The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread - Page 122

January 24, 2013 @ 10:31 AM

veryrareandbased

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Location: The Trap

@itsjem shit kinda reminds me of my situation with this girl a year back. How I handled mine was we both just stopped talking, were basically strangers now and I feel its for the best, though I still think about her & miss her. i thought about all the negative shit she brought in my life that held me back. So i just miss the moments & the person she used to be.

With my thought on your situation. Try to fix it, give it a couple days or so just to let things sit then get back to her and figure things out then. I always say this to all my homies that ask me for advice, it doesn't matter on what we tell you, it's all on you. As simp as it sounds, it all depends on what you feel inside deep down. cause sometimes your mind can blind the fact you do care about her but then at the moment you'll be all mad, but your mind can also cloud the fact this girl might just be bad news & a bitch thats holding you back.
So whatever it is that you feeling go with it, if it works out, good. If it doesn't then life goes on, move forward, don't stay stuck. You can miss her and all that but go for whats best. Never stay on stuck.

#HANSUMBOYZ / "I mean I just wanted the pussy tbh."- Thad #FREETHAD

January 24, 2013 @ 01:08 PM

Pantic

Post: 2270

Join Date: Jan 2010

Location: The basement

So i've seen this girl twice, she slept at my crip and i hit that first night. But i haven't had a girlfriend for ages, and i feel like this one could potentially be my next one because i really dig her.
However she told me long ago this would be a super busy this month, and i haven't seen her for 2 weeks and im not gonna be able to see her for another week either.. So we text every day and shit, but i need to smash too and i can't walk around for 3 weeks without seeing her and not talk to other girls in between.
So should i bring it up? Or just try to let it slide and see if things get better next month.

January 24, 2013 @ 02:09 PM

Feelin_Foolay

Post: 65

Join Date: Jun 2011

Fucking bitch ass nigga crying and getting beat up by an ex lmaooooo

January 24, 2013 @ 02:15 PM

S H I N O B I

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Post: 1455

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So i've seen this girl twice, she slept at my crip and i hit that first night. But i haven't had a girlfriend for ages, and i feel like this one could potentially be my next one because i really dig her.
However she told me long ago this would be a super busy this month, and i haven't seen her for 2 weeks and im not gonna be able to see her for another week either.. So we text every day and shit, but i need to smash too and i can't walk around for 3 weeks without seeing her and not talk to other girls in between.
So should i bring it up? Or just try to let it slide and see if things get better next month.

lowkey talk to other bitches and when she has more time on her hand get rid of the side bitches

February 3, 2013 @ 06:29 PM

buddha-monk

Post: 49

Join Date: Jan 2013

So, there's this girl I've known for a little over a year now. Over this year we've become come pretty close friends, we always hang out together, smoke, go to the movies, whatever. More recently, like, when my sophmore year of college started back in September, we started hanging out just us two, before it was always with other people And during this time from September till now Ive developed some pretty strong feeling for this girl. During this past winter break things have escalated, i guess, ever since a big group of my friends went to a club and I was all faded and felt brave I guess, and I asked her to dance, she agreed and grinded on me for the rest of the night . Its been a few weeks and ive been wanting to know how exactly she feels about me and if she'd be down to like date me or w/e. I just don't know how to ask, ya feel? I mean i know she cares about me, I just don't know how much. And a lot of my friends have been asking me if we're together cuz since winter break, pretty much when I'm not with them I'm with her. I also feel like if i just macked her down one time it would be a wrap. I just don' know how to go about this.

February 3, 2013 @ 06:34 PM

$$$$$

Post: 1728

Join Date: May 2011

Location: NY

just go in and kiss her pussy. It aint that hard.

February 3, 2013 @ 06:41 PM

thatkidcisco

Post: 42

Join Date: Dec 2011

Location: California

So, there's this girl I've known for a little over a year now. Over this year we've become come pretty close friends, we always hang out together, smoke, go to the movies, whatever. More recently, like, when my sophmore year of college started back in September, we started hanging out just us two, before it was always with other people And during this time from September till now Ive developed some pretty strong feeling for this girl. During this past winter break things have escalated, i guess, ever since a big group of my friends went to a club and I was all faded and felt brave I guess, and I asked her to dance, she agreed and grinded

on me for the rest of the night . Its been a few weeks and ive been wanting to know how exactly she feels about me and if she'd be down to like date me or w/e. I just don't know how to ask, ya feel? I mean i know she cares about me, I just don't know how much. And a lot of my friends have been asking me if we're together cuz since winter break, pretty much when I'm not with them I'm with her. I aslo feel like if i just macked her down one time it would be a wrap. I just don' know how to go about this.

Just tell her how you feel, shes probably waiting on you to make the move. Don't wait until she decides you're taking too long and she moves on.

February 3, 2013 @ 06:53 PM

Pantic

Post: 2270

Join Date: Jan 2010

Location: The basement

So, there's this girl I've known for a little over a year now. Over this year we've become come pretty close friends, we always hang out together, smoke, go to the movies, whatever. More recently, like, when my sophmore year of college started back in September, we started hanging out just us two, before it was always with other people And during this time from September till now Ive developed some pretty strong feeling for this girl. During this past winter break things have escalated, i guess, ever since a big group of my friends went to a club and I was all faded and felt brave I guess, and I asked her to dance, she agreed and grinded on me for the rest of the night . Its been a few weeks and ive been wanting to know how exactly she feels about me and if she'd be down to like date me or w/e. I just don't know how to ask, ya feel? I mean i know she cares about me, I just don't know how much. And a lot of my friends have been asking me if we're together cuz since winter break, pretty much when I'm not with them I'm with her. I also feel like if i just macked her down one time it would be a wrap. I just don' know how to go about this.

man... ur in college and haven't had your first kiss yet, cute.

February 3, 2013 @ 07:06 PM

Quan292

Post: 705

Join Date: Jul 2010

Location: Queens Ny

Seems like she is down for it. Don't do no regular let me tell you straight up how i feel type shit. Why not make it something she will always remember and go all out. Just walk up and kiss her on some movie shit.

February 3, 2013 @ 07:11 PM

buddha-monk

Post: 49

Join Date: Jan 2013

So, there's this girl I've known for a little over a year now. Over this year we've become come pretty close friends, we always hang out together, smoke, go to the movies, whatever. More recently, like, when my sophmore year of college started back in September, we started hanging out just us two, before it was always with other people And during this time from September till now Ive developed some pretty strong feeling for this girl. During this past winter break things have escalated, i guess, ever since a big group of my friends went to a club and I was all faded and felt brave I guess, and I asked her to dance, she agreed and grinded on me for the rest of the night . Its been a few weeks and ive been wanting to know how exactly she feels about me and if she'd be down to like date me or w/e. I just don't know how to ask, ya feel? I mean i know she cares about me, I just don't know how much. And a lot of my friends have been asking me if we're together cuz since winter break, pretty much when I'm not with them I'm with her. I also feel like if i just macked her down one time it would be a wrap. I just don' know how to go about this.
man... ur in college and haven't had your first kiss yet, cute.

lol

February 3, 2013 @ 07:17 PM

brun

Post: 591

Join Date: Feb 2012

Location: UK

Who said he hasn't had his first kiss lol?

Alot of the guys in these threads should just confront the girl with their feelings to be honest. If she's not on it then move on

February 3, 2013 @ 07:23 PM

buddha-monk

Post: 49

Join Date: Jan 2013

So, there's this girl I've known for a little over a year now. Over this year we've become come pretty close friends, we always hang out together, smoke, go to the movies, whatever. More recently, like, when my sophmore year of college started back in September, we started hanging out just us two, before it was always with other people And during this time from September till now Ive developed some pretty strong feeling for this girl. During this past winter break things have escalated, i guess, ever since a big group of my friends went to a club and I was all faded and felt brave I guess, and I asked her to dance, she agreed and grinded on me for the rest of the night . Its been a few weeks and ive been wanting to know how exactly she feels about me and if she'd be down to like date me or w/e. I just don't know how to ask, ya feel? I mean i know she cares about me, I just don't know how much. And a lot of my friends have been asking me if we're together cuz since winter break, pretty much when I'm not with them I'm with her. I also feel like if i just macked her down one time it would be a wrap. I just don' know how to go about this.
man... ur in college and haven't had your first kiss yet, cute.

It's not that, but I've known her for a long time, and idk, i feel like it would be weird or some shit.

February 5, 2013 @ 03:43 AM

itsjem

Post: 958

Join Date: Apr 2012

Location: California

@itsjem shit kinda reminds me of my situation with this girl a year back. How I handled mine was we both just stopped talking, were basically strangers now and I feel its for the best, though I still think about her & miss her. i thought about all the negative shit she brought in my life that held me back. So i just miss the moments & the person she used to be.

With my thought on your situation. Try to fix it, give it a couple days or so just to let things sit then get back to her and figure things out then. I always say this to all my homies that ask me for advice, it doesn't matter on what we tell you, it's all on you. As simp as it sounds, it all depends on what you feel inside deep down. cause sometimes your mind can blind the fact you do care about her but then at the moment you'll be all mad, but your mind can also cloud the fact this girl might just be bad news & a bitch thats holding you back.
So whatever it is that you feeling go with it, if it works out, good. If it doesn't then life goes on, move forward, don't stay stuck. You can miss her and all that but go for whats best. Never stay on stuck.

i took your advice i didnt talk to her for a week. we hung out briefly and got high and i just dipped. didnt talk for a couple days and she texted me one day saying hey john i miss you as a friend to friend thing. so i talked to her not really interested in talking to her would be short i hate texting. we were texting the other night and she told me she loves me and misses me alot.
i told her i still care too i aint gotta front.
she said no matter what. her feelings for me are not gonna change.
how she doesnt want me out of her life and wants to be happy with me whether we're just friends or more than that.
hates not having me around and that i am literally her best friend etc.
was asking me to trust her and how she has grown and learned from our mistakes and shit.

idk HB fam we arent going out. today would be our 5 year anniversary( Not simping) idk what to do i feel like theres a reason why we are still hanging in there trying to work it out but then again maybe not.

any more advice?

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February 5, 2013 @ 04:52 AM

veryrareandbased

Post: 1685

Join Date: Aug 2012

Location: The Trap

^ indecisive bitches, thats that shit i don't like.
since you know both of you got the same feels, then hang out more. Eat dat ass then be happy.

#HANSUMBOYZ / "I mean I just wanted the pussy tbh."- Thad #FREETHAD

February 5, 2013 @ 07:55 PM

kbos

Post: 1881

Join Date: May 2008

Location: boston

I got one for hb fam, and its not about my girl, its about my friend a hit a few years back. Wonderin what others 2 cents are bout her actions. There was this cute girl i was diggin for mad long, during some time we were both single we got close, but i had another girl i was diggin more so i wasn't that focused on her. She knew about the other chick and all that, but eventually we couldn't resist, we had a night out partying and she came home with me, she brought a condom and everything and she was only kicking it with me that weekend so I figured she planned for it, after that I got more serious with the other girl but I kept kicking it with home girl I banged, being just friends with her was good, we were a little flirty still doe, smooched once drunk by accident, we slowly ended up chilling less and less and she got a man and im still serious with the other girl. Now I see her occasionally, we dont really make plans just through mutual friends we kick it, she still acts a little flirty though, touches my face, sneaks up on me from behind and buts her hands over my eyes, runs her fingers through my hair, always a big hug, doesnt really try to get near me and snuggly but seems comfy if i initiate (I wouldn't even be tryna do that if she wasn't doin that other flirty shit), on the other hand its not like shes all over me and sometimes doesn't often reply to my texts or seem that interested in chillin if i hit her up, she shoot me a happy bday text all caps with the heart today. whats hb fam opinion on this females actions? she doesnt bone mad dudes or stay acting like that with her other male friends, but she also doesn't seem all over my d. you think shes still attracted but tryna keep her distance after i hit that ass a few years back, since we're both in relationships with other ppl? thats my theory but i don't want to play myself and find myself wrong the next time we're both single and i try to see whats good with her.

February 5, 2013 @ 08:11 PM

dmwalking

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Location: New England

It's that familiarity. That, and you prolly piped it well. So, 1, y'all get along. 2, you're a good memory. Being around you is a good reminder. But shorty is most likely a loyal non cheating type so she aint' taking it further than that. But she still digs you and would def let it happen again under the right circumstances.

That's my take on it.

guy on some broke bus. Love, Sosa. "Don't feed the trolls" initiative coming soon. We can rebuild.

February 5, 2013 @ 08:51 PM

thrillmatic

Post: 515

Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: Kansas City/Los Ange...

Don't come to this thread often cuz some of these posts be convoluted as fuck.

Just wondering, if a girl is always giggling around you, is that an indicator that she's down? One I know in particular always finds herself acting as such while in my presence. Don't know why. I'm a serious looking dark-skinned nigga. She can't be laughing at my appearance, my pea coat is new and I'm not ashy. I don't make jokes very often either.

"Rap in 2012 is basically just a mad dash for people of EVERY human subset to be represented by a rapper." - damnwitless1

February 5, 2013 @ 10:48 PM

dvzr0

Post: 70

Join Date: Nov 2012

Don't come to this thread often cuz some of these posts be convoluted as fuck.

Just wondering, if a girl is always giggling around you, is that an indicator that she's down? One I know in particular always finds herself acting as such while in my presence. Don't know why. I'm a serious looking dark-skinned nigga. She can't be laughing at my appearance, my pea coat is new and I'm not ashy. I don't make jokes very often either.

idk if that means she's down bro. could just mean she's high.

February 5, 2013 @ 11:04 PM

thrillmatic

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Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: Kansas City/Los Ange...

Don't come to this thread often cuz some of these posts be convoluted as fuck.

Just wondering, if a girl is always giggling around you, is that an indicator that she's down? One I know in particular always finds herself acting as such while in my presence. Don't know why. I'm a serious looking dark-skinned nigga. She can't be laughing at my appearance, my pea coat is new and I'm not ashy. I don't make jokes very often either.
idk if that means she's down bro. could just mean she's high.

I doubt that she inhales. Other suggestions?

"Rap in 2012 is basically just a mad dash for people of EVERY human subset to be represented by a rapper." - damnwitless1

February 6, 2013 @ 12:55 AM

tellmewhentogo

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Don't come to this thread often cuz some of these posts be convoluted as fuck.

Just wondering, if a girl is always giggling around you, is that an indicator that she's down? One I know in particular always finds herself acting as such while in my presence. Don't know why. I'm a serious looking dark-skinned nigga. She can't be laughing at my appearance, my pea coat is new and I'm not ashy. I don't make jokes very often either.
idk if that means she's down bro. could just mean she's high.
I doubt that she inhales. Other suggestions?

Just fuck her with your peacoat on.

Shoutout to K BOOG.

February 6, 2013 @ 03:50 AM

thrillmatic

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Location: Kansas City/Los Ange...

lol Y'all niggas are anything but resourceful.

"Rap in 2012 is basically just a mad dash for people of EVERY human subset to be represented by a rapper." - damnwitless1

February 6, 2013 @ 04:45 AM

domingodean

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Location: Ont

Don't come to this thread often cuz some of these posts be convoluted as fuck.

Just wondering, if a girl is always giggling around you, is that an indicator that she's down? One I know in particular always finds herself acting as such while in my presence. Don't know why. I'm a serious looking dark-skinned nigga. She can't be laughing at my appearance, my pea coat is new and I'm not ashy. I don't make jokes very often either.

yes she is feeling u. if she laughing at shit that aint funny. but if she just laughing at u when u aint even talking then either she heard a rumour about u or some shit and mocking u. but u said u dont make jokes so she most likely digging u shorty. they know wat they doing

grinding hitting Brazilian dimes from behind. chopped not slopped. everyone plays the tough guy till shit pops off.

February 10, 2013 @ 10:22 PM

ThatGuyBars

Post: 789

Join Date: Jun 2012

Location: The depths of the 14...

Dam somebody did me dirty! I finally found a girl I really like and shit gets fucked up. When i first met her she was feeling me cause she gave me this long ass hug. So I got her number and we started talking. We started getting closer and she was feeling me too. Next thing I know, she's mad at me cause she said she "heard" that I ALWAYS talk about her. Keep telling her its a lie which it is. Then she says she has a boyfriend and im like "ok." So I text her 2 days later after she calms down "Are you still mad at me?" She says she's not but it seems like it every time i come around. Any advice cause I don't wanna give up yet?

Ayyy!-Fonzie

February 12, 2013 @ 06:28 PM

thrillmatic

Post: 515

Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: Kansas City/Los Ange...

Another lil something I was wondering about:

How do you let her know she got it goin on without coming off as thirsty?

"Rap in 2012 is basically just a mad dash for people of EVERY human subset to be represented by a rapper." - damnwitless1

February 12, 2013 @ 08:14 PM

R.

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Join Date: Mar 2009

Location: Vancouver

Yo so I'm at this going away party for a friend of mine and this chick I really like phones me to go to the restroom and I see her there crying, of all her friends at that party she calls me to comfort her. I'm pretty dumb when it comes to these type of shit so I'm wondering am I in the friend zone or not? she started telling me about her personal life, and how she hates her ex, and that 1 of her friends called her a beggar that night, which isn't true lol. I'm 21 and shes 25 if that matters.

February 12, 2013 @ 08:51 PM

Pantic

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Join Date: Jan 2010

Location: The basement

Bruh i got one tip for you, go fuck some other bitch and forget that one.
First off, yea you are friendzoned bigtime. If a girl is feeling you, and you havent even smashed yet, she would never let you see her sitting at a damn toilet crying.

Second off, who wants to deal with a damn bitch thats already crying about her problems when you aren't even dating her? Imagine the amount of bullshit you are gonna have to live with if you did end up with her.

February 13, 2013 @ 03:02 AM

Astrobrite

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Shouts out to the people in this thread.

It's dope how niggas here offer legitimate and insightful advice, keep trolling to a minimum, and keep shit positive the majority of the time. I check this shit every once in a while and have learned a lot of things that I wish I knew when I was younger. This is HB at its best.

February 13, 2013 @ 03:52 AM