The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

September 20, 2012 @ 16:05:35 PM
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I'm too busy for that, i want to make her invite me over for the D
September 20, 2012 @ 16:05:56 PM
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I need a lil advice here, not a relationship but i hooked up with this girl at the club some time ago, took her out back trying to smash but she didn't let me go all the way and i couldn't take her home cause i was with my boys in another town and had to sleep there. Now afterwards we've been talking a little but she's giving me the whole sweet girl deal, and made quite an effort in telling me how drunk she was. Now my take on this is that she is embarrased because we don't really know each other but still interested. I need some help on how to make her come out of her shell and show that freaky side again.


You were at a club bruh. 95% chance she WAS drunk. Don't take club behavior as normal behavior. Ever.
September 20, 2012 @ 16:31:04 PM
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I need a lil advice here, not a relationship but i hooked up with this girl at the club some time ago, took her out back trying to smash but she didn't let me go all the way and i couldn't take her home cause i was with my boys in another town and had to sleep there. Now afterwards we've been talking a little but she's giving me the whole sweet girl deal, and made quite an effort in telling me how drunk she was. Now my take on this is that she is embarrased because we don't really know each other but still interested. I need some help on how to make her come out of her shell and show that freaky side again.


She was intoxicated bro , she didn't know wtf she was talking about .
September 20, 2012 @ 16:45:25 PM
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Nah dude's you mistake me for a rookie. She wasn't that drunk and we were outside for a good 3 hours together before i left her at her girlfriends crib, nobody stays super drunk after that. Plus i just gave her my number and she hit my up the day after and is still being flirty and interested, just that she was busy "excusing" her behaviour. She wants me to think she is a good girl but i don't want none of that.
September 20, 2012 @ 21:54:09 PM
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Nah dude's you mistake me for a rookie. She wasn't that drunk and we were outside for a good 3 hours together before i left her at her girlfriends crib, nobody stays super drunk after that. Plus i just gave her my number and she hit my up the day after and is still being flirty and interested, just that she was busy "excusing" her behaviour. She wants me to think she is a good girl but i don't want none of that.


you guys saying she was too drunk or either being sarcastic or a just fucking rookies. like pantic said, all the "im drunk" shit is just excusing behavior
September 20, 2012 @ 22:14:54 PM
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Nah dude's you mistake me for a rookie. She wasn't that drunk and we were outside for a good 3 hours together before i left her at her girlfriends crib, nobody stays super drunk after that. Plus i just gave her my number and she hit my up the day after and is still being flirty and interested, just that she was busy "excusing" her behaviour. She wants me to think she is a good girl but i don't want none of that.


If all you're looking for is some pussy then on to the next one, both of you are wasting time on each other otherwise.
September 21, 2012 @ 01:53:00 AM
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question. do some girls act bad or act like some bitches in front of you to hide their feelings for you?
September 21, 2012 @ 02:10:10 AM
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question. do some girls act bad or act like some bitches in front of you to hide their feelings for you?


If she texts you or you guys are alone and she acts normal and flirty then yes I have known some girls that tend to do that.
September 21, 2012 @ 02:17:37 AM
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question. do some girls act bad or act like some bitches in front of you to hide their feelings for you?

I know some girls that won't talk to you when they're with friends but then just like get mad when you try to leave even if they're ignoring you.
September 21, 2012 @ 02:43:44 AM
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nah b i barely know her so i dont know if shes acting like a bitch to get my attention or she is a striaght up bitch
September 21, 2012 @ 02:45:44 AM
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nah b i barely know her so i dont know if shes acting like a bitch to get my attention or she is a striaght up bitch


Either way, avoid that shit nigga. IF she does like you and she's already sending mixed signals you need to boot that bitch. Aint gonna get no better in the future.
September 21, 2012 @ 03:30:54 AM
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traggi coming through with that no experience advice though...
September 21, 2012 @ 03:36:54 AM
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traggi coming through with that no experience advice though...


How do you know I have no experience, exactly?

That's not dating experience anyways. That's general person experience. If someone is playing games you don't become their friend or significant other regardless.
September 30, 2012 @ 03:58:02 AM
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1. Saying “I love you” immediately before, during, or following sex doesn’t count.

2. Real men drive stick shift.

3. I will leave if you lie.

4. You are cute in raglan-sleeved T-shirts (two-toned baseball undershirts).

5. I’m convinced I’m pregnant and obsess about it for a minimum of 24 to 48 hours before my period, even when I have no rational reason to think so.

6. I love it when you hug me from behind and whisper in my ear.

7. “Fine” is never an appropriate response when I ask you how I look.

8. Most of the time when I fantasize, it’s about you.

9. I’m terrified of becoming my mother, even though I admire her.

10. I get turned on simply seeing that I have an e-mail from you.

11. I expect you to call me.

12. Only rock stars are allowed to wear leather pants.

13. I’m scared of losing my independence.

14. I’m more forgiving of you than I really should be.

15. Oral sex is your get-out-of-the-doghouse-free card. Manolo Blahnik shoes also do the trick.

16. You did something bad. I seem cool with it. I’m not. (See directly above.)

17. If I’m not having sex with you, I’m… a.) …having a fat day. b.) …not feeling “connected” to you. c.) …blackmailing you to get something I want.

18. Shoes determine whether you’re fashionable or not.

19. I own a Debbie Gibson CD, and I’m not afraid to use it.

20. When I compare my flabby tummy to a kangaroo pouch, say nothing.

21. A man I love plans the occasional fancy-schmancy dress-up date and impromptu weekend getaways, and he buys my favorite candy in advance when we’re just going to the movies.

22. You look hot in hooded clothing items.

23. You should never tell me what to do.

24. If I slept over, you owe me breakfast.

25. My breasts love much licking and sucking.

26. If you ask me out directly, I will say yes.

27. I’m very impressed when you ask for my advice.

28. I’m unimpressed with a man who doesn’t take the lead.

29. When in doubt, go with the shirt that matches your eye color.

30. I want to be Madonna.

31. Women get urinary-tract infections easily, so watch (and wash) your fingers.

32. I’m in heaven when you hold my hand.

33. You’re sexy when you’re shaving, fixing things, wearing a white T-shirt and jeans, driving, eating a peach, holding a baby.

34. I need to hear how you feel about me. Often. Tell me now.

35. Surprises, especially gifts for moi = more loving.

36. I want to be the best thing that ever happened to you–and for you to recognize this.

37. If I’m not feeling loved, I will start looking….

38. Discussion of ex-gf’s and ex-bf’s should be avoided at all times.

39. I like it when you tell me what you’re thinking, even if you don’t know yourself.

40. Celebrating our anniversary, even if it’s only been a few months, earns major bonus points.

41. I love it when you’re sweaty.

42. It’s best to consult your gal pals for gift ideas.

43. A lady should always be greeted with kisses.

44. I like porn.

45. I love holding your bum in the palms of my hands.

46. Even nice girls like hushed dirty talk in public.

47. It’s cheating as soon as you’re doing something with her that you wouldn’t want me to see, hear, read…

48. For the record: I’d rather you break up with me than cheat.

49. I remember everything about our relationship.

50. You should know all this and more without my telling you.

September 30, 2012 @ 04:24:15 AM
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28. I’m unimpressed with a man who doesn’t take the lead.

is true doe... prob why my ex broke up wit me lol
September 30, 2012 @ 04:58:03 AM
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50 Things Girls Want Guys To Know


I fucking hate lists like this. Probably written by some obese bitch at a "lifestyle" magazine.
September 30, 2012 @ 05:04:35 AM
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26. If you ask me out directly, I will say yes.


Got out a ltr some time ago-aiming for dat rebound. Honest opinion on this?
September 30, 2012 @ 05:06:32 AM
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26. If you ask me out directly, I will say yes.


Got out a ltr some time ago-aiming for dat rebound. Honest opinion on this?


Read it as: Don't beat around the bush. Get the #, ask her out, go on from there.
September 30, 2012 @ 07:00:41 AM
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Finally found a good thread.
My 2 year 5 month relationship ended, how do I cope with things when I put everything else on the side just for her? Feels like I lost everything when I feel I made her my everything?! </3

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September 30, 2012 @ 07:24:59 AM
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Finally found a good thread.
My 2 year 5 month relationship ended, how do I cope with things when I put everything else on the side just for her? Feels like I lost everything when I feel I made her my everything?! </3


advice, go to a club, get fucked up and hit on as many girls as possible. if you get a girl, take her home and if even that it doesn't change your mind then idk dude.

Be about it

September 30, 2012 @ 07:54:11 AM
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Finally found a good thread.
My 2 year 5 month relationship ended, how do I cope with things when I put everything else on the side just for her? Feels like I lost everything when I feel I made her my everything?! </3


No matter what you do it's gonna bother you for a while, but with time you'll stop giving a fuck. That's guaranteed. The only temporary solutions is to get lots of excess money, get intoxicated, or get pussy

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September 30, 2012 @ 07:55:47 AM
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Finally found a good thread.
My 2 year 5 month relationship ended, how do I cope with things when I put everything else on the side just for her? Feels like I lost everything when I feel I made her my everything?! </3


advice, go to a club, get fucked up and hit on as many girls as possible. if you get a girl, take her home and if even that it doesn't change your mind then idk dude.
The thing is, I ain't about that life. Even if I tried, I wouldn't be in the mental state to actually go with it and shit.

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September 30, 2012 @ 08:16:25 AM
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Location: Vancouver
Finally found a good thread.
My 2 year 5 month relationship ended, how do I cope with things when I put everything else on the side just for her? Feels like I lost everything when I feel I made her my everything?! </3


advice, go to a club, get fucked up and hit on as many girls as possible. if you get a girl, take her home and if even that it doesn't change your mind then idk dude.
The thing is, I ain't about that life. Even if I tried, I wouldn't be in the mental state to actually go with it and shit.

You got other priorities now.
Easier said than done, I know.. but just gotta stop thinking about her.
The best way is to occupy your mind.
Work, join sports teams, join clubs if you're at school, do other shit.

some wisdom too, lol
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iYfxNyOIS-I
September 30, 2012 @ 08:21:54 AM
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advice, go to a club, get fucked up and hit on as many girls as possible. if you get a girl, take her home and if even that it doesn't change your mind then idk dude.
The thing is, I ain't about that life. Even if I tried, I wouldn't be in the mental state to actually go with it and shit.

You got other priorities now.
Easier said than done, I know.. but just gotta stop thinking about her.
The best way is to occupy your mind.
Work, join sports teams, join clubs if you're at school, do other shit.

some wisdom too, lol
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iYfxNyOIS-I
Thanks for the advice, I've been in my baseball team for a while, thoughts only seem to go away when I have practice and stuff. I guess I gotta find something to do in the little gaps of time that get me reminding myself. Thanks.

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October 10, 2012 @ 21:09:05 PM
dmwalking
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Don't get emotionally invested. The truth is, once a cheater, always a cheater unless they've had a major psychological break through. It's just something you have to accept. Unless you're willing to accept that and take it on the chin, don't get emotionally invested. Everything's good NOW. And I believe you're right on the money that she's back with you because there's nothing else. But ask yourself: why did she cheat before? Because at that moment, there was something else. She's using you as a hold over. Cheaters are opportunists. When a better opportunity comes, they're jumping on it.

Option A: keep her around selfishly. It's nice to have a female around to do things for you.

Option B: Keep it as friends only.

Option C: Friends with benefits (not recommended. 9/10 it always gets complicated)

Option D: Get cheated on again.

yeah im highkey pounding at my keyboard rn getting heated, but its really nothing we can do about it razz So how was your day today?

October 10, 2012 @ 21:19:35 PM
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Don't get emotionally invested. The truth is, once a cheater, always a cheater unless they've had a major psychological break through. It's just something you have to accept. Unless you're willing to accept that and take it on the chin, don't get emotionally invested. Everything's good NOW. And I believe you're right on the money that she's back with you because there's nothing else. But ask yourself: why did she cheat before? Because at that moment, there was something else. She's using you as a hold over. Cheaters are opportunists. When a better opportunity comes, they're jumping on it.

Option A: keep her around selfishly. It's nice to have a female around to do things for you.

Option B: Keep it as friends only.

Option C: Friends with benefits (not recommended. 9/10 it always gets complicated)

Option D: Get cheated on again.


How did you become so wise DM?

Chicks barely dancin, glancin every chance they get, like - oh shit, he's so HANSUM

October 10, 2012 @ 22:20:51 PM
dmwalking
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How did you become so wise DM?


Lots of experience. Lots of observation. You'd be surprised how much you can learn just from watching other people. But I don't know as much as it seems. If this was an entrepreneureal forum full of 50 something white millionaires, I'd be lost. I'm just an old nigga on a young site so I just been there, done that, or seen it. The rest I'm still working on figuring out. In the meantime, I don't mind dropping some helpful info to help dudes avoid problems.

yeah im highkey pounding at my keyboard rn getting heated, but its really nothing we can do about it razz So how was your day today?

October 10, 2012 @ 22:31:48 PM
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Met a chick at a university when i was visiting one of my buddies. We were just eatin and her and her friend kept glancing at me every few minutes. I know somthins up but i don't pursue so im just like whatever. She ends up givin her number to my buddy and told him to give i to me. Text her for a few weeks. Go back down there again. Go to her room to chill. She asked mad fucking questions, just random and personal shit. In my head i was like "bitch shutup, lets bang" I was zoning out and eventually bounced cuz my penis went soft from all the questions. Texted her later on and she ends up saying sex aint that important to her and she wont do it with anybody. I didnt text her back. I mean she's cute but i'm just trying to bang, no relationships. Now that other chick that was checkin me out i heard was more down for sex aka slut so i'd be down for that shit.don't know if i can make the switch though. probably because shes a slut though.. I'm quite bored so i' thought i'd share and open to any advice or whatever
October 10, 2012 @ 22:43:14 PM
dmwalking
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I think it's funny when niggas answer their own questions in their rants. Like you already stating you don't want the lame shorty you just wanna bone so you want the slut. LOL. You just looking for affirmation.

But real talk, avoid mrs "sex ain't important to me." She's one of those chicks who try to preserve dignity when you're doing the deed. All those questions were more of an interrogation, too. She wants a relationship. Or rather, she wants a lap dog. She's likely argumentative and controlling too. Run. I wouldn't advise messing with the slut either cuz that's gonna drop your penis stock with the quality chicks. Like, if girls know you banging slores, they're gonna think less of you. They're trying to maintain their vagina value. Ain't no way for her to keep her stock high if she gets smashed by a dude who smashes slores. Stick to quality and quality will follow.

yeah im highkey pounding at my keyboard rn getting heated, but its really nothing we can do about it razz So how was your day today?

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