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April 4, 2013 @ 06:25 AM
bengrimm83

Post: 175

Join Date: Dec 2012

so what does it mean when a girl doesnt text back? she text me first a couple days before but then she stopped a day ago???
she aint interested bruh. no need to complicate it. keep it movin
dam just like that?? she was the flirting with me first tho
you can try the double text if shes worth it in your eyes.. but if you constantly find yourself double texting call it quits. but not texting back in the first place is a telltale sign of disinterest
nah i dont do the double text i rather just wait if not fuck it
April 4, 2013 @ 05:19 PM
kbos

Post: 2676

Join Date: May 2008

Location: boston

My girlfriend use to always tell me that she allowed me to do things and that she owned me. Also tell me I couldn't do stuff as a joke. Now she is like whatever you want, we aren't propery, we are our own people. She doesn't say she allows me. Is this something to think about or am I over thinking? 

Edit: probably an overreaction. Her actions towards me are still the same. 
Drop that cunt
April 4, 2013 @ 05:19 PM
kbos

Post: 2676

Join Date: May 2008

Location: boston

Hi, what do I do if my girlfriend of 2 and a half years suddenly says I'm not making enough effort and then when I do attempt to make a bit more effort (cuddle her more, take her out more) she say's that the actions are forced?
What a cunt
April 4, 2013 @ 05:40 PM
Mr_Chukes

Post: 2266

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: California

Hi, what do I do if my girlfriend of 2 and a half years suddenly says I'm not making enough effort and then when I do attempt to make a bit more effort (cuddle her more, take her out more) she say's that the actions are forced?
Update on this, everything I do seems to be forced and fake, she said we should spend a few days apart and then go out for something to eat after the few days to talk things over and sort it all out. Although as we were having the 'few days break' she went to the cinema with another guy just as friends but I'm not going to let that shit pass, what do I do? Is she taking me for a fool? Keep in mind this is a 2 and a half year relationship and things just seemed to pop up out of nowhere about her saying I don't make enough effort.
Yeah drop her. She only wanted the break to see if she would like th other dude. Find yourself a better girl. 
April 4, 2013 @ 05:44 PM
kbos

Post: 2676

Join Date: May 2008

Location: boston

@ everyone who responded to me on the last page. I was trippin of that nostalgia and that liquor. feels weird man. you guys are right though appreciate the confirmation.
April 4, 2013 @ 05:50 PM
Pantic

Post: 3271

Join Date: Jan 2010

Location: The basement

Man i love my girl and all, shes great when im with her but soon as we aren't she annoys the shit out of me...
She texts and calls and texts and calls and i get no space at all, i need a little time to kick back and chill with the homies or play some video games but i gotta have my phone in hand all the damn time. Whats a good way to make her stop this?
April 4, 2013 @ 05:59 PM
Mr_Chukes

Post: 2266

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: California

Man i love my girl and all, shes great when im with her but soon as we aren't she annoys the shit out of me...
She texts and calls and texts and calls and i get no space at all, i need a little time to kick back and chill with the homies or play some video games but i gotta have my phone in hand all the damn time. Whats a good way to make her stop this?
Bro my girl is the same. We text all day and she calls me or I call her at night. You don't make her stop bro. You deal with it. She's just interested in you and wants to know how you're doing. Just space out your text a little when yiu are with your friends. If she notices tell her that you wanted to give your friend some attention because you apraeky hang with them now. It only takes two seconds to text back. 
April 4, 2013 @ 06:00 PM
Ruthless

Post: 1978

Join Date: Oct 2012

Man i love my girl and all, shes great when im with her but soon as we aren't she annoys the shit out of me...
She texts and calls and texts and calls and i get no space at all, i need a little time to kick back and chill with the homies or play some video games but i gotta have my phone in hand all the damn time. Whats a good way to make her stop this?
she got accustomed to you texting back quick. cut it out for a while & eventually she'll get off your back about it

Let me see those downvotes

April 5, 2013 @ 01:07 AM
bengrimm83

Post: 175

Join Date: Dec 2012

dam man i feel disappointed yet not surprised i guess 
April 5, 2013 @ 08:11 PM
ThatGuyBars

Post: 801

Join Date: Jun 2012

Location: The depths of the 14...

Yep that was just it. Now she doesnt know who she wants, me or the other guy. At this point i still like her but she playing too much. The other nigga NOW wants to get serious, but they've been arguing and all that shit. Just drop her HB?

Ayyy!-Fonzie

April 6, 2013 @ 01:21 AM
Mr_Chukes

Post: 2266

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: California

You ever have to friendzone a dude for your girlfriend?
i mean like this dude was trying to walk my girl to class. She told him she was meeting up with someone. Nigga didn't get the hint. I saw her come up. I came gave her a kiss and started waking with her. As soon as the dude saw the kiss he bounced and swerved. 
April 7, 2013 @ 04:18 AM
dvzr0

Post: 70

Join Date: Nov 2012

girl i stopped talking to a few weeks up ago booty called me up at 1am in the morning. "well im at a kickback. But i totally believe we should hang! " i still have some interest in her, so am i just a fuck buddy? or can i turn this into somehting more.
it was going all good, i asked her to lunch. On the day of the lunch, she texts me 30 minutes before sayings shes too "hungover" and suggests for coffee later. i agree and i haven't heard from her in 2 days. so is she interested or not? she hit me up first and then i get stood up. shits frustrating.
she wants to keep you on the hook but she's not really interested
April 7, 2013 @ 06:11 AM
JEANPAULDAVINCI

Post: 1605

Join Date: Apr 2012

Location: 916

girl i stopped talking to a few weeks up ago booty called me up at 1am in the morning. "well im at a kickback. But i totally believe we should hang! " i still have some interest in her, so am i just a fuck buddy? or can i turn this into somehting more.
it was going all good, i asked her to lunch. On the day of the lunch, she texts me 30 minutes before sayings shes too "hungover" and suggests for coffee later. i agree and i haven't heard from her in 2 days. so is she interested or not? she hit me up first and then i get stood up. shits frustrating.
she wants to keep you on the hook but she's not really interested
what would be the purpose of that.
other options.So if some shit goes bad with other dudes she'll turn to u as a 2 or who knows maybe 13th option.  id ditch if i were u 
April 7, 2013 @ 08:18 PM
bengrimm83

Post: 175

Join Date: Dec 2012

so tomorrow imma run into that girl that stopped texting me and i know im suppose to act like nothing happened but do i like text her today or anything? you know like ey you have class tomorrow or something also on friday their was a show that was suppose to be by her pad but i stayed cuz i had to finish my essay and email it in when i see do i ask if she went or anything not really in to mind fucking people
April 9, 2013 @ 01:01 AM
ThatGuyBars

Post: 801

Join Date: Jun 2012

Location: The depths of the 14...

Fuck it fuck that she chose the other nigga, feels right now, tomorrow imma be good.
EDIT: All good no feels,  cant wait till shit blow up in her face tho

Ayyy!-Fonzie

April 9, 2013 @ 02:29 PM
Mr_Chukes

Post: 2266

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: California

@kbos check your pms fam. 
April 9, 2013 @ 05:11 PM
Belak

Post: 1025

Join Date: Mar 2011

In a dilemma here where I feel like I have no control of my
situation, help me out fam. So I dated my friend for 4 months over this last Spring/Summer. She
goes to school in Reno but has been in Spain for the year to study abroad and
is coming back next month. We both agreed to put things on hold while she was away as difficult as it was. We skype a few times a month and have brought upthe topic several times. Initially I was starting to lose interest in her as
she has been away for so long and now I™m getting stoked that she'™s coming back
whereas with her it™s vice versa. She says that she loves being with me but isn'™t
sure if she wants to commit to a relationship right away she wants to take it slow. I mean it makes sense
considering that we've been away for so long you are naturally going to lose interest.
She's pretty confused on what she wants to do next year, I know she has
considered transferring schools back home but a lot of her credits wouldn'™t ine up so it would be inconvenient. Registration is coming up and I think she
might have to stay in Reno. But we both don'™t want to deal with a long distance relationship.This is all just sucks because she left right when our relationship was going strong and it paused with no real closure. I want to be
with her and I know she still has feelings for me but I'™m not sure if it'™s enough for her stay. I nearly feel powerless in this situation considering a
big portion of this is dependent on whether she can transfer over here to
Seattle or not.  

Edit: hb fucking up my post
April 9, 2013 @ 06:54 PM
thatkidcisco

Post: 43

Join Date: Dec 2011

Location: California

@Belak 
Similar thing happened to me but I was the one that went abroad. This girl and me started talking and we really liked each other, but we started talking right before I left, like a month before. We both knew it wasn't a good idea to get into a relationship and then 2 weeks I would be gone. So I left, we left things kinda open, possibility of trying it again when I came back. But over the course of 6 months shit just changes. Feeling go away. I was still down to try it again but she had lost interest. We both moved on. Going abroad messes with you bad, has a big impact on how you feel emotionally. All I can say is to give her some time and space. Let her adjust back to being back in the states. I myself had a hard time coming back. Speaking from experience we just don't know what we want. Some of the girls in the program that had BFs were in an open relationship or they just broke up with them while abroad. Just stay in there and hopefully everything works out with you and this girl. 
April 10, 2013 @ 12:40 AM
ThatGuyBars

Post: 801

Join Date: Jun 2012

Location: The depths of the 14...

Fuck those last two posts HB fam, help me wrap my head around this. So this girl says she loves me and i say lets go out, she say she not ready. So a week later she hooks up with another dude. I get mad she comes out saying i was too late. Wtf to do?
EDIT: One of my plans is to fuck with her head since i moved on and break her heart. She say she still loves me. Can you believe that shit? What imma do is when they break up, come be a savior, and tell her straight up fuck you. I think i caught feels.

Ayyy!-Fonzie

April 10, 2013 @ 02:02 AM
Josh.

Post: 3550

Join Date: Apr 2008

you did catch feels

get over it and find another girl

Lil JoJo : i really want rizal! 13:10

April 10, 2013 @ 03:29 AM
its_BJ

Post: 1530

Join Date: Oct 2008

Location: Philly

help sad
girlfriend. we both like each other a lot. argue a lot a lot. I love her a lot, but sick of hurting her feelings every week. I all about being positive. I would rather just be friends. She'll rather work on the relationship. but we are both stubborn and its clearly not gonna work out. She is such a happy girl when im with her, but turns into a witch when im away. we live a hour away from each other, so we see each mostly once a week.
What should I do? I want to just be friends to stop all the negativity.
April 10, 2013 @ 03:50 AM
Knxwledge

Post: 619

Join Date: May 2012

Location: Cal

help
girlfriend. we both like each other a lot. argue a lot a lot. I love her a lot, but sick of hurting her feelings every week. I all about being positive. I would rather just be friends. She'll rather work on the relationship. but we are both stubborn and its clearly not gonna work out. She is such a happy girl when im with her, but turns into a witch when im away. we live a hour away from each other, so we see each mostly once a week.
What should I do? I want to just be friends to stop all the negativity.
just drop it and be friends with her. its because of dat trust issues man. give her space and make her think through
April 10, 2013 @ 04:04 AM
PERFECT WHITE MALE

Post: 1039

Join Date: May 2011

Location: hell

help
girlfriend. we both like each other a lot. argue a lot a lot. I love her a lot, but sick of hurting her feelings every week. I all about being positive. I would rather just be friends. She'll rather work on the relationship. but we are both stubborn and its clearly not gonna work out. She is such a happy girl when im with her, but turns into a witch when im away. we live a hour away from each other, so we see each mostly once a week.
What should I do? I want to just be friends to stop all the negativity.
just drop it and be friends with her. its because of dat trust issues man. give her space and make her think through
oh wait wrong dude
April 15, 2013 @ 03:21 PM
Mr_Chukes

Post: 2266

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: California

Anyone's girl ever give them the cold shoulder. How do you deal with it? I just try to ignore it, give her space, and enjoy my life. 
April 23, 2013 @ 10:28 AM
Pantic

Post: 3271

Join Date: Jan 2010

Location: The basement

Just woke up from a dream where i was banging my ex girlfriend while being with my current one, and it felt so good. I would definetly do the same if i could in real life
April 24, 2013 @ 03:32 AM
bengrimm83

Post: 175

Join Date: Dec 2012

has any of the advice ever given on here ever actually help someone?
April 24, 2013 @ 04:40 AM
JEANPAULDAVINCI

Post: 1605

Join Date: Apr 2012

Location: 916

help
girlfriend. we both like each other a lot. argue a lot a lot. I love her a lot, but sick of hurting her feelings every week. I all about being positive. I would rather just be friends. She'll rather work on the relationship. but we are both stubborn and its clearly not gonna work out. She is such a happy girl when im with her, but turns into a witch when im away. we live a hour away from each other, so we see each mostly once a week.
What should I do? I want to just be friends to stop all the negativity.

bust a nut post it on hb then leave her
April 24, 2013 @ 02:25 PM
Mr_Chukes

Post: 2266

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: California

has any of the advice ever given on here ever actually help someone?
Yeah once I posted is it bad to over think and kbos gave me some real good advice and I stopped. It was all fine. 
April 24, 2013 @ 03:36 PM
unoedoe

Post: 312

Join Date: Jul 2012

has any of the advice ever given on here ever actually help someone?
That's beauty of this thread. HB brethren come together with their knowledge and perspectives to help each other. We all have advice to give and share with one another. But, it is advice-nothing more. Each situation and result is unique. No one knows the situation better than you and the decision is ultimately up to you.
April 29, 2013 @ 05:34 AM
bengrimm83

Post: 175

Join Date: Dec 2012

has any of the advice ever given on here ever actually help someone?
That's beauty of this thread. HB brethren come together with their knowledge and perspectives to help each other. We all have advice to give and share with one another. But, it is advice-nothing more. Each situation and result is unique. No one knows the situation better than you and the decision is ultimately up to you.
i guess every situation is unique and we dont know both sides of every story told in this thread so i guess all the advice giving is take at own risk

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