The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Mar 08, 2013 @ 18:25
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@ pantic


havin feelins for a woman aint simpin, its part of life, its part of bein a man. Even a stone cold pimp puts a little love and soul in his step. Simpin is when you handle your feelings like a bitch, or play yourself by being unjustifiably over-emotional for lack of rational self control, simpin is thirst, simpin is putting the pussy on a pedestal. That doesn't sound like it applies to your situation, and time will fix your issue, so just enjoy life while time takes its course, enjoy other women, and give as little fucks about that female from your past in the mean time.


Also, one thing that always works, socializing with a dime, and on the low at a party or some shit you'll probably both be at, bringing her around the ex and keeping it cool like you have no interest in the ol' girl. Ol' girl will catch feelings and you'll feel like a boss.
Mar 08, 2013 @ 22:36
My girl of 7 years called it off about a month ago, we still live together and I still feel like she's still feeling me. The reason she called quits was because I wasn't showing her enough affection, I did many things and showed love other ways but it wasn't the way she wanted, I didn't take notice until it was too late. I know what the issues were now and I wanna give it another try, at the moment I'm not contacting her or anything to allow her some space and allow some time for her to actually miss me and get her mind straight but the problem is we still live together and it's difficult. It just hard getting through this. 
Mar 11, 2013 @ 18:30
met this girl at a party. Smoked some weed together. She said she found a "smoking buddy" and i askd for her number. whats next?
Chill with her and smoke with her of  course. Flirt a little and see where it takes you. 
Mar 12, 2013 @ 07:07
My girl of 7 years called it off about a month ago, we still live together and I still feel like she's still feeling me. The reason she called quits was because I wasn't showing her enough affection, I did many things and showed love other ways but it wasn't the way she wanted, I didn't take notice until it was too late. I know what the issues were now and I wanna give it another try, at the moment I'm not contacting her or anything to allow her some space and allow some time for her to actually miss me and get her mind straight but the problem is we still live together and it's difficult. It just hard getting through this. 
dead at you making another account for this you gay nigga. anyway, 7 years bruh. Shes not about to throw that away especially when you think shes acting like shes feeling you. tbh you gotta get your simp game proper. Tell her youll do better then prove youll do better. Biggest mistake is making it up to her then getting comfortable again.
Mar 13, 2013 @ 03:34
When I was 8 I dated this one bitch that I would take to my crib and eat some cereal as soon as I ran out of cereal she never came back. It's all about currency.
Mar 15, 2013 @ 11:50
DID I FUCK UP?

so i met this girl at a party, got her number and we texted back and forward for the first couple of days. She invited me to go drink with her and go with her to a rave, but decline because i was busy on those days. we stopped talking for a new days and i ask her to go study with me cause its finals week in college

me: going home this weekend?
her: no finals
me: Lets go study together!!
her: hm. we could
me: i'm going home today to saturday morning. so probably saturday night okay?!
her: O.o k we'll see!
me: kk!
her: :0 you should bring back some good food hehe
me: heh. "we'll see"
her: k Have fun at home! :D

shes being hella confusing. did i fuck up?

bruh... you better go meet with her on saturday to see how things are. I cant advice you on this short as shit. if you fucked up she wouldnt have asked you to bring good food. so update us on monday and then you will know
Mar 16, 2013 @ 00:00
DID I FUCK UP?

so i met this girl at a party, got her number and we texted back and forward for the first couple of days. She invited me to go drink with her and go with her to a rave, but decline because i was busy on those days. we stopped talking for a new days and i ask her to go study with me cause its finals week in college

me: going home this weekend?
her: no finals
me: Lets go study together!!
her: hm. we could
me: i'm going home today to saturday morning. so probably saturday night okay?!
her: O.o k we'll see!
me: kk!
her: :0 you should bring back some good food hehe
me: heh. "we'll see"
her: k Have fun at home! :D

shes being hella confusing. did i fuck up?
She said she'll see if she can study with you. She also joked and said bring her some good food since you would be coming back from home and home cooked meals are usually good. Then she says have fun on your trip back home. How is she being confusing? And if you messed up, she wouldn't be nice to you or be sending you smiley faces.
Mar 16, 2013 @ 00:37
has anyonenhere felt bad after cheating on their GF? my last relationship ended on a bad note but she still doesnt know i fucked one of her friends
i feel like shit
idk how to deal with this
I had a good girl but still was addicted to the hoodrats, word to Kanye

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Mar 16, 2013 @ 01:23
She said she'll see if she can study with you. She also joked and said bring her some good food since you would be coming back from home and home cooked meals are usually good. Then she says have fun on your trip back home. How is she being confusing? And if you messed up, she wouldn't be nice to you or be sending you smiley faces.
with the "o.O" it seems that she is surprised or weirded out that i aasked her to study 
Nah but probably cause you made it sound like a study date since it'd be at night; might've thrown her off. But nevertheless you didn't do anything wrong and she's still cool with you so it's all good.
Mar 16, 2013 @ 05:22
has anyonenhere felt bad after cheating on their GF? my last relationship ended on a bad note but she still doesnt know i fucked one of her friends
i feel like shit
idk how to deal with this
I had a good girl but still was addicted to the hoodrats, word to Kanye
been there. The guilt ate me up, so I had to "man up and tell my girl because she deserved to know" when in reality i just wanted to feel better about myself. started in 08 went off and on, few girls in between, few guys for her and 5 years later we're together without ever having been apart for more than a few months. simp game jacobsever.
Mar 17, 2013 @ 02:50
okay so this one girl from my class just started being nice to me the other day. i have a feeling that shes into me and i think shes really cute too. I wanna talk to her but how. Im not a good flirter but what can i do to plant seeds in her brain that im interested but at the same time not have weird awkward conversations come out of my mouth cos thts guna fuck my ego up. How HB???


-no game betamale (at least i admit)...and fuck john
Mar 17, 2013 @ 03:01
okay so this one girl from my class just started being nice to me the other day. i have a feeling that shes into me and i think shes really cute too. I wanna talk to her but how. Im not a good flirter but what can i do to plant seeds in her brain that im interested but at the same time not have weird awkward conversations come out of my mouth cos thts guna fuck my ego up. How HB???


-no game betamale (at least i admit)...and fuck john
maria i hope you dont see thiss but if you do...i love.. youuu:|
Mar 17, 2013 @ 10:50
DID I FUCK UP?

so i met this girl at a party, got her number and we texted back and forward for the first couple of days. She invited me to go drink with her and go with her to a rave, but decline because i was busy on those days. we stopped talking for a new days and i ask her to go study with me cause its finals week in college

me: going home this weekend?
her: no finals
me: Lets go study together!!
her: hm. we could
me: i'm going home today to saturday morning. so probably saturday night okay?!
her: O.o k we'll see!
me: kk!
her: :0 you should bring back some good food hehe
me: heh. "we'll see"
her: k Have fun at home! :D

shes being hella confusing. did i fuck up?
you fucked up.
you asked to study w her (hangout)
she says "ok, we'll see" because she being coy and not easy.
she says to bring back good food, in other words, "bring good food to eat when we hangout.." (she can be uping the ante. .. making it into afood date)
you say, "heh,,," scoffing, "we'll see.." you sound unsure so shes feels you are uninterested
"have fun at home" in other words, have fun jacking off and eating alone you oblivious dickweed.
blushing.
Mar 17, 2013 @ 11:42
Nah but probably cause you made it sound like a study date since it'd be at night; might've thrown her off. But nevertheless you didn't do anything wrong and she's still cool with you so it's all good.
So when i got back, i brought back some boba(idk if you know what that is) and i  texted her.

Me: Guess What
Her: Whatt
Me: Are you thirsty?
Her: Boba right? LOL just saw your insta
Me: Yeah! you wanted one right?
Her: maybe! are you back at school already?
Me: Yeah! but im eating with hallmates atm
Her: O.o its cool
Me: KK

im started to think shes not interested...i go out of my way to do something nice. (simping)...
Honestly, (coming from a girl's perspective) you are kind of an awkward texter. You make yourself seem unavailable, and may give mixed feelings. Your convo just seems forced. The first time, she showed interest  in saying "you should bring back some food," but you killed the conversation with "heh. "we'll see." Where was she supposed to go from there, but to dismiss the conversation?

The second time, she showed interest again asking if you were at school, but you seemed to be unavailable when you said you were with other people. A simple 'yeah, do you want to chill later?" would have been to the point. It would have showed her that you want to settle in, but are interested in seeing her later and provides more continuous conversation than telling her what you're busy doing. 

Try to keep the conversations natural, and give her some space to move the conversation. 

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Mar 17, 2013 @ 11:55
^ THIS
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Mar 18, 2013 @ 04:25
Mar 18, 2013 @ 04:25
Mar 18, 2013 @ 16:52
Anybodyever date a girl from vietnam?
Mar 18, 2013 @ 19:58
Anybodyever date a girl from vietnam?
A Vietnamese American or straight Vietnamese from the home country?

Either way, both are no go for me.

And I'm Vietnamese.
Mar 18, 2013 @ 20:47
Anybodyever date a girl from vietnam?
A Vietnamese American or straight Vietnamese from the home country?

Either way, both are no go for me.

And I'm Vietnamese.
you self hating mother fucker

Let me see those downvotes

Mar 18, 2013 @ 22:29
has anyonenhere felt bad after cheating on their GF? my last relationship ended on a bad note but she still doesnt know i fucked one of her friends
i feel like shit
idk how to deal with this
I had a good girl but still was addicted to the hoodrats, word to Kanye
LMAO word to yeezy #welcometoheartbreak

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0qTExE-ROFA


you say, "heh,,," scoffing, "we'll see.." you sound unsure so shes feels you are uninterested
"have fun at home" in other words, have fun jacking off and eating alone you oblivious dickweed.
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LMFAOOOOOOOOO0
Mar 18, 2013 @ 22:36
again, long but i'm on adderall so nyeh

PS: LOL the day before i asked out Tracy she followed me out of class, and when she said thanks for holding the door, i said "no problem" and kept it moving. She made a weird laughing sound like she was pissed and stormed off. I'm assuming she has her guard up because she knows i was trying to get with Lisa and I think she realizes that Lisa likes me (even when I was clueless).

halp! 
i dont want to hurt this girl's feelings AND even worse, her friends are both intimidating 6 foot 3 women 
they both need to be check honestly.

If you truly like one over the other, go for it. I wouldn't advise hitting up Lisa though...
and if you like Tracy... talk to her. 

are you in HS?

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Mar 18, 2013 @ 22:45
Too long to quote
Simple solution: threesome
Mar 19, 2013 @ 15:46
again, long but i'm on adderall so nyeh

PS: LOL the day before i asked out Tracy she followed me out of class, and when she said thanks for holding the door, i said "no problem" and kept it moving. She made a weird laughing sound like she was pissed and stormed off. I'm assuming she has her guard up because she knows i was trying to get with Lisa and I think she realizes that Lisa likes me (even when I was clueless).

halp! 
i dont want to hurt this girl's feelings AND even worse, her friends are both intimidating 6 foot 3 women 
Talk to them both. Lisa was obviously trying to talk to you. Just get Tracy to give you some head or something and wife up Lisa. 
Mar 19, 2013 @ 16:45
Anybodyever date a girl from vietnam?
A Vietnamese American or straight Vietnamese from the home country?

Either way, both are no go for me.

And I'm Vietnamese.
shes from vietnam shes only been in the states for like 6 months met her at school
Mar 19, 2013 @ 16:55
Mar 19, 2013 @ 19:03
All y'all shoulda bought her flowers, and held her hand. Other than that, Supreme is life hoe
Mar 19, 2013 @ 20:55
HB FAM HOW DO I LET TRACY DOWN EASILY WITHOUT HURTING HER FEELINGS EVEN THO I ASKED FOR HER NUMBER??
FUCK!
Why are you stressing? You're single. You have no commitments, and you can fish for anything right now. I say talk to them both and feel them out- you don't even know how that other girl is and you want to drop Tracy? Unsafe.

eh, forget it. You got this.

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Mar 19, 2013 @ 23:03
Yo fam need advice once again.

So i was at the club to pick up my girl, we stayed for a while and this other dude kept hitting on her. I just told him to back off, didn't pay alot of attention and we dipped abit after. So then when we are home she tells me he was tryna kiss her and had whispered shit like "i wanna fuck you" in her ear. So immediatly my alarm starts ringing cause i know a dude doesent just whisper some shit like that out the blue. 
But anyways i kept it moving, didn't wanna make a big deal cause i hate wasting my time being mad. Later she told me he had added her on facebook and she just ignored him (i don't even know why she gotta talk about him, was maybe a week after) and now i see she friended him on the down low, been about 2 weeks in total.

Maybe im reading too much into this, but need an outside perspective
Mar 19, 2013 @ 23:58
^ that's suspicious that she added him. Why would she tell you she ignored him but added him. I'd keep my guard up if I was you.
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