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June 7, 2013 @ 03:18 PM
wilsonjs06

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Join Date: Apr 2013

Really though; no lie this is an entertaining thread...
June 7, 2013 @ 03:30 PM
smegmashark

Post: 192

Join Date: Mar 2013

like as hilarious as my situation/response to the situation is. dis some serious shit.

http://yungcrunchy.tumblr.com/

July 7, 2013 @ 12:34 AM
kbos

Post: 2676

Join Date: May 2008

Location: boston

Whats good HB fam. Damn this thread hasn't been posted in in a minute. So I got a problem, and im not lookin for bullshit advice. I love my girl right, shes the strong independent type who doesn't ask for nothing or come with the irrational bullshit or immaturity or superficial nonsense a lot of these girls come with. We been dating for like 4 years and the feelings strong like always. Its the real deal, type of shit a lot of people wish they had. I have never known a more honest person besides the homie Al. Thing is, last summer she got on these anti-anxiety meds that made her gain too much, she wasn't fat per say, but she breached the limits of what I find attractive. Bout a 20lb gain on a 5'4ish girl. Shes loyal and all that shit, she'd stick by me if I was in her shoes, so I do the same for her, its not even her fault she gained the weight even it was the meds. So the past year shes been doing yoga, trying to take care of her body and shit, shes a vegetarian so she eats pretty healthy anyway, hitting the gym here and there. She made some good progress I thought she'd be ready too hit the beach again this summer but progress slowed way the fuck down and she picked up a couple lbs again, nothing crazy. Her lifes been a rollercoaster since she graduated college may 2012, moving too nyc, hating it, moving too boston, trying to get the right job, losing money, living with cunts she didn't even know, shes a hard worker who doesn't take short cuts and all this shit takin a toll on her. Now she finally just got an awesome job after a year of struggling. Back too the weight... Shes been working to get that back off again, but on the real everything else bout her is what I want, and I love her so much the thought of breaking something so rare and mature and gratifying off is mad painful, but its fucked up that I look at her and think damn she used too be more fine... I surprise myself that I could even get caught up on something so shallow. Its not like shorty became a whale its more like damn if she could just drop 10-15 more shit would be ideal.... 

I know this shit sounds like a joke but its a shitty ass situation too have this problem in an otherwise good relationship, cuz you know a womans weight is like that one off limit zone where if you feel any kinda way about it youre automatically an asshole. I tried to delicately explain too her today like, you know im not trying to tell you how too live but how you take care of yourself does effect me. I mean she got the message, but that shit is just sad for me too say and sad for her too hear. I feel like im being unreasonable with my standards and shit, cuz I expect her too be perfect, lady in the streets freak in the sheets, never asking me for money, never bothering me about what im doing when im not with her, never telling me how too live and shit, but always supporting me and loving me. I just miss that last piece where I could parade her around and show her off and shit like I used too. Physical attraction may be the shallowest part of a relationship but I can't help how much a value it. I don't know what advice there could be besides deal with it or shut the fuck up but if anyone has any kinda helpful perspective that'd be much appreciated. 
July 7, 2013 @ 01:08 AM
Ron Swanson

Post: 61

Join Date: Apr 2012

Location: Bay Area, CA

Whats good HB fam. Damn this thread hasn't been posted in in a minute. So I got a problem, and im not lookin for bullshit advice. I love my girl right, shes the strong independent type who doesn't ask for nothing or come with the irrational bullshit or immaturity or superficial nonsense a lot of these girls come with. We been dating for like 4 years and the feelings strong like always. Its the real deal, type of shit a lot of people wish they had. I have never known a more honest person besides the homie Al. Thing is, last summer she got on these anti-anxiety meds that made her gain too much, she wasn't fat per say, but she breached the limits of what I find attractive. Bout a 20lb gain on a 5'4ish girl. Shes loyal and all that shit, she'd stick by me if I was in her shoes, so I do the same for her, its not even her fault she gained the weight even it was the meds. So the past year shes been doing yoga, trying to take care of her body and shit, shes a vegetarian so she eats pretty healthy anyway, hitting the gym here and there. She made some good progress I thought she'd be ready too hit the beach again this summer but progress slowed way the fuck down and she picked up a couple lbs again, nothing crazy. Her lifes been a rollercoaster since she graduated college may 2012, moving too nyc, hating it, moving too boston, trying to get the right job, losing money, living with cunts she didn't even know, shes a hard worker who doesn't take short cuts and all this shit takin a toll on her. Now she finally just got an awesome job after a year of struggling. Back too the weight... Shes been working to get that back off again, but on the real everything else bout her is what I want, and I love her so much the thought of breaking something so rare and mature and gratifying off is mad painful, but its fucked up that I look at her and think damn she used too be more fine... I surprise myself that I could even get caught up on something so shallow. Its not like shorty became a whale its more like damn if she could just drop 10-15 more shit would be ideal.... 

I know this shit sounds like a joke but its a shitty ass situation too have this problem in an otherwise good relationship, cuz you know a womans weight is like that one off limit zone where if you feel any kinda way about it youre automatically an asshole. I tried to delicately explain too her today like, you know im not trying to tell you how too live but how you take care of yourself does effect me. I mean she got the message, but that shit is just sad for me too say and sad for her too hear. I feel like im being unreasonable with my standards and shit, cuz I expect her too be perfect, lady in the streets freak in the sheets, never asking me for money, never bothering me about what im doing when im not with her, never telling me how too live and shit, but always supporting me and loving me. I just miss that last piece where I could parade her around and show her off and shit like I used too. Physical attraction may be the shallowest part of a relationship but I can't help how much a value it. I don't know what advice there could be besides deal with it or shut the fuck up but if anyone has any kinda helpful perspective that'd be much appreciated. 
What you're feeling is perfectly normal IMO, you want your girl to look her best.  How did she respond when you told her?  If she's the sensitive type I think the best way to go about this is for you to hit the gym with her too (if you do already then take her with you)  Plus y'all can spend time together cooking up healthy meals, grocery shopping, running etc.  
  
July 7, 2013 @ 12:24 PM
i da pappi

Post: 6

Join Date: May 2012

whats up yall. i need help. theres this girl at my job that im catchin feelings for. shes like the perfect girl for me and everything. I really want to date her but i think she's already talkin to someone. on twitter the other day she's always talkin about some guy. for example, she be sayin how she likes talkin on the phone with him and how she likes it when he texts first and shit. she aint talkin about me on twitter cause i aint got the digits yet. we talk all the time at work and sometimes i think she catchin feelings for me. what should i do tho? should i still try to get at her even though she talkin to some dude?
July 7, 2013 @ 01:49 PM
tmwtg

Post: 3096

Join Date: Jun 2009

^ So you're following her on Twitter? Does she know it's you?

Hella strange, bruhbruh.
July 7, 2013 @ 02:19 PM
FIDEL CASHFLOW

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kbos, you shouldnt look at this as an unpleasant situation per se. You guys can hit the gym together, push eachother to the next level, hitting the gym together will make her lose weight AND you guys get to spend quality time together.

Leaving her is a stupid choice, you know she's not going to be on those anti anxiety pills forever so she will most likely not be fat forever. And believe me, if its really the type of relationship you just described, you gonna regret it for the rest of your life if you leave her and see her a few years later looking fine as back in the days

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July 7, 2013 @ 03:42 PM
Ron Swanson

Post: 61

Join Date: Apr 2012

Location: Bay Area, CA

kbos, you shouldnt look at this as an unpleasant situation per se. You guys can hit the gym together, push eachother to the next level, hitting the gym together will make her lose weight AND you guys get to spend quality time together.

Leaving her is a stupid choice, you know she's not going to be on those anti anxiety pills forever so she will most likely not be fat forever. And believe me, if its really the type of relationship you just described, you gonna regret it for the rest of your life if you leave her and see her a few years later looking fine as back in the days
this lol
July 7, 2013 @ 07:53 PM
smegmashark

Post: 192

Join Date: Mar 2013

Ok i need some advice fast. I recently broke up with my girlfriend because we were just bickering too much and our relationship was just too bi polar. I wanted to end things before we just completely hated eachother. She was my ideal girl, looks and personality. I already fucking miss her but i was the one to break up with her. I have some stuff i need to get from her house so ill see her again soon. Should i hit her up already or wait a while? Its been less than 5 days since we've broken up. Or should i just wait till i see her when i pick my stuff up and try to smash? I feel like a little bitch tbh right now for already missing her. She still likes my pics on instagram and shit and i know she still ha feelings. What do i do?
ASk her if its salty, then proceed to eat the ass.

http://yungcrunchy.tumblr.com/

July 7, 2013 @ 10:47 PM
i da pappi

Post: 6

Join Date: May 2012

^ So you're following her on Twitter? Does she know it's you?

Hella strange, bruhbruh.
yea she knows its me lol. she was the one that followed me first bro
July 8, 2013 @ 06:56 AM
kbos

Post: 2676

Join Date: May 2008

Location: boston

beastin and millz, appreciate the advice. Really I should cut the selfishness and be more helpful. As humans we always want more and want better and sometimes it can fuck up our expectations and judgements of our loved ones, but if someone is a true friend or a good woman or family you get through that shit cuz its worth it too have ppl in your circle you trust who have your back.
July 9, 2013 @ 01:11 AM

Inactive

if she'd die for you she's a keeper
July 9, 2013 @ 01:54 AM
tmwtg

Post: 3096

Join Date: Jun 2009

if she'd die for you she's a keeper
Very hard to prove that she'd die for you.
July 9, 2013 @ 10:19 PM

Inactive

why are relationships filled with insecurities?
July 9, 2013 @ 10:28 PM
B Low Brown

Post: 5478

Join Date: Mar 2010

Location: Eastlake

why are relationships filled with insecurities?
because people cant control their urges & people get cheated on more often than not nowadays

@b_low_brown Killerbrownies.tumblr.com

July 9, 2013 @ 10:31 PM
me>u

Post: 4897

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July 9, 2013 @ 10:41 PM
lesbiangirlscout

Post: 240

Join Date: Sep 2012

Location: long beach

Ok i need some advice fast. I recently broke up with my girlfriend because we were just bickering too much and our relationship was just too bi polar. I wanted to end things before we just completely hated eachother. She was my ideal girl, looks and personality. I already fucking miss her but i was the one to break up with her. I have some stuff i need to get from her house so ill see her again soon. Should i hit her up already or wait a while? Its been less than 5 days since we've broken up. Or should i just wait till i see her when i pick my stuff up and try to smash? I feel like a little bitch tbh right now for already missing her. She still likes my pics on instagram and shit and i know she still ha feelings. What do i do?
why did u break up in the first place? if it was that bad that you both couldnt talk about it and fix it then idk if you still wanna try to hook up with her again. instead of going over and just trying to smash you should both talk about how you both feel about each other because otherwise itll probably hurt your relationship even more

#hansumboyz

July 9, 2013 @ 10:43 PM
lesbiangirlscout

Post: 240

Join Date: Sep 2012

Location: long beach

whats up yall. i need help. theres this girl at my job that im catchin feelings for. shes like the perfect girl for me and everything. I really want to date her but i think she's already talkin to someone. on twitter the other day she's always talkin about some guy. for example, she be sayin how she likes talkin on the phone with him and how she likes it when he texts first and shit. she aint talkin about me on twitter cause i aint got the digits yet. we talk all the time at work and sometimes i think she catchin feelings for me. what should i do tho? should i still try to get at her even though she talkin to some dude?
if you know shes specifically  talking about another guy i wouldnt push it. Just be normal and not try to push anything on her. Get her number eventually and swoop on that lame ass nigga shes talking about and show her u got the biggest dick.

#hansumboyz

July 11, 2013 @ 03:10 AM
me>u

Post: 4897

Join Date: Feb 2009

Right person + Wrong time = Wrong person.

instagram: funthera

July 11, 2013 @ 04:05 AM
DrakeDaGOAT

Post: 627

Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: seattle WA

HB fam... I'm 18 ya boy just graduated high school  I've never had a girlfriend never even kissed a girl (smh) and I've just been feelin OD lonely recently. On top of that I literally have no self esteem. I want go out and talk to girls but I'm just really fucking bad at conversing and I lack social skills and just overall nervous around girls in general. I feel like girls just don't want an awkward dude who has no experience at all like why pick me over a cocky and confident dude who isnt known for being quiet you know?i honestly feel like I'm lightyears behind because most dudes got their nervousness/anxiety out the way when talking to girls in like middle school and I'm still here today with the same problem. Shit is mad depressing b I go to parties and just watch dudes put no effort into gaming girls and make it look so easy. I just don't know where/how to begin and now that I'm out of high school it's only gonna be harder


I feel like a bitch for writing this post but I'm just so lost

brvndon.tumblr.com

July 11, 2013 @ 04:14 AM
me>u

Post: 4897

Join Date: Feb 2009

HB fam... I'm 18 ya boy just graduated high school  I've never had a girlfriend never even kissed a girl (smh) and I've just been feelin OD lonely recently. On top of that I literally have no self esteem. I want go out and talk to girls but I'm just really fucking bad at conversing and I lack social skills and just overall nervous around girls in general. I feel like girls just don't want an awkward dude who has no experience at all like why pick me over a cocky and confident dude who isnt known for being quiet you know?i honestly feel like I'm lightyears behind because most dudes got their nervousness/anxiety out the way when talking to girls in like middle school and I'm still here today with the same problem. Shit is mad depressing b I go to parties and just watch dudes put no effort into gaming girls and make it look so easy. I just don't know where/how to begin and now that I'm out of high school it's only gonna be harder


I feel like a bitch for writing this post but I'm just so lost

didnt have my first gf and kiss till 18. dont sweat it too much and dont rush into shit.
someone will come one day. as for the nervous around girls thats ok too since i was nervous too but just make some friends that are females and that'll help a lot. not to mention they can help you introduce to someone.

just dont sweat it. your time willl come.

instagram: funthera

July 11, 2013 @ 04:49 AM
lesbiangirlscout

Post: 240

Join Date: Sep 2012

Location: long beach

HB fam... I'm 18 ya boy just graduated high school  I've never had a girlfriend never even kissed a girl (smh) and I've just been feelin OD lonely recently. On top of that I literally have no self esteem. I want go out and talk to girls but I'm just really fucking bad at conversing and I lack social skills and just overall nervous around girls in general. I feel like girls just don't want an awkward dude who has no experience at all like why pick me over a cocky and confident dude who isnt known for being quiet you know?i honestly feel like I'm lightyears behind because most dudes got their nervousness/anxiety out the way when talking to girls in like middle school and I'm still here today with the same problem. Shit is mad depressing b I go to parties and just watch dudes put no effort into gaming girls and make it look so easy. I just don't know where/how to begin and now that I'm out of high school it's only gonna be harder


I feel like a bitch for writing this post but I'm just so lost
its all good, just be social and shit you will get better and know what to say. Ive sucked ass at getting girls til i was like 18 and finally smashed when i was 19 took forever but just know everyones different and lives a different life just cuz other fools have it sooner doesnt mean you will too it just takes time and practice. oh and be yourself bitches luv dat

#hansumboyz

July 11, 2013 @ 05:26 AM
DrakeDaGOAT

Post: 627

Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: seattle WA

damn the fact that you guys still have hope for me while I've given up on myself is coolcool
thanks for all the advice I'm definitely gonna use it and go from there

brvndon.tumblr.com

July 11, 2013 @ 06:00 AM
i da pappi

Post: 6

Join Date: May 2012

whats up yall. i need help. theres this girl at my job that im catchin feelings for. shes like the perfect girl for me and everything. I really want to date her but i think she's already talkin to someone. on twitter the other day she's always talkin about some guy. for example, she be sayin how she likes talkin on the phone with him and how she likes it when he texts first and shit. she aint talkin about me on twitter cause i aint got the digits yet. we talk all the time at work and sometimes i think she catchin feelings for me. what should i do tho? should i still try to get at her even though she talkin to some dude?
if you know shes specifically  talking about another guy i wouldnt push it. Just be normal and not try to push anything on her. Get her number eventually and swoop on that lame ass nigga shes talking about and show her u got the biggest dick.
Thanks for the good advice my dude. i appreciate it.
July 11, 2013 @ 06:12 AM
zeus

Post: 48

Join Date: Jul 2013

Location: san francisco

HB fam... I'm 18 ya boy just graduated high school  I've never had a girlfriend never even kissed a girl (smh) and I've just been feelin OD lonely recently. On top of that I literally have no self esteem. I want go out and talk to girls but I'm just really fucking bad at conversing and I lack social skills and just overall nervous around girls in general. I feel like girls just don't want an awkward dude who has no experience at all like why pick me over a cocky and confident dude who isnt known for being quiet you know?i honestly feel like I'm lightyears behind because most dudes got their nervousness/anxiety out the way when talking to girls in like middle school and I'm still here today with the same problem. Shit is mad depressing b I go to parties and just watch dudes put no effort into gaming girls and make it look so easy. I just don't know where/how to begin and now that I'm out of high school it's only gonna be harder


I feel like a bitch for writing this post but I'm just so lost
DO YOU BOO BOO
July 11, 2013 @ 06:33 AM
Mr_Chukes

Post: 2263

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: California

HB fam... I'm 18 ya boy just graduated high school  I've never had a girlfriend never even kissed a girl (smh) and I've just been feelin OD lonely recently. On top of that I literally have no self esteem. I want go out and talk to girls but I'm just really fucking bad at conversing and I lack social skills and just overall nervous around girls in general. I feel like girls just don't want an awkward dude who has no experience at all like why pick me over a cocky and confident dude who isnt known for being quiet you know?i honestly feel like I'm lightyears behind because most dudes got their nervousness/anxiety out the way when talking to girls in like middle school and I'm still here today with the same problem. Shit is mad depressing b I go to parties and just watch dudes put no effort into gaming girls and make it look so easy. I just don't know where/how to begin and now that I'm out of high school it's only gonna be harder


I feel like a bitch for writing this post but I'm just so lost
You just got to realize that bitches ain't shit. A girl is not better than you and you don't have to be worthy to talk to her. 
July 11, 2013 @ 06:42 AM
lesbiangirlscout

Post: 240

Join Date: Sep 2012

Location: long beach

HB fam... I'm 18 ya boy just graduated high school  I've never had a girlfriend never even kissed a girl (smh) and I've just been feelin OD lonely recently. On top of that I literally have no self esteem. I want go out and talk to girls but I'm just really fucking bad at conversing and I lack social skills and just overall nervous around girls in general. I feel like girls just don't want an awkward dude who has no experience at all like why pick me over a cocky and confident dude who isnt known for being quiet you know?i honestly feel like I'm lightyears behind because most dudes got their nervousness/anxiety out the way when talking to girls in like middle school and I'm still here today with the same problem. Shit is mad depressing b I go to parties and just watch dudes put no effort into gaming girls and make it look so easy. I just don't know where/how to begin and now that I'm out of high school it's only gonna be harder


I feel like a bitch for writing this post but I'm just so lost
You just got to realize that bitches ain't shit. A girl is not better than you and you don't have to be worthy to talk to her. 
thats just silly thinking, theyre equal to you. the second part is correct women are no different than men and realizing that can really help your confidence and social skills around women.

#hansumboyz

July 11, 2013 @ 06:46 AM
Mr_Chukes

Post: 2263

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: California

The second part implies your first statement.  
July 11, 2013 @ 06:50 AM
lesbiangirlscout

Post: 240

Join Date: Sep 2012

Location: long beach

The second part implies your first statement.  
i know i know, it was just the first part was like bitches aint shit and i thought u meant they were beneath you, just felt like clarifying my baaaadd yo

#hansumboyz

July 11, 2013 @ 10:49 AM
Virunga

Post: 1283

Join Date: Jul 2008

Location: USA

HB fam... I'm 18 ya boy just graduated high school  I've never had a girlfriend never even kissed a girl (smh) and I've just been feelin OD lonely recently. On top of that I literally have no self esteem. I want go out and talk to girls but I'm just really fucking bad at conversing and I lack social skills and just overall nervous around girls in general. I feel like girls just don't want an awkward dude who has no experience at all like why pick me over a cocky and confident dude who isnt known for being quiet you know?i honestly feel like I'm lightyears behind because most dudes got their nervousness/anxiety out the way when talking to girls in like middle school and I'm still here today with the same problem. Shit is mad depressing b I go to parties and just watch dudes put no effort into gaming girls and make it look so easy. I just don't know where/how to begin and now that I'm out of high school it's only gonna be harder


I feel like a bitch for writing this post but I'm just so lost
I feel u man 

All I gotta say is 

Alcohol, alcohol, alcohol, alcohol, alcohol, alcohol, alcohol, alcohol, alcohol, alcohol, alcohol!!

Get shit faced at parties until u forget about yourself then talk to mad girls and find one thats on your level and go in. 

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