The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Mar 20, 2013 @ 01:51
Yo fam need advice once again.

So i was at the club to pick up my girl, we stayed for a while and this other dude kept hitting on her. I just told him to back off, didn't pay alot of attention and we dipped abit after. So then when we are home she tells me he was tryna kiss her and had whispered shit like "i wanna fuck you" in her ear. So immediatly my alarm starts ringing cause i know a dude doesent just whisper some shit like that out the blue. 
But anyways i kept it moving, didn't wanna make a big deal cause i hate wasting my time being mad. Later she told me he had added her on facebook and she just ignored him (i don't even know why she gotta talk about him, was maybe a week after) and now i see she friended him on the down low, been about 2 weeks in total.

Maybe im reading too much into this, but need an outside perspective
You have permission to enter "pump and dump" mode.

Don't make a scene out of it, but if you start noticing more signs, dip out. Don't get played.
Mar 20, 2013 @ 01:58
HB fam need some opinions on a situation I got going on. I've been trying to fuck this one girl since I was a junior in high school, but didn't have the game to bag her then. I'm now a junior and college and have made strides with these bitches. I just got back in town recently so I said fuck it, let me hit this girl up and see what's going on. Hit her up and told her we should go out for dinner Monday night while I'm in town and catch up. She was down.

This bitch is bad as fuck. Thick, mixed girl with one of the fattest asses I've ever seen in person...and I'm not even an ass dude. Took her to dinner and shit went super smooth. I was playin it cool and she kept telling me I was funny/cute and all this other shit that I wasn't trying to be. She was pulling the leggings as pants deal and I couldn't take my eyes off dat ass....like I was mesmerized under a spell on some Harry Potter shit. I don't remember how it came up during dinner, but she showed me this video of her laying on her stomach jiggling her ass in her bed. It was like she was reading my mind....right then and there I knew I had to fuck this girl tonight. Shit was fucked up though because originally we were supposed to chill at her spot after dinner but she had hella schoolwork/an online test to do and she said she couldn't.

Anyways, after dinner I dropped her off and she pulled the "don't you want to hug me goodbye?" line. I Hugged her, then decided to say fuck it and kissed her too. After I kissed her she was like, "When are you going back to school?" I told her Friday. She said, "Well, if you aren't busy Wednesday night you should come over and chill and drink wine with me or maybe go out." I told her that she didn't have to tell me twice and I'd be down. A couple hours later after I dropped her off, she texted me saying "That was awesome."

So basically I'm reading this as a guarantee to bone Wednesday night, but I'm not sure how I wanna approach it. I'm busting at the balls to fuck this girl, but don't want to come on too strong when we're kicking it. How should I play this shit? Just go with the flow and let her make the move? Come in guns blazing as soon as I get in her room? Wait till we both get tipsy and make a romantic-type move on her? I've been waiting for this ass for almost 4 years, I'm not trying to fuck it up now.
Mar 20, 2013 @ 02:07
^ It'll happen, homie. You got it in the bag, especially when she asked you to "drink wine." Not sure if you know this, but "drink wine" is a universal term for smashing.

I say just let it play out, keep her laughing, drink some wine, get her tipsy, and make the move. You got this; take it easy.

Also, we'll need pics of dat ass. smokeyface
Mar 20, 2013 @ 02:33
If you're seeing this you're too late, missed that ass pic.

Mar 21, 2013 @ 05:13
If you're seeing this you're too late, missed that ass pic.

cmon man. that story aight hit with some visuals 

17000 ferrari

Mar 21, 2013 @ 05:50
Mar 21, 2013 @ 06:45
^
shieeetttt would come thru guns blazing on that ass. she might be the freaky type that likes you to be unexpected
Mar 21, 2013 @ 08:22
cmon man. that story aight hit with some visuals 
If you missed it again you're just an unlucky mothafucka.

Props to the niggas who seen it.
Nice of you to just blatantly screw over the guy who helped you a few posts up.
Mar 21, 2013 @ 14:31
cmon man. that story aight hit with some visuals 
If you missed it again you're just an unlucky mothafucka.

Props to the niggas who seen it.
Bro message me I want to see that now lol. 
Mar 21, 2013 @ 23:39
Y'all ain't miss shit lmao don trip
Mar 22, 2013 @ 00:27
Y'all ain't miss shit lmao don trip
lool 

17000 ferrari

Mar 22, 2013 @ 01:49
Why am I not able to stay interested in these women?  Is it because they make it easy for me? I'd rather be friends rather than date them or even sleep with them. It's like I want the girls I can't have (dating someone or something like that) 

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Mar 22, 2013 @ 04:20
Originally posted by Inactive User
Why am I not able to stay interested in these women?  Is it because they make it easy for me? I'd rather be friends rather than date them or even sleep with them. It's like I want the girls I can't have (dating someone or something like that) 
Maybe because most bitches are boring as fuck and are all the same?
Mar 22, 2013 @ 18:43
Originally posted by Inactive User
Why am I not able to stay interested in these women?  Is it because they make it easy for me? I'd rather be friends rather than date them or even sleep with them. It's like I want the girls I can't have (dating someone or something like that) 
Because you're gay. Come over to my place, I'll give you some good dick fuckboy.

All girls do is talk about their periods and who's cock they want in their vagina. Stick to fucking dudes and trannies. You'll be much happier.
Mar 26, 2013 @ 07:40
I got one for hb fam, and its not about my girl, its about my friend a hit a few years back. Wonderin what others 2 cents are bout her actions. There was this cute girl i was diggin for mad long, during some time we were both single we got close, but i had another girl i was diggin more so i wasn't that focused on her. She knew about the other chick and all that, but eventually we couldn't resist, we had a night out partying and she came home with me, she brought a condom and everything and she was only kicking it with me that weekend so I figured she planned for it, after that I got more serious with the other girl but I kept kicking it with home girl I banged, being just friends with her was good, we were a little flirty still doe, smooched once drunk by accident, we slowly ended up chilling less and less and she got a man and im still serious with the other girl. Now I see her occasionally, we dont really make plans just through mutual friends we kick it, she still acts a little flirty though, touches my face, sneaks up on me from behind and buts her hands over my eyes, runs her fingers through my hair, always a big hug, doesnt really try to get near me and snuggly but seems comfy if i initiate (I wouldn't even be tryna do that if she wasn't doin that other flirty shit), on the other hand its not like shes all over me and sometimes doesn't often reply to my texts or seem that interested in chillin if i hit her up, she shoot me a happy bday text all caps with the heart today.  whats hb fam opinion on this females actions? she doesnt bone mad dudes or stay acting like that with her other male friends, but she also doesn't seem all over my d. you think shes still attracted but tryna keep her distance after i hit that ass a few years back, since we're both in relationships with other ppl? thats my theory but i don't want to play myself and find myself wrong the next time we're both single and i try to see whats good with her. 
I had this realization today. This girl has given so much of herself to me, yet been so mysterious. I have bonded with her yet been so distant. She has been so incredibly attractive to me since day one, before I knew she was into me, before I boned her, and now that its more than 3 years since I smashed. Shes been so distant and cold, yet some how so warm, and she knows everything about me. I mean she'll show me warmth in person and she knows all of my most horrible secrets and deeds. I've been with my girl for so long and shes the stable one, the smart choice... But damn im still trippin over this other one im posting about. Its been 6-7 years. I feel like its one of those movies where you low key love this woman all along and refuse to give in because your head says no, but she has some kind of kung fu grip on your heart. I never felt like this..... Right now im a few beers deep and I can't stop thinking about her. I feel like I love her, like i'd leave my incredible girlfriend of 3 1/2 years just for her. I feel like I want her to be so happy even if she never knows i've felt this way. Sometimes I think back to this simple thing she said to me last october, looked me in the eye and said it so gentle and slow... Pain is pleasure. If the feeling I have right now passes I know i'll revisit it sooner or later... Right now I low key feel like before we are far apart from eachother forever I should tell her all kinds of crazy shit on some real man shit, just not even expecting shit back just on some this is how i feel and i don't give a fuck what you or anyone else thinks but at least you know and I hope whatever happens in your life you are happy. I never felt this way I have had more substantial relationships and feelings towards woman but this one is so unique and rare and special to me... I know enough to know im probably a fool no matter what, but I have to wonder if im just crazy for her mysterious ways or if this is really my deepest desire... Maybe some of both... Maybe its ok to feel love in this form. Regardless, there is something so beautiful and pure about it. I will see her tomorrow, this local rapper I know through friends who i've kicked some freestyles with is opening for spaceghostpurrp and the raider klann and hooked us up with free entry sooo... damn. I'm sure i'll play it cool and front like shes just any female as I always do for the sake of staying in my place. This girl with her man shes been with for 3 years, its like she wont even give all of herself to him... There is some kind of pain I share with her. Some kind of secret or something. I know im sounding wack with this but any opinions or advice is respected.
Mar 26, 2013 @ 08:03
I got one for hb fam, and its not about my girl, its about my friend a hit a few years back. Wonderin what others 2 cents are bout her actions. There was this cute girl i was diggin for mad long, during some time we were both single we got close, but i had another girl i was diggin more so i wasn't that focused on her. She knew about the other chick and all that, but eventually we couldn't resist, we had a night out partying and she came home with me, she brought a condom and everything and she was only kicking it with me that weekend so I figured she planned for it, after that I got more serious with the other girl but I kept kicking it with home girl I banged, being just friends with her was good, we were a little flirty still doe, smooched once drunk by accident, we slowly ended up chilling less and less and she got a man and im still serious with the other girl. Now I see her occasionally, we dont really make plans just through mutual friends we kick it, she still acts a little flirty though, touches my face, sneaks up on me from behind and buts her hands over my eyes, runs her fingers through my hair, always a big hug, doesnt really try to get near me and snuggly but seems comfy if i initiate (I wouldn't even be tryna do that if she wasn't doin that other flirty shit), on the other hand its not like shes all over me and sometimes doesn't often reply to my texts or seem that interested in chillin if i hit her up, she shoot me a happy bday text all caps with the heart today.  whats hb fam opinion on this females actions? she doesnt bone mad dudes or stay acting like that with her other male friends, but she also doesn't seem all over my d. you think shes still attracted but tryna keep her distance after i hit that ass a few years back, since we're both in relationships with other ppl? thats my theory but i don't want to play myself and find myself wrong the next time we're both single and i try to see whats good with her. 
I had this realization today. This girl has given so much of herself to me, yet been so mysterious. I have bonded with her yet been so distant. She has been so incredibly attractive to me since day one, before I knew she was into me, before I boned her, and now that its more than 3 years since I smashed. Shes been so distant and cold, yet some how so warm, and she knows everything about me. I mean she'll show me warmth in person and she knows all of my most horrible secrets and deeds. I've been with my girl for so long and shes the stable one, the smart choice... But damn im still trippin over this other one im posting about. Its been 6-7 years. I feel like its one of those movies where you low key love this woman all along and refuse to give in because your head says no, but she has some kind of kung fu grip on your heart. I never felt like this..... Right now im a few beers deep and I can't stop thinking about her. I feel like I love her, like i'd leave my incredible girlfriend of 3 1/2 years just for her. I feel like I want her to be so happy even if she never knows i've felt this way. Sometimes I think back to this simple thing she said to me last october, looked me in the eye and said it so gentle and slow... Pain is pleasure. If the feeling I have right now passes I know i'll revisit it sooner or later... Right now I low key feel like before we are far apart from eachother forever I should tell her all kinds of crazy shit on some real man shit, just not even expecting shit back just on some this is how i feel and i don't give a fuck what you or anyone else thinks but at least you know and I hope whatever happens in your life you are happy. I never felt this way I have had more substantial relationships and feelings towards woman but this one is so unique and rare and special to me... I know enough to know im probably a fool no matter what, but I have to wonder if im just crazy for her mysterious ways or if this is really my deepest desire... Maybe some of both... Maybe its ok to feel love in this form. Regardless, there is something so beautiful and pure about it. I will see her tomorrow, this local rapper I know through friends who i've kicked some freestyles with is opening for spaceghostpurrp and the raider klann and hooked us up with free entry sooo... damn. I'm sure i'll play it cool and front like shes just any female as I always do for the sake of staying in my place. This girl with her man shes been with for 3 years, its like she wont even give all of herself to him... There is some kind of pain I share with her. Some kind of secret or something. I know im sounding wack with this but any opinions or advice is respected.



ma dude its all up to  at the end of the day. Im not gonna tell u wat to do but do whats best for you.
Mar 26, 2013 @ 08:59
I got one for hb fam, and its not about my girl, its about my friend a hit a few years back. Wonderin what others 2 cents are bout her actions. There was this cute girl i was diggin for mad long, during some time we were both single we got close, but i had another girl i was diggin more so i wasn't that focused on her. She knew about the other chick and all that, but eventually we couldn't resist, we had a night out partying and she came home with me, she brought a condom and everything and she was only kicking it with me that weekend so I figured she planned for it, after that I got more serious with the other girl but I kept kicking it with home girl I banged, being just friends with her was good, we were a little flirty still doe, smooched once drunk by accident, we slowly ended up chilling less and less and she got a man and im still serious with the other girl. Now I see her occasionally, we dont really make plans just through mutual friends we kick it, she still acts a little flirty though, touches my face, sneaks up on me from behind and buts her hands over my eyes, runs her fingers through my hair, always a big hug, doesnt really try to get near me and snuggly but seems comfy if i initiate (I wouldn't even be tryna do that if she wasn't doin that other flirty shit), on the other hand its not like shes all over me and sometimes doesn't often reply to my texts or seem that interested in chillin if i hit her up, she shoot me a happy bday text all caps with the heart today.  whats hb fam opinion on this females actions? she doesnt bone mad dudes or stay acting like that with her other male friends, but she also doesn't seem all over my d. you think shes still attracted but tryna keep her distance after i hit that ass a few years back, since we're both in relationships with other ppl? thats my theory but i don't want to play myself and find myself wrong the next time we're both single and i try to see whats good with her. 
I had this realization today. This girl has given so much of herself to me, yet been so mysterious. I have bonded with her yet been so distant. She has been so incredibly attractive to me since day one, before I knew she was into me, before I boned her, and now that its more than 3 years since I smashed. Shes been so distant and cold, yet some how so warm, and she knows everything about me. I mean she'll show me warmth in person and she knows all of my most horrible secrets and deeds. I've been with my girl for so long and shes the stable one, the smart choice... But damn im still trippin over this other one im posting about. Its been 6-7 years. I feel like its one of those movies where you low key love this woman all along and refuse to give in because your head says no, but she has some kind of kung fu grip on your heart. I never felt like this..... Right now im a few beers deep and I can't stop thinking about her. I feel like I love her, like i'd leave my incredible girlfriend of 3 1/2 years just for her. I feel like I want her to be so happy even if she never knows i've felt this way. Sometimes I think back to this simple thing she said to me last october, looked me in the eye and said it so gentle and slow... Pain is pleasure. If the feeling I have right now passes I know i'll revisit it sooner or later... Right now I low key feel like before we are far apart from eachother forever I should tell her all kinds of crazy shit on some real man shit, just not even expecting shit back just on some this is how i feel and i don't give a fuck what you or anyone else thinks but at least you know and I hope whatever happens in your life you are happy. I never felt this way I have had more substantial relationships and feelings towards woman but this one is so unique and rare and special to me... I know enough to know im probably a fool no matter what, but I have to wonder if im just crazy for her mysterious ways or if this is really my deepest desire... Maybe some of both... Maybe its ok to feel love in this form. Regardless, there is something so beautiful and pure about it. I will see her tomorrow, this local rapper I know through friends who i've kicked some freestyles with is opening for spaceghostpurrp and the raider klann and hooked us up with free entry sooo... damn. I'm sure i'll play it cool and front like shes just any female as I always do for the sake of staying in my place. This girl with her man shes been with for 3 years, its like she wont even give all of herself to him... There is some kind of pain I share with her. Some kind of secret or something. I know im sounding wack with this but any opinions or advice is respected.
Drunk man's words ----> Sober man's thoughts
Mar 26, 2013 @ 12:02
I got one for hb fam, and its not about my girl, its about my friend a hit a few years back. Wonderin what others 2 cents are bout her actions. There was this cute girl i was diggin for mad long, during some time we were both single we got close, but i had another girl i was diggin more so i wasn't that focused on her. She knew about the other chick and all that, but eventually we couldn't resist, we had a night out partying and she came home with me, she brought a condom and everything and she was only kicking it with me that weekend so I figured she planned for it, after that I got more serious with the other girl but I kept kicking it with home girl I banged, being just friends with her was good, we were a little flirty still doe, smooched once drunk by accident, we slowly ended up chilling less and less and she got a man and im still serious with the other girl. Now I see her occasionally, we dont really make plans just through mutual friends we kick it, she still acts a little flirty though, touches my face, sneaks up on me from behind and buts her hands over my eyes, runs her fingers through my hair, always a big hug, doesnt really try to get near me and snuggly but seems comfy if i initiate (I wouldn't even be tryna do that if she wasn't doin that other flirty shit), on the other hand its not like shes all over me and sometimes doesn't often reply to my texts or seem that interested in chillin if i hit her up, she shoot me a happy bday text all caps with the heart today.  whats hb fam opinion on this females actions? she doesnt bone mad dudes or stay acting like that with her other male friends, but she also doesn't seem all over my d. you think shes still attracted but tryna keep her distance after i hit that ass a few years back, since we're both in relationships with other ppl? thats my theory but i don't want to play myself and find myself wrong the next time we're both single and i try to see whats good with her. 
I had this realization today. This girl has given so much of herself to me, yet been so mysterious. I have bonded with her yet been so distant. She has been so incredibly attractive to me since day one, before I knew she was into me, before I boned her, and now that its more than 3 years since I smashed. Shes been so distant and cold, yet some how so warm, and she knows everything about me. I mean she'll show me warmth in person and she knows all of my most horrible secrets and deeds. I've been with my girl for so long and shes the stable one, the smart choice... But damn im still trippin over this other one im posting about. Its been 6-7 years. I feel like its one of those movies where you low key love this woman all along and refuse to give in because your head says no, but she has some kind of kung fu grip on your heart. I never felt like this..... Right now im a few beers deep and I can't stop thinking about her. I feel like I love her, like i'd leave my incredible girlfriend of 3 1/2 years just for her. I feel like I want her to be so happy even if she never knows i've felt this way. Sometimes I think back to this simple thing she said to me last october, looked me in the eye and said it so gentle and slow... Pain is pleasure. If the feeling I have right now passes I know i'll revisit it sooner or later... Right now I low key feel like before we are far apart from eachother forever I should tell her all kinds of crazy shit on some real man shit, just not even expecting shit back just on some this is how i feel and i don't give a fuck what you or anyone else thinks but at least you know and I hope whatever happens in your life you are happy. I never felt this way I have had more substantial relationships and feelings towards woman but this one is so unique and rare and special to me... I know enough to know im probably a fool no matter what, but I have to wonder if im just crazy for her mysterious ways or if this is really my deepest desire... Maybe some of both... Maybe its ok to feel love in this form. Regardless, there is something so beautiful and pure about it. I will see her tomorrow, this local rapper I know through friends who i've kicked some freestyles with is opening for spaceghostpurrp and the raider klann and hooked us up with free entry sooo... damn. I'm sure i'll play it cool and front like shes just any female as I always do for the sake of staying in my place. This girl with her man shes been with for 3 years, its like she wont even give all of herself to him... There is some kind of pain I share with her. Some kind of secret or something. I know im sounding wack with this but any opinions or advice is respected.
Wait, what? You don't even know her relationship style. You seem demanding with all this "giving herself to me," yet she doesn't seem like that, judging by how you say "she won't give herself all to him." She's been with her man for 3 years. Just because that didn't mean something to you doesn't mean in doesn't mean anything to her. Yo, you could end up with this chick and be extremely paranoid or self conscious that she's not all over you. 

And from the outside, you honestly don't know the real her. You never had to deal with her drama, you don't know how she gets when she's mad. It's a big risk. Especially since to me, her actions don't seem like much. It's simple flirtation. Don't take it too far to the head, unless she blatantly shows that she wants you (which none of the actions show).

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Mar 26, 2013 @ 13:38
^ Bro a bird in the hand is better than two in the bush. You already have your lady that you have been going out with for years. She knows so much about you. Don't just drop her for this other girl. I mean the other girl has a man to. I mean at times you may look back and think maybe but in a situation like that you're probably better off where you are. Especially if you've never really gone out with the other person. 
At the end of the day it's what makes you happy though. 
Mar 26, 2013 @ 21:58
I got one for hb fam, and its not about my girl, its about my friend a hit a few years back. Wonderin what others 2 cents are bout her actions. There was this cute girl i was diggin for mad long, during some time we were both single we got close, but i had another girl i was diggin more so i wasn't that focused on her. She knew about the other chick and all that, but eventually we couldn't resist, we had a night out partying and she came home with me, she brought a condom and everything and she was only kicking it with me that weekend so I figured she planned for it, after that I got more serious with the other girl but I kept kicking it with home girl I banged, being just friends with her was good, we were a little flirty still doe, smooched once drunk by accident, we slowly ended up chilling less and less and she got a man and im still serious with the other girl. Now I see her occasionally, we dont really make plans just through mutual friends we kick it, she still acts a little flirty though, touches my face, sneaks up on me from behind and buts her hands over my eyes, runs her fingers through my hair, always a big hug, doesnt really try to get near me and snuggly but seems comfy if i initiate (I wouldn't even be tryna do that if she wasn't doin that other flirty shit), on the other hand its not like shes all over me and sometimes doesn't often reply to my texts or seem that interested in chillin if i hit her up, she shoot me a happy bday text all caps with the heart today.  whats hb fam opinion on this females actions? she doesnt bone mad dudes or stay acting like that with her other male friends, but she also doesn't seem all over my d. you think shes still attracted but tryna keep her distance after i hit that ass a few years back, since we're both in relationships with other ppl? thats my theory but i don't want to play myself and find myself wrong the next time we're both single and i try to see whats good with her. 
I had this realization today. This girl has given so much of herself to me, yet been so mysterious. I have bonded with her yet been so distant. She has been so incredibly attractive to me since day one, before I knew she was into me, before I boned her, and now that its more than 3 years since I smashed. Shes been so distant and cold, yet some how so warm, and she knows everything about me. I mean she'll show me warmth in person and she knows all of my most horrible secrets and deeds. I've been with my girl for so long and shes the stable one, the smart choice... But damn im still trippin over this other one im posting about. Its been 6-7 years. I feel like its one of those movies where you low key love this woman all along and refuse to give in because your head says no, but she has some kind of kung fu grip on your heart. I never felt like this..... Right now im a few beers deep and I can't stop thinking about her. I feel like I love her, like i'd leave my incredible girlfriend of 3 1/2 years just for her. I feel like I want her to be so happy even if she never knows i've felt this way. Sometimes I think back to this simple thing she said to me last october, looked me in the eye and said it so gentle and slow... Pain is pleasure. If the feeling I have right now passes I know i'll revisit it sooner or later... Right now I low key feel like before we are far apart from eachother forever I should tell her all kinds of crazy shit on some real man shit, just not even expecting shit back just on some this is how i feel and i don't give a fuck what you or anyone else thinks but at least you know and I hope whatever happens in your life you are happy. I never felt this way I have had more substantial relationships and feelings towards woman but this one is so unique and rare and special to me... I know enough to know im probably a fool no matter what, but I have to wonder if im just crazy for her mysterious ways or if this is really my deepest desire... Maybe some of both... Maybe its ok to feel love in this form. Regardless, there is something so beautiful and pure about it. I will see her tomorrow, this local rapper I know through friends who i've kicked some freestyles with is opening for spaceghostpurrp and the raider klann and hooked us up with free entry sooo... damn. I'm sure i'll play it cool and front like shes just any female as I always do for the sake of staying in my place. This girl with her man shes been with for 3 years, its like she wont even give all of herself to him... There is some kind of pain I share with her. Some kind of secret or something. I know im sounding wack with this but any opinions or advice is respected.
you think some part of this has to do with you wanting her because you can't have her? 
Mar 27, 2013 @ 00:09
This girl I used to date just got out of a serious relationship, i been thinking about trying to holla but I dont know if its too soon. We havent talked in about 2 years and the only way i can get at her is through FB. I heard through a mutual friend that guys are are trying to bag nonstop. Im tryna play it cool but don't want some other dude scooping her up. How should I go about this HB fam
Mar 27, 2013 @ 05:00
This girl I used to date just got out of a serious relationship, i been thinking about trying to holla but I dont know if its too soon. We havent talked in about 2 years and the only way i can get at her is through FB. I heard through a mutual friend that guys are are trying to bag nonstop. Im tryna play it cool but don't want some other dude scooping her up. How should I go about this HB fam
Ask her out to lunch
Mar 27, 2013 @ 05:35
im really into this one bitch. all my friends say she was born a guy, but to make up for it- she is really hot. she is kind of a slut tho... i invited her to my church to try and tame her sluttiness but she ended up blowing my dad. fml. now my parents are getting a divorce and i guess my dads gay now and rumors going around that she blew my little brother too (hes 11). im a little embarrassed to say but my little bro got ass before me (im 19). idk what to do. im in a tight ass pickle..
Mar 27, 2013 @ 20:13
Originally posted by Inactive User
Yo fam need advice once again.

So i was at the club to pick up my girl, we stayed for a while and this other dude kept hitting on her. I just told him to back off, didn't pay alot of attention and we dipped abit after. So then when we are home she tells me he was tryna kiss her and had whispered shit like "i wanna fuck you" in her ear. So immediatly my alarm starts ringing cause i know a dude doesent just whisper some shit like that out the blue. 
But anyways i kept it moving, didn't wanna make a big deal cause i hate wasting my time being mad. Later she told me he had added her on facebook and she just ignored him (i don't even know why she gotta talk about him, was maybe a week after) and now i see she friended him on the down low, been about 2 weeks in total.

Maybe im reading too much into this, but need an outside perspective

sus that he knew where to find her, when a girl is not interested she'll find a way to push a guy off. stay on your toes. but the best thing to to do is be straight up and ask her if she likes this dude or not, if yall been together for a long time you can tell whether shes lying or not...good luck
Mar 27, 2013 @ 20:13
Originally posted by Inactive User
 
Yo fam need advice once again.

So i was at the club to pick up my girl, we stayed for a while and this other dude kept hitting on her. I just told him to back off, didn't pay alot of attention and we dipped abit after. So then when we are home she tells me he was tryna kiss her and had whispered shit like "i wanna fuck you" in her ear. So immediatly my alarm starts ringing cause i know a dude doesent just whisper some shit like that out the blue. 
But anyways i kept it moving, didn't wanna make a big deal cause i hate wasting my time being mad. Later she told me he had added her on facebook and she just ignored him (i don't even know why she gotta talk about him, was maybe a week after) and now i see she friended him on the down low, been about 2 weeks in total.

Maybe im reading too much into this, but need an outside perspective

sus that he knew where to find her, when a girl is not interested she'll find a way to push a guy off. stay on your toes. but the best thing to to do is be straight up and ask her if she likes this dude or not, if yall been together for a long time you can tell whether shes lying or not...good luck
Mar 28, 2013 @ 02:10
HB fam assemble, I'm in need of advice.

I usually just troll 'round here but here it is: There's this cute girl in my Psych class. I see her looking at me from time to time, whether waiting for the class to start or when I get up to use the bathroom (She sits in front btw) or after I walk out. I look at her too. Yesterday, I sort of discreetly tried to walk and talk with her after class. She seemed cool but the thing is, she didn't sound like she was interested in me (She was on the phone most of the convo). I mean, I see you checking out girl, but your gonna act different towards me n' shit?

Why is that? I'm confused as hell...

May your neighbors respect you, trouble neglect you, angels protect you, and heaven accept you.

Mar 28, 2013 @ 02:22
Mar 28, 2013 @ 02:29
HB fam assemble, I'm in need of advice.

I usually just troll 'round here but here it is: There's this cute girl in my Psych class. I see her looking at me from time to time, whether waiting for the class to start or when I get up to use the bathroom (She sits in front btw) or after I walk out. I look at her too. Yesterday, I sort of discreetly tried to walk and talk with her after class. She seemed cool but the thing is, she didn't sound like she was interested in me (She was on the phone most of the convo). I mean, I see you checking out girl, but your gonna act different towards me n' shit?

Why is that? I'm confused as hell...
Break a bitches wall barrier down breh. You know bitches love to play hard-to-get. Just keep at it
Mar 29, 2013 @ 00:08
My girlfriend use to always tell me that she allowed me to do things and that she owned me. Also tell me I couldn't do stuff as a joke. Now she is like whatever you want, we aren't propery, we are our own people. She doesn't say she allows me. Is this something to think about or am I over thinking? 

Edit: probably an overreaction. Her actions towards me are still the same. 
Mar 29, 2013 @ 06:25
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