The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread - Page 124

March 8, 2013 @ 05:23 AM

kdubb44

Post: 1126

Join Date: Apr 2012

Location: 916

Man i dated this one bitch a loooong time ago. We broke up and i was heartbroken fam, like listening to marvin's room with no irony type sad. Long story short she got a boyfriend and i fucked everything that wasnt a 5 or below. But man i just can't shake her completely. Even now, every time i run into her at the club or see a pic of her instagram or some shit i get caught up in the past... Have i become what i hated the most, a simp?

nah b u goign through that recession time. Just go and cop youself some box logo and make yourself feel better. But honestly avoid social media or going to the same club too often. Meet girls at school, malls, etc where u can actually start a real relationship.

March 8, 2013 @ 06:25 PM

kbos

Post: 1909

Join Date: May 2008

Location: boston

^
@ pantic

havin feelins for a woman aint simpin, its part of life, its part of bein a man. Even a stone cold pimp puts a little love and soul in his step. Simpin is when you handle your feelings like a bitch, or play yourself by being unjustifiably over-emotional for lack of rational self control, simpin is thirst, simpin is putting the pussy on a pedestal. That doesn't sound like it applies to your situation, and time will fix your issue, so just enjoy life while time takes its course, enjoy other women, and give as little fucks about that female from your past in the mean time.

Also, one thing that always works, socializing with a dime, and on the low at a party or some shit you'll probably both be at, bringing her around the ex and keeping it cool like you have no interest in the ol' girl. Ol' girl will catch feelings and you'll feel like a boss.

March 8, 2013 @ 10:36 PM

radap

Post: 1

Join Date: Mar 2013

My girl of 7 years called it off about a month ago, we still live together and I still feel like she's still feeling me. The reason she called quits was because I wasn't showing her enough affection, I did many things and showed love other ways but it wasn't the way she wanted, I didn't take notice until it was too late. I know what the issues were now and I wanna give it another try, at the moment I'm not contacting her or anything to allow her some space and allow some time for her to actually miss me and get her mind straight but the problem is we still live together and it's difficult. It just hard getting through this.

March 11, 2013 @ 06:30 PM

Mr_Chukes

Post: 1802

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: California

met this girl at a party. Smoked some weed together. She said she found a "smoking buddy" and i askd for her number. whats next?

Chill with her and smoke with her of course. Flirt a little and see where it takes you.

March 12, 2013 @ 07:07 AM

.AG23.

Post: 666

Join Date: Sep 2007

My girl of 7 years called it off about a month ago, we still live together and I still feel like she's still feeling me. The reason she called quits was because I wasn't showing her enough affection, I did many things and showed love other ways but it wasn't the way she wanted, I didn't take notice until it was too late. I know what the issues were now and I wanna give it another try, at the moment I'm not contacting her or anything to allow her some space and allow some time for her to actually miss me and get her mind straight but the problem is we still live together and it's difficult. It just hard getting through this.

dead at you making another account for this you gay nigga. anyway, 7 years bruh. Shes not about to throw that away especially when you think shes acting like shes feeling you. tbh you gotta get your simp game proper. Tell her youll do better then prove youll do better. Biggest mistake is making it up to her then getting comfortable again.

March 13, 2013 @ 03:34 AM

zerimar

Post: 120

Join Date: Sep 2012

When I was 8 I dated this one bitch that I would take to my crib and eat some cereal as soon as I ran out of cereal she never came back. It's all about currency.

March 15, 2013 @ 04:28 AM

jmamasboy

Post: 204

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: Socal

DID I FUCK UP?

so i met this girl at a party, got her number and we texted back and forward for the first couple of days. She invited me to go drink with her and go with her to a rave, but decline because i was busy on those days. we stopped talking for a new days and i ask her to go study with me cause its finals week in college

me: going home this weekend?
her: no

finals
me: Lets go study together!!
her: hm. we could
me: i'm going home today to saturday morning. so probably saturday night okay?!
her: O.o k we'll see!
me: kk!
her: :0 you should bring back some good food hehe
me: heh. "we'll see"
her: k Have fun at home! :D

shes being hella confusing. did i fuck up?

wear what you want because fuck everyone else.

March 15, 2013 @ 11:50 AM

Ferdi

Post: 551

Join Date: Aug 2010

DID I FUCK UP?

so i met this girl at a party, got her number and we texted back and forward for the first couple of days. She invited me to go drink with her and go with her to a rave, but decline because i was busy on those days. we stopped talking for a new days and i ask her to go study with me cause its finals week in college

me: going home this weekend?
her: no finals
me: Lets go study together!!
her: hm. we could
me: i'm going home today to saturday morning. so probably saturday night okay?!
her: O.o k we'll see!
me: kk!
her: :0 you should bring back some good food hehe
me: heh. "we'll see"
her: k Have fun at home! :D

shes being hella confusing. did i fuck up?

bruh... you better go meet with her on saturday to see how things are. I cant advice you on this short as shit. if you fucked up she wouldnt have asked you to bring good food. so update us on monday and then you will know

March 16, 2013 @ 12:00 AM

VLCMx

Post: 11

Join Date: Mar 2013

DID I FUCK UP?

so i met this girl at a party, got her number and we texted back and forward for the first couple of days. She invited me to go drink with her and go with her to a rave, but decline because i was busy on those days. we stopped talking for a new days and i ask her to go study with me cause its finals week in college

me: going home this weekend?
her: no finals
me: Lets go study together!!
her: hm. we could
me: i'm going home today to saturday morning. so probably saturday night okay?!
her: O.o k we'll see!
me: kk!
her: :0 you should bring back some good food hehe
me: heh. "we'll see"
her: k Have fun at home! :D

shes being hella confusing. did i fuck up?

She said she'll see if she can study with you. She also joked and said bring her some good food since you would be coming back from home and home cooked meals are usually good. Then she says have fun on your trip back home. How is she being confusing? And if you messed up, she wouldn't be nice to you or be sending you smiley faces.

March 16, 2013 @ 12:04 AM

jmamasboy

Post: 204

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: Socal

DID I FUCK UP?

so i met this girl at a party, got her number and we texted back and forward for the first couple of days. She invited me to go drink with her and go with her to a rave, but decline because i was busy on those days. we stopped talking for a new days and i ask her to go study with me cause its finals week in college

me: going home this weekend?
her: no finals
me: Lets go study together!!
her: hm. we could
me: i'm going home today to saturday morning. so probably saturday night okay?!
her: O.o k we'll see!
me: kk!
her: :0 you should bring back some good food hehe
me: heh. "we'll see"
her: k Have fun at home! :D

shes being hella confusing. did i fuck up?
She said she'll see if she can study with you. She also joked and said bring her some good food since you would be coming back from home and home cooked meals are usually good. Then she says have fun on your trip back home. How is she being confusing? And if you messed up, she wouldn't be nice to you or be sending you smiley faces.

with the "o.O" it seems that she is surprised or weirded out that i aasked her to study

wear what you want because fuck everyone else.

March 16, 2013 @ 12:37 AM

EL_Guapo

Post: 882

Join Date: Feb 2012

Location: California

has anyonenhere felt bad after cheating on their GF? my last relationship ended on a bad note but she still doesnt know i fucked one of her friends
i feel like shit
idk how to deal with this
I had a good girl but still was addicted to the hoodrats, word to Kanye

OC CASANOVA : the only acceptable piercing on a guy is a tongue ring rt Enzoo : if u getting ya tongue pierce u suckin dick male or female

March 16, 2013 @ 01:03 AM

jmamasboy

Post: 204

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: Socal

has anyonenhere felt bad after cheating on their GF? my last relationship ended on a bad note but she still doesnt know i fucked one of her friends
i feel like shit
idk how to deal with this
I had a good girl but still was addicted to the hoodrats, word to Kanye

ignorance is bliss yo. its just gonna get worse if you fess up

wear what you want because fuck everyone else.

March 16, 2013 @ 01:23 AM

VLCMx

Post: 11

Join Date: Mar 2013

DID I FUCK UP?

so i met this girl at a party, got her number and we texted back and forward for the first couple of days. She invited me to go drink with her and go with her to a rave, but decline because i was busy on those days. we stopped talking for a new days and i ask her to go study with me cause its finals week in college

me: going home this weekend?
her: no finals
me: Lets go study together!!
her: hm. we could
me: i'm going home today to saturday morning. so probably saturday night okay?!
her: O.o k we'll see!
me: kk!
her: :0 you should bring back some good food hehe
me: heh. "we'll see"
her: k Have fun at home! :D

shes being hella confusing. did i fuck up?
She said she'll see if she can study with you. She also joked and said bring her some good food since you would be coming back from home and home cooked meals are usually good. Then she says have fun on your trip back home. How is she being confusing? And if you messed up, she wouldn't be nice to you or be sending you smiley faces.
with the "o.O" it seems that she is surprised or weirded out that i aasked her to study

Nah but probably cause you made it sound like a study date since it'd be at night; might've thrown her off. But nevertheless you didn't do anything wrong and she's still cool with you so it's all good.

March 16, 2013 @ 05:22 AM

.AG23.

Post: 666

Join Date: Sep 2007

has anyonenhere felt bad after cheating on their GF? my last relationship ended on a bad note but she still doesnt know i fucked one of her friends
i feel like shit
idk how to deal with this
I had a good girl but still was addicted to the hoodrats, word to Kanye

been there. The guilt ate me up, so I had to "man up and tell my girl because she deserved to know" when in reality i just wanted to feel better about myself. started in 08 went off and on, few girls in between, few guys for her and 5 years later we're together without ever having been apart for more than a few months. simp game jacobsever.

March 17, 2013 @ 01:32 AM

jmamasboy

Post: 204

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: Socal

DID I FUCK UP?

so i met this girl at a party, got her number and we texted back and forward for the first couple of days. She invited me to go drink with her and go with her to a rave, but decline because i was busy on those days. we stopped talking for a new days and i ask her to go study with me cause its finals week in college

me: going home this weekend?
her: no finals
me: Lets go study together!!
her: hm. we could
me: i'm going home today to saturday morning. so probably saturday night okay?!
her: O.o k we'll see!
me: kk!
her: :0 you should bring back some good food hehe
me: heh. "we'll see"
her: k Have fun at home! :D

shes being hella confusing. did i fuck up?
She said she'll see if she can study with you. She also joked and said bring her some good food since you would be coming back from home and home cooked meals are usually good. Then she says have fun on your trip back home. How is she being confusing? And if you messed up, she wouldn't be nice to you or be sending you smiley faces.
with the "o.O" it seems that she is surprised or weirded out that i aasked her to study
Nah but probably cause you made it sound like a study date since it'd be at night; might've thrown her off. But nevertheless you didn't do anything wrong and she's still cool with you so it's all good.

So when i got back, i brought back some boba(idk if you know what that is) and i texted her.

Me: Guess What
Her: Whatt
Me: Are you thirsty?

Her: Boba right? LOL just saw your insta
Me: Yeah! you wanted one right?
Her: maybe!

are you back at school already?
Me: Yeah! but im eating with hallmates atm
Her: O.o its cool
Me: KK

im started to think shes not interested...i go out of my way to do something nice. (simping)...

wear what you want because fuck everyone else.

March 17, 2013 @ 02:50 AM

kumonoy

Post: 70

Join Date: Jan 2013

okay so this one girl from my class just started being nice to me the other day. i have a feeling that shes into me and i think shes really cute too. I wanna talk to her but how. Im not a good flirter but what can i do to plant seeds in her brain that im interested but at the same time not have weird awkward conversations come out of my mouth cos thts guna fuck my ego up. How HB???

-no game betamale (at least i admit)...and fuck john

March 17, 2013 @ 03:01 AM

kumonoy

Post: 70

Join Date: Jan 2013

okay so this one girl from my class just started being nice to me the other day. i have a feeling that shes into me and i think shes really cute too. I wanna talk to her but how. Im not a good flirter but what can i do to plant seeds in her brain that im interested but at the same time not have weird awkward conversations come out of my mouth cos thts guna fuck my ego up. How HB???

-no game betamale (at least i admit)...and fuck john

maria i hope you dont see thiss but if you do...i love.. youuu

March 17, 2013 @ 10:50 AM

Yee.

Post: 140

Join Date: Apr 2009

Location: Fairfield, Ca

DID I FUCK UP?

so i met this girl at a party, got her number and we texted back and forward for the first couple of days. She invited me to go drink with her and go with her to a rave, but decline because i was busy on those days. we stopped talking for a new days and i ask her to go study with me cause its finals week in college

me: going home this weekend?
her: no finals
me: Lets go study together!!
her: hm. we could
me: i'm going home today to saturday morning. so probably saturday night okay?!
her: O.o k we'll see!
me: kk!
her: :0 you should bring back some good food hehe
me: heh. "we'll see"
her: k Have fun at home! :D

shes being hella confusing. did i fuck up?

you fucked up.
you asked to study w her (hangout)
she says "ok, we'll see" because she being coy and not easy.
she says to bring back good food, in other words, "bring good food to eat when we hangout.." (she can be uping the ante. .. making it into afood date)
you say, "heh,,," scoffing, "we'll see.." you sound unsure so shes feels you are uninterested
"have fun at home" in other words, have fun jacking off and eating alone you oblivious dickweed.

.

March 17, 2013 @ 11:42 AM

luxmvmnt

Post: 16

Join Date: Feb 2013

Location: Miami, FL

DID I FUCK UP?

so i met this girl at a party, got her number and we texted back and forward for the first couple of days. She invited me to go drink with her and go with her to a rave, but decline because i was busy on those days. we stopped talking for a new days and i ask her to go study with me cause its finals week in college

me: going home this weekend?
her: no finals
me: Lets go study together!!
her: hm. we could
me: i'm going home today to saturday morning. so probably saturday night okay?!
her: O.o k we'll see!
me: kk!
her: :0 you should bring back some good food hehe
me: heh. "we'll see"
her: k Have fun at home! :D

shes being hella confusing. did i fuck up?
She said she'll see if she can study with you. She also joked and said bring her some good food since you would be coming back from home and home cooked meals are usually good. Then she says have fun on your trip back home. How is she being confusing? And if you messed up, she wouldn't be nice to you or be sending you smiley faces.
with the "o.O" it seems that she is surprised or weirded out that i aasked her to study
Nah but probably cause you made it sound like a study date since it'd be at night; might've thrown her off. But nevertheless you didn't do anything wrong and she's still cool with you so it's all good.
So when i got back, i brought back some boba(idk if you know what that is) and i texted her.

Me: Guess What
Her: Whatt
Me: Are you thirsty?
Her: Boba right? LOL just saw your insta
Me: Yeah! you wanted one right?
Her: maybe! are you back at school already?
Me: Yeah! but im eating with hallmates atm
Her: O.o its cool
Me: KK

im started to think shes not interested...i go out of my way to do something nice. (simping)...

Honestly, (coming from a girl's perspective) you are kind of an awkward texter. You make yourself seem unavailable, and may give mixed feelings. Your convo just seems forced. The first time, she showed interest in saying "you should bring back some food," but you killed the conversation with "heh. "we'll see." Where was she supposed to go from there, but to dismiss the conversation?

The second time, she showed interest again asking if you were at school, but you seemed to be unavailable when you said you were with other people. A simple 'yeah, do you want to chill later?" would have been to the point. It would have showed her that you want to settle in, but are interested in seeing her later and provides more continuous conversation than telling her what you're busy doing.

Try to keep the conversations natural, and give her some space to move the conversation.

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March 17, 2013 @ 11:55 AM

Ferdi

Post: 551

Join Date: Aug 2010

^ THIS
10char

March 17, 2013 @ 03:51 PM

jmamasboy

Post: 204

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: Socal

DID I FUCK UP?

so i met this girl at a party, got her number and we texted back and forward for the first couple of days. She invited me to go drink with her and go with her to a rave, but decline because i was busy on those days. we stopped talking for a new days and i ask her to go study with me cause its finals week in college

me: going home this weekend?
her: no finals
me: Lets go study together!!
her: hm. we could
me: i'm going home today to saturday morning. so probably saturday night okay?!
her: O.o k we'll see!
me: kk!
her: :0 you should bring back some good food hehe
me: heh. "we'll see"
her: k Have fun at home! :D

shes being hella confusing. did i fuck up?
She said she'll see if she can study with you. She also joked and said bring her some good food since you would be coming back from home and home cooked meals are usually good. Then she says have fun on your trip back home. How is she being confusing? And if you messed up, she wouldn't be nice to you or be sending you smiley faces.
with the "o.O" it seems that she is surprised or weirded out that i aasked her to study
Nah but probably cause you made it sound like a study date since it'd be at night; might've thrown her off. But nevertheless you didn't do anything wrong and she's still cool with you so it's all good.
So when i got back, i brought back some boba(idk if you know what that is) and i texted her.

Me: Guess What
Her: Whatt
Me: Are you thirsty?
Her: Boba right? LOL just saw your insta
Me: Yeah! you wanted one right?
Her: maybe! are you back at school already?
Me: Yeah! but im eating with hallmates atm
Her: O.o its cool
Me: KK

im started to think shes not interested...i go out of my way to do something nice. (simping)...
Honestly, (coming from a girl's perspective) you are kind of an awkward texter. You make yourself seem unavailable, and may give mixed feelings. Your convo just seems forced. The first time, she showed interest in saying "you should bring back some food," but you killed the conversation with "heh. "we'll see." Where was she supposed to go from there, but to dismiss the conversation?

The second time, she showed interest again asking if you were at school, but you seemed to be unavailable when you said you were with other people. A simple 'yeah, do you want to chill later?" would have been to the point. It would have showed her that you want to settle in, but are interested in seeing her later and provides more continuous conversation than telling her what you're busy doing.

Try to keep the conversations natural, and give her some space to move the conversation.

thanks hb fam

wear what you want because fuck everyone else.

March 18, 2013 @ 04:25 AM

sado

Post: 3197

Join Date: Jul 2009

Location: Grove Street, SA

what up HB fam, im back with another perdicament

So basically my other plans with that other girl (A) fell through. Girl A ended up thinking that i was in a relationship with girl B and thus, to avoid embarrassment of hitting on me, made her friend tell a lie that she has a man and that they're roadtripping to california spring break (LOL).
Basically i hit her up the day after (while ignoring girl B) and she was flirting with me hardcore / trying to get my attention. Unfortunately that was the last day of classes and i didn't ask for her number because quite frankly i'm not even sure if she was lying about having a man or not (probably was). yolo
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ANYWAY
Different class, different girls.

So I've been talking to this girl (lets call her Lisa) in my Chem class. I initially hit up her friend and went from there. Thing is, Lisa barely comes to class and to make matters worse this guy has an assigned spot between her and I, so it makes it hard to hit on her consistently, consequently i've only spoken to her 2-3 times.

Last friday as i went to take my seat, Lisa pushes her chair back (so as to block me crossing to get to my seat on other side of the guy), I had no idea what Lisa was trying to get at (since all the seats next to her were taken i didn't assume she was hinting for me to sit next to her).

Lisa didn't show up to class all this week. I took this (as well as the chair pushing back thing...) to mean that she didn't want me to hit on her and that she probably has a boyfriend.

This was fine by me because there is one other girl in the class (Call her Tracy) that had been trying to get my attention / smiling at me ever since the Fall (had a class together before). On most days Tracy's friends go to the bathroom during breaktime leaving just her (i'm assuming to get me to finally ask her out)

On the last day of classes, Lisa shows up. At this point i'm assuming she doesn't like me and i'm set on asking out Tracy who has been trying to get my attention for a while. As i go up to get my seat, Lisa does the chair thing again, except this time there are two seats next to her that are empty. I say excuse me and keep trying to pass. Then the guy next to her pushes his chair back as well, blocking me in.
(I'm still clueless)
I say excuse again and get to my seat. On our 5 min break in class i approach Tracy in class and ask for her number. At the end of class, Lisa looks back at me with a sad face as she leaves.

When i get home I reflect back on the days events and see that i fucked up.
I realize Lisa (cute light brown eyed azn girl) was trying to hint to me to sit next to her this while time. Thing is i had already texted Tracy (decent/avg looking thirsty girl whom i got her number) including smileys and even told her i thought she was cute (lol).

Basically now i regret asking out Tracy while i should've asked out Lisa.
This is an easy fix because i know where her friend works and I'm gonna explain to her friend that i didn't understand what Lisa was trying to get at with the chair pushing back nonsense and that i'd like to get to know her / hate missed connections.

Thing is though, i'm not a douchebag and i really dont want to hurt Tracy's feelings (she REALLY seems to like me) but i would so much more rather get with Lisa than Tracy.

HB FAM HOW DO I LET TRACY DOWN EASILY WITHOUT HURTING HER FEELINGS EVEN THO I ASKED FOR HER NUMBER??
FUCK!

March 18, 2013 @ 04:25 AM

sado

Post: 3197

Join Date: Jul 2009

Location: Grove Street, SA

again, long but i'm on adderall so nyeh

PS: LOL the day before i asked out Tracy she followed me out of class, and when she said thanks for holding the door, i said "no problem" and kept it moving. She made a weird laughing sound like she was pissed and stormed off. I'm assuming she has her guard up because she knows i was trying to get with Lisa and I think she realizes that Lisa likes me (even when I was clueless).

halp!
i dont want to hurt this girl's feelings AND even worse, her friends are both intimidating 6 foot 3 women

March 18, 2013 @ 04:52 PM

bengrimm83

Post: 108

Join Date: Dec 2012

Anybodyever date a girl from vietnam?

March 18, 2013 @ 07:58 PM

tellmewhentogo

Post: 3037

Join Date: Jun 2009

Anybodyever date a girl from vietnam?

A Vietnamese American or straight Vietnamese from the home country?

Either way, both are no go for me.

And I'm Vietnamese.

March 18, 2013 @ 08:47 PM

Ruthless

Post: 703

Join Date: Oct 2012

Anybodyever date a girl from vietnam?
A Vietnamese American or straight Vietnamese from the home country?

Either way, both are no go for me.

And I'm Vietnamese.

you self hating mother fucker

March 18, 2013 @ 10:29 PM

KALiKUSH

Post: 2338

Join Date: Jan 2008

has anyonenhere felt bad after cheating on their GF? my last relationship ended on a bad note but she still doesnt know i fucked one of her friends
i feel like shit
idk how to deal with this
I had a good girl but still was addicted to the hoodrats, word to Kanye

LMAO word to yeezy #welcometoheartbreak

you say, "heh,,," scoffing, "we'll see.." you sound unsure so shes feels you are uninterested
"have fun at home" in other words, have fun jacking off and eating alone you oblivious dickweed.
.

LMFAOOOOOOOOO0

March 18, 2013 @ 10:36 PM

Captain Al

Post: 519

Join Date: Feb 2013

again, long but i'm on adderall so nyeh

PS: LOL the day before i asked out Tracy she followed me out of class, and when she said thanks for holding the door, i said "no problem" and kept it moving. She made a weird laughing sound like she was pissed and stormed off. I'm assuming she has her guard up because she knows i was trying to get with Lisa and I think she realizes that Lisa likes me (even when I was clueless).

halp!
i dont want to hurt this girl's feelings AND even worse, her friends are both intimidating 6 foot 3 women

they both need to be check honestly.

If you truly like one over the other, go for it. I wouldn't advise hitting up Lisa though...
and if you like Tracy... talk to her.

are you in HS?

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March 18, 2013 @ 10:45 PM

Don Francisco

Post: 363

Join Date: Jun 2012

Location: meTRAPolis

Too long to quote

Simple solution: threesome

Damn it feels good to be a Hansum.

March 19, 2013 @ 03:46 PM

Mr_Chukes

Post: 1802

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: California

again, long but i'm on adderall so nyeh

PS: LOL the day before i asked out Tracy she followed me out of class, and when she said thanks for holding the door, i said "no problem" and kept it moving. She made a weird laughing sound like she was pissed and stormed off. I'm assuming she has her guard up because she knows i was trying to get with Lisa and I think she realizes that Lisa likes me (even when I was clueless).

halp!
i dont want to hurt this girl's feelings AND even worse, her friends are both intimidating 6 foot 3 women

Talk to them both. Lisa was obviously trying to talk to you. Just get Tracy to give you some head or something and wife up Lisa.