The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Mar 29, 2013 @ 18:41
Hi, what do I do if my girlfriend of 2 and a half years suddenly says I'm not making enough effort and then when I do attempt to make a bit more effort (cuddle her more, take her out more) she say's that the actions are forced?
Mar 29, 2013 @ 18:51
My girlfriend use to always tell me that she allowed me to do things and that she owned me. Also tell me I couldn't do stuff as a joke. Now she is like whatever you want, we aren't propery, we are our own people. She doesn't say she allows me. Is this something to think about or am I over thinking? 

Edit: probably an overreaction. Her actions towards me are still the same. 
wait what, your girlfriend used to say that shit and you didnt leave her ass? hahahahhaha
Mar 29, 2013 @ 20:22
Hi, what do I do if my girlfriend of 2 and a half years suddenly says I'm not making enough effort and then when I do attempt to make a bit more effort (cuddle her more, take her out more) she say's that the actions are forced?
sounds like shit's been building up. just do more thoughtful small things to let her know you're not taking her for granted. surprise her with something, like cook her dinner or something romantic.
Mar 29, 2013 @ 22:02
My girlfriend use to always tell me that she allowed me to do things and that she owned me. Also tell me I couldn't do stuff as a joke. Now she is like whatever you want, we aren't propery, we are our own people. She doesn't say she allows me. Is this something to think about or am I over thinking? 

Edit: probably an overreaction. Her actions towards me are still the same. 
wait what, your girlfriend used to say that shit and you didnt leave her ass? hahahahhaha
It was a joke bro lmao she never really meant that. I use to just play along lol. She isn't seriously like that. 
Mar 30, 2013 @ 22:28
Hi, what do I do if my girlfriend of 2 and a half years suddenly says I'm not making enough effort and then when I do attempt to make a bit more effort (cuddle her more, take her out more) she say's that the actions are forced?
Update on this, everything I do seems to be forced and fake, she said we should spend a few days apart and then go out for something to eat after the few days to talk things over and sort it all out. Although as we were having the 'few days break' she went to the cinema with another guy just as friends but I'm not going to let that shit pass, what do I do? Is she taking me for a fool? Keep in mind this is a 2 and a half year relationship and things just seemed to pop up out of nowhere about her saying I don't make enough effort.
Mar 31, 2013 @ 01:59
girl i stopped talking to a few weeks up ago booty called me up at 1am in the morning. "well im at a kickback. But i totally believe we should hang! " i still have some interest in her, so am i just a fuck buddy? or can i turn this into somehting more.
girls always catch feelings sooner or later if youre giving proper dick. Go balls deep & let the rest fall into place.

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Apr 03, 2013 @ 20:23
I started talking to this girl before/during the spring break and she had mad feelings for me. We would talk on the phone and all that, then she said she loves me. I asked her if she wanted to go out she said shes not ready. Now yesterday she comes out with I think we shouldnt talk anymore. I asked her what she means and instead of telling me why, she ignores me. Im like wtf? So should I chalk this up as another L or what?

Ayyy!-Fonzie

Apr 04, 2013 @ 06:01
so what does it mean when a girl doesnt text back? she text me first a couple days before but then she stopped a day ago???
Apr 04, 2013 @ 06:04
so what does it mean when a girl doesnt text back? she text me first a couple days before but then she stopped a day ago???
she aint interested bruh. no need to complicate it. keep it movin

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Apr 04, 2013 @ 06:06
I started talking to this girl before/during the spring break and she had mad feelings for me. We would talk on the phone and all that, then she said she loves me. I asked her if she wanted to go out she said shes not ready. Now yesterday she comes out with I think we shouldnt talk anymore. I asked her what she means and instead of telling me why, she ignores me. Im like wtf? So should I chalk this up as another L or what?
she probably had a nigga she was talking to already & you came in the picture.. other dude probably caught her texting you & here you are now

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Apr 04, 2013 @ 06:07
Hi, what do I do if my girlfriend of 2 and a half years suddenly says I'm not making enough effort and then when I do attempt to make a bit more effort (cuddle her more, take her out more) she say's that the actions are forced?
Update on this, everything I do seems to be forced and fake, she said we should spend a few days apart and then go out for something to eat after the few days to talk things over and sort it all out. Although as we were having the 'few days break' she went to the cinema with another guy just as friends but I'm not going to let that shit pass, what do I do? Is she taking me for a fool? Keep in mind this is a 2 and a half year relationship and things just seemed to pop up out of nowhere about her saying I don't make enough effort.
just as friends? was it just the two of them? if so, dont believe her. dude was probably already hitting her up on the side, or hes a potential new dick after you two really break up

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Apr 04, 2013 @ 06:13
so what does it mean when a girl doesnt text back? she text me first a couple days before but then she stopped a day ago???
she aint interested bruh. no need to complicate it. keep it movin
dam just like that?? she was the flirting with me first tho
Apr 04, 2013 @ 06:21
she aint interested bruh. no need to complicate it. keep it movin
dam just like that?? she was the flirting with me first tho
you can try the double text if shes worth it in your eyes.. but if you constantly find yourself double texting call it quits. but not texting back in the first place is a telltale sign of disinterest

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Apr 04, 2013 @ 06:25
dam just like that?? she was the flirting with me first tho
you can try the double text if shes worth it in your eyes.. but if you constantly find yourself double texting call it quits. but not texting back in the first place is a telltale sign of disinterest
nah i dont do the double text i rather just wait if not fuck it
Apr 04, 2013 @ 17:19
My girlfriend use to always tell me that she allowed me to do things and that she owned me. Also tell me I couldn't do stuff as a joke. Now she is like whatever you want, we aren't propery, we are our own people. She doesn't say she allows me. Is this something to think about or am I over thinking? 

Edit: probably an overreaction. Her actions towards me are still the same. 
Drop that cunt
Apr 04, 2013 @ 17:19
Hi, what do I do if my girlfriend of 2 and a half years suddenly says I'm not making enough effort and then when I do attempt to make a bit more effort (cuddle her more, take her out more) she say's that the actions are forced?
What a cunt
Apr 04, 2013 @ 17:40
Hi, what do I do if my girlfriend of 2 and a half years suddenly says I'm not making enough effort and then when I do attempt to make a bit more effort (cuddle her more, take her out more) she say's that the actions are forced?
Update on this, everything I do seems to be forced and fake, she said we should spend a few days apart and then go out for something to eat after the few days to talk things over and sort it all out. Although as we were having the 'few days break' she went to the cinema with another guy just as friends but I'm not going to let that shit pass, what do I do? Is she taking me for a fool? Keep in mind this is a 2 and a half year relationship and things just seemed to pop up out of nowhere about her saying I don't make enough effort.
Yeah drop her. She only wanted the break to see if she would like th other dude. Find yourself a better girl. 
Apr 04, 2013 @ 17:44
@ everyone who responded to me on the last page. I was trippin of that nostalgia and that liquor. feels weird man. you guys are right though appreciate the confirmation.
Apr 04, 2013 @ 17:50
Man i love my girl and all, shes great when im with her but soon as we aren't she annoys the shit out of me...
She texts and calls and texts and calls and i get no space at all, i need a little time to kick back and chill with the homies or play some video games but i gotta have my phone in hand all the damn time. Whats a good way to make her stop this?
Apr 04, 2013 @ 17:59
Man i love my girl and all, shes great when im with her but soon as we aren't she annoys the shit out of me...
She texts and calls and texts and calls and i get no space at all, i need a little time to kick back and chill with the homies or play some video games but i gotta have my phone in hand all the damn time. Whats a good way to make her stop this?
Bro my girl is the same. We text all day and she calls me or I call her at night. You don't make her stop bro. You deal with it. She's just interested in you and wants to know how you're doing. Just space out your text a little when yiu are with your friends. If she notices tell her that you wanted to give your friend some attention because you apraeky hang with them now. It only takes two seconds to text back. 
Apr 04, 2013 @ 18:00
Man i love my girl and all, shes great when im with her but soon as we aren't she annoys the shit out of me...
She texts and calls and texts and calls and i get no space at all, i need a little time to kick back and chill with the homies or play some video games but i gotta have my phone in hand all the damn time. Whats a good way to make her stop this?
she got accustomed to you texting back quick. cut it out for a while & eventually she'll get off your back about it

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Apr 05, 2013 @ 01:07
dam man i feel disappointed yet not surprised i guess 
Apr 05, 2013 @ 20:11
Yep that was just it. Now she doesnt know who she wants, me or the other guy. At this point i still like her but she playing too much. The other nigga NOW wants to get serious, but they've been arguing and all that shit. Just drop her HB?

Ayyy!-Fonzie

Apr 06, 2013 @ 01:21
You ever have to friendzone a dude for your girlfriend?
i mean like this dude was trying to walk my girl to class. She told him she was meeting up with someone. Nigga didn't get the hint. I saw her come up. I came gave her a kiss and started waking with her. As soon as the dude saw the kiss he bounced and swerved. 
Apr 07, 2013 @ 04:18
girl i stopped talking to a few weeks up ago booty called me up at 1am in the morning. "well im at a kickback. But i totally believe we should hang! " i still have some interest in her, so am i just a fuck buddy? or can i turn this into somehting more.
it was going all good, i asked her to lunch. On the day of the lunch, she texts me 30 minutes before sayings shes too "hungover" and suggests for coffee later. i agree and i haven't heard from her in 2 days. so is she interested or not? she hit me up first and then i get stood up. shits frustrating.
she wants to keep you on the hook but she's not really interested
Apr 07, 2013 @ 06:11
she wants to keep you on the hook but she's not really interested
what would be the purpose of that.
other options.So if some shit goes bad with other dudes she'll turn to u as a 2 or who knows maybe 13th option.  id ditch if i were u 
Apr 07, 2013 @ 20:18
so tomorrow imma run into that girl that stopped texting me and i know im suppose to act like nothing happened but do i like text her today or anything? you know like ey you have class tomorrow or something also on friday their was a show that was suppose to be by her pad but i stayed cuz i had to finish my essay and email it in when i see do i ask if she went or anything not really in to mind fucking people
Apr 09, 2013 @ 01:01
Fuck it fuck that she chose the other nigga, feels right now, tomorrow imma be good.
EDIT: All good no feels,  cant wait till shit blow up in her face tho

Ayyy!-Fonzie

Apr 09, 2013 @ 14:29
@kbos check your pms fam. 
Apr 09, 2013 @ 17:11
In a dilemma here where I feel like I have no control of my
situation, help me out fam. So I dated my friend for 4 months over this last Spring/Summer. She
goes to school in Reno but has been in Spain for the year to study abroad and
is coming back next month. We both agreed to put things on hold while she was away as difficult as it was. We skype a few times a month and have brought upthe topic several times. Initially I was starting to lose interest in her as
she has been away for so long and now I™m getting stoked that she'™s coming back
whereas with her it™s vice versa. She says that she loves being with me but isn'™t
sure if she wants to commit to a relationship right away she wants to take it slow. I mean it makes sense
considering that we've been away for so long you are naturally going to lose interest.
She's pretty confused on what she wants to do next year, I know she has
considered transferring schools back home but a lot of her credits wouldn'™t ine up so it would be inconvenient. Registration is coming up and I think she
might have to stay in Reno. But we both don'™t want to deal with a long distance relationship.This is all just sucks because she left right when our relationship was going strong and it paused with no real closure. I want to be
with her and I know she still has feelings for me but I'™m not sure if it'™s enough for her stay. I nearly feel powerless in this situation considering a
big portion of this is dependent on whether she can transfer over here to
Seattle or not.  

Edit: hb fucking up my post
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