The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Jul 11, 2013 @ 06:12
HB fam... I'm 18 ya boy just graduated high school  I've never had a girlfriend never even kissed a girl (smh) and I've just been feelin OD lonely recently. On top of that I literally have no self esteem. I want go out and talk to girls but I'm just really fucking bad at conversing and I lack social skills and just overall nervous around girls in general. I feel like girls just don't want an awkward dude who has no experience at all like why pick me over a cocky and confident dude who isnt known for being quiet you know?i honestly feel like I'm lightyears behind because most dudes got their nervousness/anxiety out the way when talking to girls in like middle school and I'm still here today with the same problem. Shit is mad depressing b I go to parties and just watch dudes put no effort into gaming girls and make it look so easy. I just don't know where/how to begin and now that I'm out of high school it's only gonna be harder


I feel like a bitch for writing this post but I'm just so lost
DO YOU BOO BOO
Jul 11, 2013 @ 06:33
HB fam... I'm 18 ya boy just graduated high school  I've never had a girlfriend never even kissed a girl (smh) and I've just been feelin OD lonely recently. On top of that I literally have no self esteem. I want go out and talk to girls but I'm just really fucking bad at conversing and I lack social skills and just overall nervous around girls in general. I feel like girls just don't want an awkward dude who has no experience at all like why pick me over a cocky and confident dude who isnt known for being quiet you know?i honestly feel like I'm lightyears behind because most dudes got their nervousness/anxiety out the way when talking to girls in like middle school and I'm still here today with the same problem. Shit is mad depressing b I go to parties and just watch dudes put no effort into gaming girls and make it look so easy. I just don't know where/how to begin and now that I'm out of high school it's only gonna be harder


I feel like a bitch for writing this post but I'm just so lost
You just got to realize that bitches ain't shit. A girl is not better than you and you don't have to be worthy to talk to her. 
Jul 11, 2013 @ 06:42
HB fam... I'm 18 ya boy just graduated high school  I've never had a girlfriend never even kissed a girl (smh) and I've just been feelin OD lonely recently. On top of that I literally have no self esteem. I want go out and talk to girls but I'm just really fucking bad at conversing and I lack social skills and just overall nervous around girls in general. I feel like girls just don't want an awkward dude who has no experience at all like why pick me over a cocky and confident dude who isnt known for being quiet you know?i honestly feel like I'm lightyears behind because most dudes got their nervousness/anxiety out the way when talking to girls in like middle school and I'm still here today with the same problem. Shit is mad depressing b I go to parties and just watch dudes put no effort into gaming girls and make it look so easy. I just don't know where/how to begin and now that I'm out of high school it's only gonna be harder


I feel like a bitch for writing this post but I'm just so lost
You just got to realize that bitches ain't shit. A girl is not better than you and you don't have to be worthy to talk to her. 
thats just silly thinking, theyre equal to you. the second part is correct women are no different than men and realizing that can really help your confidence and social skills around women.

#hansumboyz

Jul 11, 2013 @ 06:46
The second part implies your first statement.  
Jul 11, 2013 @ 06:50
The second part implies your first statement.  
i know i know, it was just the first part was like bitches aint shit and i thought u meant they were beneath you, just felt like clarifying my baaaadd yo

#hansumboyz

Jul 11, 2013 @ 10:49
HB fam... I'm 18 ya boy just graduated high school  I've never had a girlfriend never even kissed a girl (smh) and I've just been feelin OD lonely recently. On top of that I literally have no self esteem. I want go out and talk to girls but I'm just really fucking bad at conversing and I lack social skills and just overall nervous around girls in general. I feel like girls just don't want an awkward dude who has no experience at all like why pick me over a cocky and confident dude who isnt known for being quiet you know?i honestly feel like I'm lightyears behind because most dudes got their nervousness/anxiety out the way when talking to girls in like middle school and I'm still here today with the same problem. Shit is mad depressing b I go to parties and just watch dudes put no effort into gaming girls and make it look so easy. I just don't know where/how to begin and now that I'm out of high school it's only gonna be harder


I feel like a bitch for writing this post but I'm just so lost
I feel u man 

All I gotta say is 

Alcohol, alcohol, alcohol, alcohol, alcohol, alcohol, alcohol, alcohol, alcohol, alcohol, alcohol!!

Get shit faced at parties until u forget about yourself then talk to mad girls and find one thats on your level and go in. 

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Jul 11, 2013 @ 20:40
It's okay breh, just become a trap lord
Jul 11, 2013 @ 21:38
why are relationships filled with insecurities?
Because in reality there is very little control in a relationship (you can only control yourself not the other person) and there is no set perspective too have. The word relationship itself is overwhelming for us young people with such large potential futures ahead of us. Of course there is the obvious, people cheat, and hurt each other, etc, but even if you are in a great relationship, one can't help but wonder occasionally, is there some one better for me or am I missing out on my individual freedom or on somebody else who could be even better. It's hard because people fantasize about their ideal significant other, but human beings are flawed and not hand crafted too go together for life, relationships no matter how good involve some work and compromise. The people who make it look easy aren't different, they are just very easy going and/or private about their hardships.
Jul 11, 2013 @ 22:30
Has anyone ever felt like they might have been pushing away their loved one? Or cant accept they do love you and wouldnt cheat on you because you had negative experiences in the past?
Yes, change it before it's too late.
Jul 11, 2013 @ 22:58
Need to get out of the friend zone with girl who I'm pretty sure was interested in me in the past, but probably lost interest. plz help.
Jul 11, 2013 @ 22:59
Need to get out of the friend zone with girl who I'm pretty sure was interested in me in the past, but probably lost interest. plz help.
Move on.
Jul 11, 2013 @ 23:03
Originally posted by Inactive User
Need to get out of the friend zone with girl who I'm pretty sure was interested in me in the past, but probably lost interest. plz help.
Move on.
thats no fun.
Jul 11, 2013 @ 23:17
Originally posted by Inactive User
Move on.
thats no fun.
just hang in there breh, eventually she might feel for u

:0

Jul 11, 2013 @ 23:34
Originally posted by Inactive User
thats no fun.
just hang in there breh, eventually she might feel for u
Not that its game to me, cuz i actaully do like really like this girl, but I kinda wanna approach it as a game to see if i can even pull this one off. Like, can it be done? I dont know if that makes any sense. It prolly just makes me look foolish 'n shit but w/e.
Jul 12, 2013 @ 00:28
Originally posted by Inactive User
just hang in there breh, eventually she might feel for u
Not that its game to me, cuz i actaully do like really like this girl, but I kinda wanna approach it as a game to see if i can even pull this one off. Like, can it be done? I dont know if that makes any sense. It prolly just makes me look foolish 'n shit but w/e.
It can be done, but just don't be simpin' if it fails
Jul 12, 2013 @ 14:29
I forgot all my info to my last hb account, but here it goes...
My most recent ex was my shortest relationship (two months), but also one of my best relationships evaaa thus far.. We broke up cuz i found out that she only asked me to be with me cuz she didn't want me to leave her life. Before we started going out, she asked me "what would you do if i didn't wanna be in a relationship right now?" and me being the simp that i was said "i wouldn't wanna talk to you again, delete your #, etc". So in response, she asked me out two days later. So now, fast forward 8 months. I call her cuz i just found it she's single, we start talking and it feels like we never even stopped talking, she's asking me to write a poem for her and shit, we're both flirting like we used to.. Everything is a-ok.. Until the next day where i find myself on the phone with her again, she said she'll call me back cuz she's with her bestfriend. She never called back?) Now it's a month and a half later. I got this beautiful young lady that's willing to give me the world and shit. But i kinda miss my ex.. Am I wrong for that?

I live every day like its my day off

Jul 12, 2013 @ 20:37
I forgot all my info to my last hb account, but here it goes...
My most recent ex was my shortest relationship (two months), but also one of my best relationships evaaa thus far.. We broke up cuz i found out that she only asked me to be with me cuz she didn't want me to leave her life. Before we started going out, she asked me "what would you do if i didn't wanna be in a relationship right now?" and me being the simp that i was said "i wouldn't wanna talk to you again, delete your #, etc". So in response, she asked me out two days later. So now, fast forward 8 months. I call her cuz i just found it she's single, we start talking and it feels like we never even stopped talking, she's asking me to write a poem for her and shit, we're both flirting like we used to.. Everything is a-ok.. Until the next day where i find myself on the phone with her again, she said she'll call me back cuz she's with her bestfriend. She never called back Now it's a month and a half later. I got this beautiful young lady that's willing to give me the world and shit. But i kinda miss my ex.. Am I wrong for that?
Na it's not wrong you even said it was one of your best relationships but  you're obv not worth her time anymore so just try to forget her and work on things with the new shawty

brvndon.tumblr.com

Jul 12, 2013 @ 20:49
Ferris heres where you went wrong, you called cause u found out she was single again..
First off the fact she even found someone else after you means your out of her mind for good. Second off you two werent flirting and everything wasnt "a-ok", she just got out of a relationship and bitches use other guys attention to get over a break up, thats all u were. Forget her
Jul 12, 2013 @ 20:56
True shit.. good looks bruh(s)..

I live every day like its my day off

Jul 15, 2013 @ 05:33
Been texting this girl everyday for the last month now, and been crushing on her for quite some time now. But ya boy been confused as fuck, sometimes she sends signs that shes feeling me & some signs that she feeling some next dude(Twitter is a trap). 

I mean, no girl just texts a dude everyday...and even plans to go out for dinner and all that. but also some of my homies that know her better say that shes friendly, so now im thinking shes just an overly friendly type of girl, so im at a point where ill either get lead on or get an L from whoever this girl likes.

HB fam, what/how should I approach this situation to better the future...

hansum is 4ever

Jul 15, 2013 @ 07:13
Been texting this girl everyday for the last month now, and been crushing on her for quite some time now. But ya boy been confused as fuck, sometimes she sends signs that shes feeling me & some signs that she feeling some next dude(Twitter is a trap). 

I mean, no girl just texts a dude everyday...and even plans to go out for dinner and all that. but also some of my homies that know her better say that shes friendly, so now im thinking shes just an overly friendly type of girl, so im at a point where ill either get lead on or get an L from whoever this girl likes.

HB fam, what/how should I approach this situation to better the future...
I went through something similar about 2 semesters ago. Was taking a history class and this girl I knew from a previous class was there, we got to talking online, doing assignments together, chatting on skype etc. I would talk to her about everyday for a good while, was crushing on her too. But I felt like at times the affection was mutual and sometimes it wasn't.

Anyways, my suggestion is just do some research on her. For example some chicks are just the type that are super friendly, or they just have lots of guy friends. See if she hangs out with other dudes etc, the girl I used to talk to was getting rides from dudes and shit like that on the daily, after I found that out I distanced myself a little. If anything just distance yourself and don't let your emotions take over you, she might be into you or she might just be friendly.
Jul 15, 2013 @ 16:45
True words. It's funny cause when I was out in the city once hanging out with some of my friends, she happen to be around so we met up just to hang out for a bit but the thing is she was with some next dude, so i figured " wow thats my L right there" but prior of meeting up she texted me saying "Were going out for dinner, do you want to come with?" 
I died. But distancing myself from her is definitely best. Thanks fam

hansum is 4ever

Jul 15, 2013 @ 17:26
Is it wrong to fuck my friends younger sister without him knowing, what y'all think she's gonna be a year younger than in a couple of days.

"..wearing the usual, because why would i bother wearing something else?" - bill

Jul 15, 2013 @ 22:06
Is it wrong to fuck my friends younger sister without him knowing, what y'all think she's gonna be a year younger than in a couple of days.
If it ain't your bestfriend then I don't see nothing wrong with it. & A year younger is nothing. 3 years is my limit.

hansum is 4ever

Jul 15, 2013 @ 23:13
True words. It's funny cause when I was out in the city once hanging out with some of my friends, she happen to be around so we met up just to hang out for a bit but the thing is she was with some next dude, so i figured " wow thats my L right there" but prior of meeting up she texted me saying "Were going out for dinner, do you want to come with?" 
I died. But distancing myself from her is definitely best. Thanks fam
Glad I could help blushing . Don't worry though, there's always someone else fam, if she's right for you it'll happen somehow. Stay positive. smokeyface
Jul 16, 2013 @ 07:19
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Jul 16, 2013 @ 08:22
What's y'all opinion on staying with your high school gf into college?
I don't see a problem with it unless you guys are going to different schools/living far apart.
Jul 16, 2013 @ 08:44
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Jul 16, 2013 @ 17:07
Yea, I'll be moving about an hour away, leaving her back home
An hour away is perfect.  

I tried to have a long distance relationship(Toronto to Montreal about a 5-6 hours apart), didnt really work out for me...Got too thirsty, you can only simp so much through phone/skype. I like the face to face interaction. 

hansum is 4ever

Jul 16, 2013 @ 18:09
Long distance ain't that hard. I'm in Washington and my girl is in Nor Cal. Been seeing her every few months so it's not too bad. I get it in every time we do doee smokeyface
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