The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Feb 13, 2013 @ 04:50
Finna go on my first year of college real soon.

any advice y'all can give a man on how to stay focused, pullin girls etc. ?

hansum is 4ever

Feb 13, 2013 @ 05:29
Finna go on my first year of college real soon.

any advice y'all can give a man on how to stay focused, pullin girls etc. ?
always borrow someone's pencil

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Feb 13, 2013 @ 05:47
Finna go on my first year of college real soon.

any advice y'all can give a man on how to stay focused, pullin girls etc. ?
make sure you dorm and commuting is not the business

Be about it

Feb 14, 2013 @ 01:29
Feb 14, 2013 @ 01:32
Feb 15, 2013 @ 05:12
Dam somebody did me dirty! I finally found a girl I really like and shit gets fucked up. When i first met her she was feeling me cause she gave me this long ass hug. So I got her number and we started talking. We started getting closer and she was feeling me too. Next thing I know, she's mad at me cause she said she "heard" that I ALWAYS talk about her. Keep telling her its a lie which it is. Then she says she has a boyfriend and im like "ok." So I text her 2 days later after she calms down "Are you still mad at me?" She says she's not but it seems like it every time i come around. Any advice cause I don't wanna give up yet?
I know this sounds fucking retarded but any advice for my problem?

Ayyy!-Fonzie

Feb 15, 2013 @ 05:20
Dam somebody did me dirty! I finally found a girl I really like and shit gets fucked up. When i first met her she was feeling me cause she gave me this long ass hug. So I got her number and we started talking. We started getting closer and she was feeling me too. Next thing I know, she's mad at me cause she said she "heard" that I ALWAYS talk about her. Keep telling her its a lie which it is. Then she says she has a boyfriend and im like "ok." So I text her 2 days later after she calms down "Are you still mad at me?" She says she's not but it seems like it every time i come around. Any advice cause I don't wanna give up yet?
I know this sounds fucking retarded but any advice for my problem?
Stop talking to her for awhile
Feb 16, 2013 @ 03:02
Well my girlfriend has pretty strict parents I mean I haven't even been in her room. The thing is, I am 20 ans she is 19. We have been together for 10 months. We just started getting sexual. Today we got into it and I took off one condom I thought I put it in the trash next to my desk. I couldn't find it after so I said I would look for it. Well my girlfriend went home. Her mom tells her to get in the car as soon as she gets home. They rush off. Then when getting out of the car her mom grabs her purse and nothing else but that condom I couldn't find. Her mom ask her what is this? My girlfriend texted me this a few minutes ago. What should I do?
Feb 16, 2013 @ 03:10
Shouts out to the people in this thread.

It's dope how niggas here offer legitimate and insightful advice, keep trolling to a minimum, and keep shit positive the majority of the time. I check this shit every once in a while and have learned a lot of things that I wish I knew when I was younger. This is HB at its best.
shut up bitch nigga.
Feb 16, 2013 @ 03:13
Well my girlfriend has pretty strict parents I mean I haven't even been in her room. The thing is, I am 20 ans she is 19. We have been together for 10 months. We just started getting sexual. Today we got into it and I took off one condom I thought I put it in the trash next to my desk. I couldn't find it after so I said I would look for it. Well my girlfriend went home. Her mom tells her to get in the car as soon as she gets home. They rush off. Then when getting out of the car her mom grabs her purse and nothing else but that condom I couldn't find. Her mom ask her what is this? My girlfriend texted me this a few minutes ago. What should I do?

wtf she brought ur used condom home? ew
Feb 16, 2013 @ 03:38
Well my girlfriend has pretty strict parents I mean I haven't even been in her room. The thing is, I am 20 ans she is 19. We have been together for 10 months. We just started getting sexual. Today we got into it and I took off one condom I thought I put it in the trash next to my desk. I couldn't find it after so I said I would look for it. Well my girlfriend went home. Her mom tells her to get in the car as soon as she gets home. They rush off. Then when getting out of the car her mom grabs her purse and nothing else but that condom I couldn't find. Her mom ask her what is this? My girlfriend texted me this a few minutes ago. What should I do?

wtf she brought ur used condom home? ew
It stuck to her  she didn't  know her mom found it in the back seat. 
Feb 16, 2013 @ 03:44
Well my girlfriend has pretty strict parents I mean I haven't even been in her room. The thing is, I am 20 ans she is 19. We have been together for 10 months. We just started getting sexual. Today we got into it and I took off one condom I thought I put it in the trash next to my desk. I couldn't find it after so I said I would look for it. Well my girlfriend went home. Her mom tells her to get in the car as soon as she gets home. They rush off. Then when getting out of the car her mom grabs her purse and nothing else but that condom I couldn't find. Her mom ask her what is this? My girlfriend texted me this a few minutes ago. What should I do?

wtf she brought ur used condom home? ew
It stuck to her  she didn't  know her mom found it in the back seat. 

wait what? u just said it was in the trash
Feb 16, 2013 @ 03:49
wtf she brought ur used condom home? ew
It stuck to her  she didn't  know her mom found it in the back seat. 

wait what? u just said it was in the trash
I said I thought I put it in the trash. Most have missed and somehow it got stuck on her. It's cool tight now though. Her dad is just giving her the cold shoulder. 
Feb 16, 2013 @ 04:31
bahaha! imo parents should be glad shes using protection if shes gonna be active
Feb 16, 2013 @ 05:27
lol shes 19 ur 20 and didn't bone for 10 months. Rough. I thought people we done with that shit by age 17 or 18 latest. That over protected lifestyle.
Feb 16, 2013 @ 05:58
lol shes 19 ur 20 and didn't bone for 10 months. Rough. I thought people we done with that shit by age 17 or 18 latest. That over protected lifestyle.
Why do you think most girls turn into ho's in college?
Mar 04, 2013 @ 23:53
^ cause they realize all they want is the d.

Ayyy!-Fonzie

Mar 04, 2013 @ 23:59
Ok its been almost 2 months, go for it?

Ayyy!-Fonzie

Mar 05, 2013 @ 00:20
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Mar 05, 2013 @ 00:37
Ok its been almost 2 months, go for it?
lmao son you still simping over that bitch while shes getting another d.... forever losing
Mar 05, 2013 @ 01:53
Ok its been almost 2 months, go for it?
lmao son you still simping over that bitch while shes getting another d.... forever losing
Mar 05, 2013 @ 02:41
^ Dam true words. I will stop im just in shock that I had the pussy, then I lost it by niggas lieing on me.

Real shit, should I start talking to her again?

Ayyy!-Fonzie

Mar 05, 2013 @ 03:17
Mar 05, 2013 @ 03:37
^ Dam true words. I will stop im just in shock that I had the pussy, then I lost it by niggas lieing on me.


Real shit, should I start talking to her again?
hell no duu
Mar 05, 2013 @ 03:55
Bruhs, i never post in here but halp

[Disclaimer: This is aimed at me getting with girl A] 
[Disclaimer 2: i'm on adderall]  
Background

Early In my biol class this quarter i caught eyes with this cute ass girl (A) and had her smile at me during class. This would be a great opportunity except that in the same class, i was trying to get with this girl (B) i've known previously and whom I know likes me. When girl A smiled at me i was sitting next to girl B and as a result didn't smile back at girl A (unintentional reflex). 

Here's where things get complicated. . .

At the same time I was talking to a different girl (C) and started to sit next to girl C in class (she is my lab partner). I got to know girl C and decided I wasnt attracted to her as i thought and decided to keep her a friend.
 At this point we've sat next to each other for 3 weeks and i i feel like other girls in the class think i'm in a relationship with her, so i stop sitting next to her.

ok so now to my dilemma...
its now late in the quarter with 2 weeks left and i go back to sitting next to girl B to potentially get something going with her only to find that i'm very attracted to girl A (gave me a smile early in the quarter and is way hotter than both girls). 

After i stopped sitting with girl C and before sitting with girl B, I noticed girl A started to try to get my attention again. On Friday i struck up a conversation with girl A before class and she seems pretty cool / my type. 
The only problem now is that today girl A didn't glance at me during class like she usually does, nor did she send her usual signs.

Any explanations on this?
+ I know i went in up over my head by gaming 3 different girls in the same class. Could it be that she (girl A) think's i'm a player and wants nothing to do with me now?
She's probably an 8.9/10 in the face aesthetically so i assume she isn't one of those insecure kind of girls and is flirting with guys too.

+ Could it also be that since i ignored her the first time she smiled at me in class, she is trying to get back at me (in a fucked up way)??

i was thinking that she probably wants ME to send HER signs, instead of her sending ME signs (she's probably unsure if i'm trying to get with girl B or not and doesn't want to catch feelings). 

Long story but i never had to go through this before, give me some ideas on how to get with girl A 



Mah dude u fuck up big time. Them females prolly been talking together about how u been trappin them and shit, thats how females work together like they got each others back. My quick and easiest and straight forward advice is to go and confront Girl A get to know her more personally and take it off from there 
Mar 06, 2013 @ 03:56
anyone ever been in a similar situation?

So there is this cute girl who is always talking online to a mutual friend of mine and im really interested in meeting/talking to her. The problem is I dont know how to approach her? Should I just be straight forward and ask my mutual friend to introduce us? I think thats too awkward to ask of her though, but I cant think of any other way of meeting her.

I need some advice
Mar 06, 2013 @ 05:03
anyone ever been in a similar situation?

So there is this cute girl who is always talking online to a mutual friend of mine and im really interested in meeting/talking to her. The problem is I dont know how to approach her? Should I just be straight forward and ask my mutual friend to introduce us? I think thats too awkward to ask of her though, but I cant think of any other way of meeting her.

I need some advice
Depends. U know her or have talked to her or r u guys complete strangers? If she goes to your school then it should be easy to introduce yourself. If not go with your friend to a party and ask him to invite her, then make your make your move playa 
Mar 06, 2013 @ 17:58
Depends. U know her or have talked to her or r u guys complete strangers? If she goes to your school then it should be easy to introduce yourself. If not go with your friend to a party and ask him to invite her, then make your make your move playa 
We are complete strangers, but its kinda hard to "run into" people at a college campus and I dont wanna be that creepy stalker guy trying to find her. My friend is a girl and she has a boyfriend who never lets her go out though....
Mar 07, 2013 @ 01:03
Depends. U know her or have talked to her or r u guys complete strangers? If she goes to your school then it should be easy to introduce yourself. If not go with your friend to a party and ask him to invite her, then make your make your move playa 
We are complete strangers, but its kinda hard to "run into" people at a college campus and I dont wanna be that creepy stalker guy trying to find her. My friend is a girl and she has a boyfriend who never lets her go out though....

you gone have to rely on your girl friend maybe not a party but coffee or a restaurant  where she can introduce you to her 
met this girl at a party. Smoked some weed together. She said she found a "smoking buddy" and i askd for her number. whats next?
time to get into that pussy b tell her sraightofrward if u like her and take her out to coffee or some shit not 2 expensive or simp material since you barely know her. Eventually you'll get to know her better and you'll either start to like her more or find out stuff u dnt like about her i.e her head game sucks, she got aids, ec
Mar 07, 2013 @ 13:04
Man i dated this one bitch a loooong time ago. We broke up and i was heartbroken fam, like listening to marvin's room with no irony type sad. Long story short she got a boyfriend and i fucked everything that wasnt a 5 or below. But man i just can't shake her completely. Even now, every time i run into her at the club or see a pic of her instagram or some shit i get caught up in the past... Have i become what i hated the most, a simp? 

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