The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

November 03, 2012 @ 22:40:33 PM
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@dmwalking Damn that was good advice, and a good analogy. The only reason I think it got this bad was because I was unsure whether I liked her or not. And I want to come clean and tell her how I feel, but I just don't know how I should go about doing it. How should I set it up? Maybe after a long talk or some sort of activity.
Originally posted by Inactive User
You can't get out of the friend zone she has to let you in to the date zone

And she won't ever do that unless she knows you're definitely interested
I duno man. I'm usually pretty confident in these kind of situations or I just don't give a shit, but this time I'm not too sure, and I really care about what she thinks of me, you know?

Hold her hand when y'all hang out nigga yolo

I tried to drop some serious hints. Examples.. the distance I had to drive to see her, telling her I miss her, paying for her food whenever we go out, going out of my way to help her with personal problems.


fuck a "set up" dude jus tell her next time you 2 are alone... honestly I feel like if you're confident u should bag her unless you're swagless

I duno man. With other girls I'm totally confident or I just don't give a shit, but with this one I care about what she thinks of me, and I'm not really confident with her.

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November 04, 2012 @ 01:05:13 AM
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made it happen blushing

:)

November 04, 2012 @ 05:12:03 AM
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Yo, HB fam, what's the deal with females who hang out with guys more often than their homegirls?

Is this generally a bad thing (e.g. she may be a ho)?


cmon the fuck on son. you niggas need a male role model.
November 04, 2012 @ 09:42:09 AM
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So I met this cute chick at my community college but we only meet twice a week because of classes and she's 5 years older than me.
I managed to ask her out to join our group for a group project but that's all I've done.
We do some talking but mostly school related shit.
She has a stable job and is constantly busy while I just got out of fucking HS.
Feels fucking terrible.
Should I just drop it while it's still early or pursue it?

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November 04, 2012 @ 16:27:13 PM
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Originally posted by Inactive User
So I met this cute chick at my community college but we only meet twice a week because of classes and she's 5 years older than me.
I managed to ask her out to join our group for a group project but that's all I've done.
We do some talking but mostly school related shit.
She has a stable job and is constantly busy while I just got out of fucking HS.
Feels fucking terrible.
Should I just drop it while it's still early or pursue it?


Based on my experience it really depends on the personality of the person. Can't say much on that large of an age gap but, my last ex was almost a year older than me and we were together for a while. While another girl I went on a date with recently was 2 years older than me made me feel like a effen baby. She was already done with school, had a career, owned her own pad and acted the part too.
November 06, 2012 @ 03:04:21 AM
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aight HB my game is immaculate 9 times outta 10, but I just got into some weird internet-age shit I need yalls help with. Got drunk as fuck one night and looked my college up on tumblr. Proceeded to follow this dime-piece caucasian shawty who is by far the most "my type" of girl I've met since I started school. She hit me up and we started talking. Of course got her number and she digs me cause I'm me. Finally decided to meet ole girl so we're planning on kicking it at her place, blazing, and playing some guitar and shit tomorrow.

Never picked up/met a girl online because I'm not lame as fuck, but this is some unexplored territory. Any of you fuckbois have experience with this shit? I lowkey feel her so I'm trying to make this shit work out. Any advice/personal stories/anything related to this type of shit is welcomed.

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November 06, 2012 @ 03:11:01 AM
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^^bruh imma tell you right now that internet shit does not work in the long run.

:)

November 06, 2012 @ 03:26:27 AM
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Originally posted by Inactive User
^^bruh imma tell you right now that internet shit does not work in the long run.
Originally posted by Inactive User
^^bruh imma tell you right now that internet shit does not work in the long run.


bruhhh I know, which is why I never do the shit. I need some coaching when it comes to meeting a random broad off the internet....how to make sure the bitch isn't crazy, when to dip, etc.

you got any experience with this shit?
November 06, 2012 @ 03:29:27 AM
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@dmwalking Damn that was good advice, and a good analogy. The only reason I think it got this bad was because I was unsure whether I liked her or not. And I want to come clean and tell her how I feel, but I just don't know how I should go about doing it. How should I set it up? Maybe after a long talk or some sort of activity.

I tried to drop some serious hints. Examples.. the distance I had to drive to see her, telling her I miss her, paying for her food whenever we go out, going out of my way to help her with personal problems.


fuck a "set up" dude jus tell her next time you 2 are alone... honestly I feel like if you're confident u should bag her unless you're swagless

I duno man. With other girls I'm totally confident or I just don't give a shit, but with this one I care about what she thinks of me, and I'm not really confident with her.


This, There's always that ONE girl you can't be comfortable with

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November 06, 2012 @ 03:33:15 AM
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oh ok i see, at least you plan on meeting her. all i can tell you is that make sure she seemed like a cool, has her head on her shoulders type of girl, if she is it might turn out ok, it will be awkward at first thats just a given, also how long have you guys been talking online?, the shorter the time the better. the longer you talk to someone without meeting them your expectations grow and you are in line for disappointment. Other than that if she seems crazy on the date or whatever just leave, i did and i haven't talked to her since. Overall just be careful bruh.

:)

November 06, 2012 @ 03:35:59 AM
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Originally posted by Inactive User
made it happen blushing
nice, way to go man

be careful what you pretend to be

November 06, 2012 @ 03:38:17 AM
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Originally posted by Inactive User
^^bruh imma tell you right now that internet shit does not work in the long run.

@jacobsever
November 06, 2012 @ 03:51:57 AM
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Originally posted by Inactive User
^^bruh imma tell you right now that internet shit does not work in the long run.

@jacobsever

his wont last, sorry Jacob but it might not you and that girl have a huge age difference, and possibly a maturity difference.
@jacobsever
Originally posted by Inactive User
made it happen blushing
nice, way to go man

thanks man! smokeyface

:)

November 06, 2012 @ 03:54:52 AM
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Bitches be crazy.
November 06, 2012 @ 04:06:10 AM
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Originally posted by Inactive User
Bitches be crazy.

Please tell me a story about your bitches
@napoleon
November 06, 2012 @ 04:17:07 AM
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i was once a rapper and released an album

so i had this one chinese chick had to get rid of her quick cause she was bootleggin all ma shit!

na for real, i had my fair share.
November 06, 2012 @ 04:33:53 AM
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Originally posted by Inactive User
oh ok i see, at least you plan on meeting her. all i can tell you is that make sure she seemed like a cool, has her head on her shoulders type of girl, if she is it might turn out ok, it will be awkward at first thats just a given, also how long have you guys been talking online?, the shorter the time the better. the longer you talk to someone without meeting them your expectations grow and you are in line for disappointment. Other than that if she seems crazy on the date or whatever just leave, i did and i haven't talked to her since. Overall just be careful bruh.


Yeah we been talking for like 2 weeks I think. She has my number and hits me up if not every day, every other day. I mean she's chill as fuck. Smokes, really into playing guitar and singing, got good music taste, into box logos, absolutely gorgeous, gotta donk too for a white girl, goofy sense of humor that I'm really into, she's got it all bruh.

She's been trying to kick it for a week now and I've been delaying because the shit is weird to me, but I cemented the plans and it's going down tomorrow. Any idea how to get over that first awkward moment? I'm lowkey dreading that shit. I got dates down to a science, but this is wayyyyyy different.

I'll keep yall updated on how the situation goes down.
November 07, 2012 @ 03:34:09 AM
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What a let down. The girl was incredibly awkward and shy and I felt like I was babysitting, not on a date. She's 19 and I'm 21, but it felt like I was talking to a 14-15 year old. Stuck around for 2 hours and talked to her and her roommates for a bit. Made em laugh and stuff, but just felt way older than them. I normally talked to girls a year or two older than me so that's probably why this shit was so weird.

Told her my roommate needed me to help him with something and dipped. Damn, never doing this shit again.
November 07, 2012 @ 03:37:17 AM
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lol it was a learning process.

:)

November 10, 2012 @ 13:53:37 PM
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dang i'm stuck in that infinite friend zone. i meet this Indian girl in math class and we hit it off petty well and we do hw and stuff together. were pretty friendly and keep in mind im 18 and one day we study after class and i see this diamond ring on her finger and i'm like da fuk? and i ask her and she said she had an arranged marriage and that shes 24 (she looks mad young) i don't look surprised but its like fukkkk. over the few months of doing hw i even meet her husband and he lifts. i do too but not as much i got the better personality and face doe. but regardless she tells me all the time that hes a bitch nigga and complains and bitch like a girl and makes things complicated. i told her you don't need a beta nigga like that and but i didn't say it should me cuz shes kinda got more money while i still live with my parents (community college) and wouldn't be able to support that lyfestyle yet. the next day she even waits like an hr for me to come home just to do hw together over the phone and i hear her husband saying hes leaving to hit the gym or something. 5 min later she goes and that nigga got in a reck. he's in the hospital and she contacts me after like sorry for not finish the hw.lmao and i'm like forget about it and i was thinking pics or it didn't happen u know but thats an ass move at this points but she sent pics. i'm like god dam shes for me. don't play no games fk i luv a girl that don't play no games and is about it straight. next you know shes like telling me i love him and then like money comes in goes so man i drake her up... man.. idk what to do.. what am i to her. i can't tell where i stand . man she on point no games man girls my age play to many it gets tiring as fk.

Cmon get down with a real nigga wussup

November 10, 2012 @ 13:58:20 PM
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Originally posted by Inactive User
dang i'm stuck in that infinite friend zone. i meet this Indian girl in math class and we hit it off petty well and we do hw and stuff together. were pretty friendly and keep in mind im 18 and one day we study after class and i see this diamond ring on her finger and i'm like da fuk? and i ask her and she said she had an arranged marriage and that shes 24 (she looks mad young) i don't look surprised but its like fukkkk. over the few months of doing hw i even meet her husband and he lifts. i do too but not as much i got the better personality and face doe. but regardless she tells me all the time that hes a bitch nigga and complains and bitch like a girl and makes things complicated. i told her you don't need a beta nigga like that and but i didn't say it should me cuz shes kinda got more money while i still live with my parents (community college) and wouldn't be able to support that lyfestyle yet. the next day she even waits like an hr for me to come home just to do hw together over the phone and i hear her husband saying hes leaving to hit the gym or something. 5 min later she goes and that nigga got in a reck. he's in the hospital and she contacts me after like sorry for not finish the hw.lmao and i'm like forget about it and i was thinking pics or it didn't happen u know but thats an ass move at this points but she sent pics. i'm like god dam shes for me. don't play no games fk i luv a girl that don't play no games and is about it straight. next you know shes like telling me i love him and then like money comes in goes so man i drake her up... man.. idk what to do.. what am i to her. i can't tell where i stand . man she on point no games man girls my age play to many it gets tiring as fk.


Lmao, you're a fucking beta ass idiot.
November 10, 2012 @ 14:32:30 PM
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lol i think of your words about me bein to much of a bitch all the time lmao . its tough tho

Cmon get down with a real nigga wussup

November 10, 2012 @ 19:05:14 PM
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November 10, 2012 @ 19:33:55 PM
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Whenever my girlfriend says "meh", that shit always irritates me. Makes me feel so irrelevant and uninteresting. I want to tell her that it irks me, but at the same time I don't want to change her and hurt her feelings.

November 10, 2012 @ 21:09:28 PM
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Originally posted by Inactive User
lol i think of your words about me bein to much of a bitch all the time lmao . its tough tho


Fuck sake... Now I semi feel bad for your beta ass son. OK let me give you a real answer... You're so far in the friendzone she's gonna be taking you dress shopping next. This really is a no-brainer, she's married, she's six years older than you and she's Indian man, those Indian broads rarely give it up. Also, it sounds like she's using you for help with homework so you might wanna put her in line on that one too.

Whenever my girlfriend says "meh", that shit always irritates me. Makes me feel so irrelevant and uninteresting. I want to tell her that it irks me, but at the same time I don't want to change her and hurt her feelings.



Lmao... Fucking hell... Man up you bitch. Put her in her place, have some confidence SMH you're the type of dude that bitches cheat on with real men.
November 10, 2012 @ 21:09:45 PM
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Lol what? Tell her to quit that shit. You ain't changing her nigga if the word bothers you she needa respect that & cut that shit out
November 11, 2012 @ 00:13:00 AM
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Aight so ima need some real advice on this.

So the other day I went out with a group of friend for this girls Bday. I been had fucked the Bday girl on some I have zero feelings for you, but I need to get my dick wet type shit. After the Bday celebration we go back to this other girl's place. I'm the only one really drunk cause I had 1.5 sake bottles to myself nah mean. The girl has these twins as roommates. I been had a crush on these twins since i saw them do this fashion show at my school. So so fine. So i ask them if they wanna go get some more dranks cause no one else bout that life. They say Hell Yea, Hell Yea at the same time, swear on errthang. Anyways we come back and start to drank and a few other people join in and play Kings. Its like 2am and people have class tomorrow so everyone leaves or goes to their room. Except me and the twins and one asks if i wanna come to their room. We go and start talking about whatever. I really like her...and her sister. One twin goes to sleep cause she has a meeting tomorrow so I get the other sisters number before i jet. She tells me I'm really cool and we should hang out again...

Part 2:
We hung out again yesterday. We start watching Breaking Bad cause I told her whats gucci. She made chips and dip fo a nigga. We start getting real close...then her twin walks in. BUM BUM BUM. She jumps on the bed and gets super close to us. We all start talking and watching the show. Like they're totally different, but the same, and i think I'm in love with both already. We watch until episode 5 and its like 1am. We start chattin then playing the card game speed. Like both are heavily flirting with me and I dont know what to do. I can't get really any alone time with either to make a major move either. It gets to like 3am. I hug and kiss them on the cheek and leave. The one who has my number texts me saying good night I had a lot of fun and time flies when im with you blah blah blah. I fantasize about threesomes with them then fall asleep.

So like....i don't even know where Im at or what to do. Anybody got advice or experience with twins.
November 11, 2012 @ 00:17:57 AM
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Aight so ima need some real advice on this.

So the other day I went out with a group of friend for this girls Bday. I been had fucked the Bday girl on some I have zero feelings for you, but I need to get my dick wet type shit. After the Bday celebration we go back to this other girl's place. I'm the only one really drunk cause I had 1.5 sake bottles to myself nah mean. The girl has these twins as roommates. I been had a crush on these twins since i saw them do this fashion show at my school. So so fine. So i ask them if they wanna go get some more dranks cause no one else bout that life. They say Hell Yea, Hell Yea at the same time, swear on errthang. Anyways we come back and start to drank and a few other people join in and play Kings. Its like 2am and people have class tomorrow so everyone leaves or goes to their room. Except me and the twins and one asks if i wanna come to their room. We go and start talking about whatever. I really like her...and her sister. One twin goes to sleep cause she has a meeting tomorrow so I get the other sisters number before i jet. She tells me I'm really cool and we should hang out again...

Part 2:
We hung out again yesterday. We start watching Breaking Bad cause I told her whats gucci. She made chips and dip fo a nigga. We start getting real close...then her twin walks in. BUM BUM BUM. She jumps on the bed and gets super close to us. We all start talking and watching the show. Like they're totally different, but the same, and i think I'm in love with both already. We watch until episode 5 and its like 1am. We start chattin then playing the card game speed. Like both are heavily flirting with me and I dont know what to do. I can't get really any alone time with either to make a major move either. It gets to like 3am. I hug and kiss them on the cheek and leave. The one who has my number texts me saying good night I had a lot of fun and time flies when im with you blah blah blah. I fantasize about threesomes with them then fall asleep.

So like....i don't even know where Im at or what to do. Anybody got advice or experience with twins.

you aint gettin shit if you can't even get wit yo ugly ass so called milf spanish teacher.

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November 11, 2012 @ 00:21:53 AM
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Cause trying to get a grown married Spanish professor is the same as trying to get a college girl...
Nigga do you have a life at all? I swear you're on this site 24/7 posting some dumb bullshit no one laughs or cares about.
November 11, 2012 @ 02:55:46 AM
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yo guys i'm hella lost right now.

one of my friend has been trying to get at this chick for like 2 years and is in the brother zone (worst than friends) and he still has feelings for her but she doesn't. i'm hella attracted to her and i believe she is back, problem is since my friend is obsessed with her idk if i should make a move or not. what should i do?

Be about it

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