 @ 05:24 AM
thrillmatic

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Location: Xanadu

all of you virgin/sus niggas need to look at 60 Years Of Challenge. It's on the Internet. Great pdf book teaching you how to seduce women. Makes strong points like how you should shut the fuck up and let women talk to they are proving themselves t\so you. Be very touchy-feely with women so they know you're aggressive. Don't wait for the end of a conversation to get her number, ask spontaneously and put pressure on her rather than putting yourself in the situation where she knows you've put pressure on yourself. Eye contact. If she's enjoying her talk with you and brings up her boyfriend, don't acknowledge what she's saying, just stare and grin. Lean on one leg like dem Greek statues, the pose exudes masculinity. Think about smashing and you will exude manliness. no supplicating or making her feel comfortable, maintain sexual tension, don't pull your hand away first after shaking hers, make her break eye contact more often than you, no corny-ass down syndrome smiling, more george clooney-ish im tryna fuck grins. let her break an awkward silence, especially if you're disagreeing on an issue. if you want her to do something, make the request into a command and not a statement, subliminally makes her think you're overwhelming.

trust, there's much more, what i just typed should entice you to look at it

"Rap in 2012 is basically just a mad dash for people of EVERY human subset to be represented by a rapper." - damnwitless1

July 19, 2013 @ 07:27 AM
jamesjebbia

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http://i1345.photobucket.com/albums/p662/johnjenkins2/Screenshot_2013-07-19-03-03-421_zps1eca7677.jpg
edit: know you niggas like pics so here ya go

gonna try to make this short, Chick only girl I've ever had feels for haven't talked in a year but the last thing she told me was she'll always love me cause I took her virginity, ya boy is starting to miss her and she's about to start college and shit so I feel like my window of opportunity is closing but I'm to proud to do something about it. should I just swallow the good old pride and take a chance?
July 19, 2013 @ 10:41 AM
The Ders

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It'd be cool if she(confused was, women understand women better than men ever can.

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July 19, 2013 @ 10:44 AM
The Ders

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@james I say go for it, you never know until you try, but go in not expecting anything that way if anything bad happens/nothing happens you won't be as taken aback.

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July 19, 2013 @ 01:06 PM
Lew

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July 19, 2013 @ 01:08 PM
Lew

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Location: Los Angeles


http://i1345.photobucket.com/albums/p662/johnjenkins2/Screenshot_2013-07-19-03-03-421_zps1eca7677.jpg
edit: know you niggas like pics so here ya go

gonna try to make this short, Chick only girl I've ever had feels for haven't talked in a year but the last thing she told me was she'll always love me cause I took her virginity, ya boy is starting to miss her and she's about to start college and shit so I feel like my window of opportunity is closing but I'm to proud to do something about it. should I just swallow the good old pride and take a chance?

take the L and move on, she will be getting smashed within her first month in college. Whether its a frat boy, athlete or some dude in her dorm or classroom
July 20, 2013 @ 12:38 AM
PopbottlesMVP

Post: 141

Join Date: Oct 2010

all of you virgin/sus niggas need to look at 60 Years Of Challenge. It's on the Internet. Great pdf book teaching you how to seduce women. Makes strong points like how you should shut the fuck up and let women talk to they are proving themselves t\so you. Be very touchy-feely with women so they know you're aggressive. Don't wait for the end of a conversation to get her number, ask spontaneously and put pressure on her rather than putting yourself in the situation where she knows you've put pressure on yourself. Eye contact. If she's enjoying her talk with you and brings up her boyfriend, don't acknowledge what she's saying, just stare and grin. Lean on one leg like dem Greek statues, the pose exudes masculinity. Think about smashing and you will exude manliness. no supplicating or making her feel comfortable, maintain sexual tension, don't pull your hand away first after shaking hers, make her break eye contact more often than you, no corny-ass down syndrome smiling, more george clooney-ish im tryna fuck grins. let her break an awkward silence, especially if you're disagreeing on an issue. if you want her to do something, make the request into a command and not a statement, subliminally makes her think you're overwhelming.

trust, there's much more, what i just typed should entice you to look at it

o yeah? how bout posting a link?
July 20, 2013 @ 01:04 AM

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lol that's so fucking stupid

just be yourself and be confident

there is no need for a guide
July 20, 2013 @ 05:31 AM
thrillmatic

Post: 730

Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: Xanadu

all of you virgin/sus niggas need to look at 60 Years Of Challenge. It's on the Internet. Great pdf book teaching you how to seduce women. Makes strong points like how you should shut the fuck up and let women talk to they are proving themselves t\so you. Be very touchy-feely with women so they know you're aggressive. Don't wait for the end of a conversation to get her number, ask spontaneously and put pressure on her rather than putting yourself in the situation where she knows you've put pressure on yourself. Eye contact. If she's enjoying her talk with you and brings up her boyfriend, don't acknowledge what she's saying, just stare and grin. Lean on one leg like dem Greek statues, the pose exudes masculinity. Think about smashing and you will exude manliness. no supplicating or making her feel comfortable, maintain sexual tension, don't pull your hand away first after shaking hers, make her break eye contact more often than you, no corny-ass down syndrome smiling, more george clooney-ish im tryna fuck grins. let her break an awkward silence, especially if you're disagreeing on an issue. if you want her to do something, make the request into a command and not a statement, subliminally makes her think you're overwhelming.

trust, there's much more, what i just typed should entice you to look at it

o yeah? how bout posting a link?
http://kickass.to/sixty-years-of-challenge-ebooks-complete-t5244577.html

"Rap in 2012 is basically just a mad dash for people of EVERY human subset to be represented by a rapper." - damnwitless1

July 20, 2013 @ 11:34 PM
Tarwin

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So I think I just got cheated on, how do I get over her, stop myself from looking at her twitter and texting her and shit, it's like a still need to know what she's doing when I'm not even with her anymore
July 21, 2013 @ 03:14 AM
michaelknight

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Nvm fam I got it 
July 21, 2013 @ 04:11 AM
Stellar

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Location: California

So I think I just got cheated on, how do I get over her, stop myself from looking at her twitter and texting her and shit, it's like a still need to know what she's doing when I'm not even with her anymore
Change the way you think/view her. 

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July 21, 2013 @ 04:20 AM
michaelknight

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^nvm she wasnt serious. Got me for a second lol
July 21, 2013 @ 06:45 AM
jamesjebbia

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So I think I just got cheated on, how do I get over her, stop myself from looking at her twitter and texting her and shit, it's like a still need to know what she's doing when I'm not even with her anymore
keep your self busy at all times and delete her number and twitter and all that shit
July 21, 2013 @ 12:40 PM
Tarwin

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So I think I just got cheated on, how do I get over her, stop myself from looking at her twitter and texting her and shit, it's like a still need to know what she's doing when I'm not even with her anymore
keep your self busy at all times and delete her number and twitter and all that shit
But one minute I'm all like "Yeah I can do this, I'll delete everything" then as soon as I realise I just go back to texting her and all that 
July 21, 2013 @ 01:05 PM
Ferri$

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@Tarwin I usually get over girls by thinking of the reason we broke up. If she cheated on you, she didn't have much respect for you, so why should she still have you on the tip of her finger? She wouldn't simp over you, so why put yourself in that position of caring if she moved on before y'all even broke up..

I live every day like its my day off

July 21, 2013 @ 01:27 PM
dmwalking

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Tarwin  , when you think about that girl and the way she makes you feel,  what do you think about?  Whatever your answer is, that's you're self created image of her. You want to like who you think she is. Problem is that she's a cheater. That is who she is. So unless you like that, you gotta face reality and realize that you don't really like HER. You like the idea of someone who doesn't exist. Cut her off. Find a chick who has those qualities that you like. Since you're prolly like 17 those qualities should not be hard to find.

guy on some broke bus. Love, Sosa. "Don't feed the trolls" initiative coming soon. We can rebuild.

July 21, 2013 @ 01:38 PM
YoungRizal

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http://i1345.photobucket.com/albums/p662/johnjenkins2/Screenshot_2013-07-19-03-03-421_zps1eca7677.jpg
edit: know you niggas like pics so here ya go

gonna try to make this short, Chick only girl I've ever had feels for haven't talked in a year but the last thing she told me was she'll always love me cause I took her virginity, ya boy is starting to miss her and she's about to start college and shit so I feel like my window of opportunity is closing but I'm to proud to do something about it. should I just swallow the good old pride and take a chance?
Smash her once more before going to college. That way she will remember you 

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July 21, 2013 @ 04:44 PM
jamesjebbia

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http://i1345.photobucket.com/albums/p662/johnjenkins2/Screenshot_2013-07-19-03-03-421_zps1eca7677.jpg
edit: know you niggas like pics so here ya go

gonna try to make this short, Chick only girl I've ever had feels for haven't talked in a year but the last thing she told me was she'll always love me cause I took her virginity, ya boy is starting to miss her and she's about to start college and shit so I feel like my window of opportunity is closing but I'm to proud to do something about it. should I just swallow the good old pride and take a chance?
Smash her once more before going to college. That way she will remember you 
already hit shawty up, we should be chilling soon will post results bruh
July 21, 2013 @ 06:12 PM
Tarwin

Post: 135

Join Date: Jul 2012

Tarwin  , when you think about that girl and the way she makes you feel,  what do you think about?  Whatever your answer is, that's you're self created image of her. You want to like who you think she is. Problem is that she's a cheater. That is who she is. So unless you like that, you gotta face reality and realize that you don't really like HER. You like the idea of someone who doesn't exist. Cut her off. Find a chick who has those qualities that you like. Since you're prolly like 17 those qualities should not be hard to find.
Yeah that definitely makes a lot of sense, I'm 19 and it was my first real love for 3 years so I guess it's gonna be hard 
July 31, 2013 @ 08:36 PM
Dino Spumoni

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Join Date: Apr 2009

Location: CT

What up HB family, just wanted to get your take on this...
I met this girl in a class a few months back. I liked her and I think she liked me too, but it seems like we we're both apprehensive about acting on it-- I'm white, she's black, and there's a bit of an age gap (no Jacob). I really liked her but was prepared to let her go.
But after the semester ended I really missed her and wanted to see her. I finally got to go out with her last week. To me it felt like the old feelings we're still there., and it was pretty clearly a date. We kissed at the end of the night.-, nothing monumental, no tongue, but she held my face in her hands like she had feels.
We've kept texting since then but sometimes it seems like she's avoiding me, and I'm almost worried she might be embarrassed to tell her friends about me. Maybe I'm just being paranoid?
Anyway, I kinda want to tell her how I feel. I'm not about to go Drake on her, I just want to stop beating around the bush and let my intentions be known. Is this a bad idea?
August 1, 2013 @ 07:02 AM
Relax.

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Location: LA


If you're really feelin this chick, you should definitely tell her how you feel. Sounds like she's feelin you too, so you might as well. It's better to know, than living with that "what if" feeling.
August 3, 2013 @ 12:28 AM
Lemonz ♦

Post: 2674

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I've been with my girl 6 months now. She's perfect; really cute, great personality, fun to be around, christian, and I love her a lot. But for some reason I'm getting bored of her. It's fucked up because she's everything I ever wanted but I don't know why I feel this way.

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