Is there even a card to play to get out the friend zone?or is that shit a life sentence?
yes. There are generally 3 categories. Based on your actions, a chick will put you in one of the 3.
1. Friend zone
2. Like zone
3. Sex zone
If you're in the friendzone, it's because you haven't made yourself clear. If you tell her your intentions, then you'll officially be out of the friendzone. She may reject you. But at least you'll be out of the friendzone and in the like zone.
The like zone has three parts.
2a. Likes me but I don't like him back
2b. Likes me and I like him back
2c. doesn't like me but I like him
If you're in the friendzone it's most likely that she just doesn't see you in that way. You're non threatening. Possibly sensitive and frail. Delicate. So, what I recommend you do once you get out of the friendzone is man up and put on display WHY she should want you. Also, diversify your bonds nigga. Niggas always focusing too much on one chick that may or may not like them. Those 50/50 odds are wack B. Spread your seed. Put the bug in multiple girl's ears. Sure you may like one more than all of them. But being a single fapper while she's getting piped down is an uneven exchange. Don't be that dude.
Plus, women tend to be like this: they like you better when other women like you. So if you're just another frail nigga not getting theirs, you shan't be getting play. Get women to like you and other women will like you. It's like money. At first it's not easy starting from scratch. But once you start rolling, money just seems to come. And after a while, money works for you.