December 21, 2012 @ 02:50 AM
valleyla

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Location: Yass

yo HB check it 
there's this girl that I have known for a long while. I always thought she was real cool and like, we shared similar interests. She's younger than me and I never really tried to hit it back then or anything because when we met in high school she was too young for me and whatever. But like this same time last year she texted me because she was on break and wanted to chill and I was about it or whatever. She was acting all into me and she was obviously feeling it so we chilled some more and and messed around a little bit, and she was super into it. The next few weeks she would text me but would always flake when it came to seeing me, and a few weeks later this bitch got together with one of her exes.
So a year goes by and haven't started a conversation with her yet, but she would text me out of the blue and I would mostly reply with salty shit. She texted me a couple of days ago and told me she missed me and I told her not to play stupid with me and she knows why we don't talk anymore. She was basically begging to see me. I told her she could see me when she sees me. 
Reality is I'm still kind of feeling it and I don't even care. Even though I'm a pretty nice dude with girls and this isn't my style, I am trying to hit it (because I haven't yet) and split. 
so the way I see it I have three options: let her do her thing and if she wants to hit me up then whatever or SHOULD I TRY TO HIT IT??? Or just let her know she fucked up
Just let her know she fucked up in my opinion. That could work out better in the long run and get a steady fuck out of it instead of a dick and dash you know? When you say it just be like "you pulled some bullshit last year.". Don't be like "you fucked up, fuck you.". Play it cool but be straight about it.
December 21, 2012 @ 02:53 AM
ManRay

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Is it a good idea to ask out a girl to be ur gf after u kiss 

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December 21, 2012 @ 03:15 AM
E Styles

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That's lame as fuck nowadays bro 
December 21, 2012 @ 03:22 AM
ManRay

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I havent done anything like that before, i usually let it simmer down then ask the following day or 2. Just wanted opinions, thx.

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December 21, 2012 @ 03:24 AM
JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

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^how old are you?

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December 21, 2012 @ 04:29 AM
tellmewhentogo

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^ Probably in 8th grade or high school.

Let the shorty bring up that topic first. Don't ever be the first to ask.
December 30, 2012 @ 03:31 PM
Mr_Chukes

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Something strange kind of happened. Me and my girlfriend got into a conversation about how we both never really felt as attracted to our races. I'm African American and she is Mexican American. Then she said she thought back and she doesn't know why she didn't want more from the people she talked to. She said she didn't regret not wanting more. Also that she was extremely happy with our connections we have. Like when she thinks I'm sad or mad her heart starts beating fast and she instantly drops what she is doing to comfort me. It was a weird start but I liked how we ended up. 
December 30, 2012 @ 03:38 PM
Mr_Chukes

Post: 1699

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Location: California

hate getting complimented for my gf in public. makes me wanna slap the dude. i dont need other people to tell me my gf is hot.

this is a serious post. fuckboys will call me a faggot but i know theres alot of dudes this happens to, we out here.
Yeah that shit isn't needed. I only like when girls give me compliments on my girlfriend. Girls from my high school are always like wow you're girlfriend is so pretty. I'm happy for you guys. Niggas I couldn't give a fuck less about. 
December 30, 2012 @ 03:44 PM
Pantic

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Clearly you could give a "fuck less about" it, since you let it get to you, insecure beta ass.
December 30, 2012 @ 04:00 PM
Mr_Chukes

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Location: California

Clearly you could give a "fuck less about" it, since you let it get to you, insecure beta ass.
I said it isn't needed. I mean he's talking about people he doesn't really know right. I mean with the homies you show your girl off at times. That's different. Plus I know my girl loves me and it doesn't bother me. I let her have her space and hang with her friends at times. We both have independence. I know my girl feels the same. It's the reason she doesn't feel insecure about taking me to hooters. 
December 30, 2012 @ 06:06 PM
itsjem

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Location: California

DMWalking I know you on here some where advice!

Im still talking to my ex. We broke it off in February and picked it up when school started for her kind o. Anyways these past months haven't been that bad. She actually hungout with me And my homies the other night. (She's never really down to hangout with my friends) but anyways this is the same girl who I dated from 2007 to 2011 who cheated on me and I've done the same. Anyways we still hook up and still act like a couple but the thing is I don't think well ever be "official" again. I love her. No simpin but I really do care. We swapped vcards etc everything.I just turned 19 She's turning 18 in June. What should i do? She seems like she doesn't want the title of bf and gf should i just cut it off  I don't think i would be lost without her jafeel? I keep myself busy all kinds but I just would hate to keep investing emotions and time for its top late.  Should i just keep her for selfish reasons? What if shes doing the same. Hahah lol trippy way to think about it

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December 31, 2012 @ 01:24 AM
BOMAYE

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My ex started calling me at night as soon as we got on break. One night we talked and she said she missed me and that we should hang out the next morning. The morning comes and I'm about to go over to her house when she calls and says that she had to go to her grandma's to help her around the house, and that we should hang out tomorrow. I was like alright cool. The next day she texts me saying "Hey" and I text back saying "Wsup?". We havent talked for 9 days since that. What happened?

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January 1, 2013 @ 04:54 AM
tellmewhentogo

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^ She forgot about you.

Move on, my man. No need to hang on to the past; it's only preventing you from moving forward.
January 5, 2013 @ 03:31 AM
Pantic

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Im seeing this girl, and it's going great and all. Problem is im starting to like her alot, but she has never had a relationship and she is 19 years old. I don't know, it kinda makes me scared to get more involved even tho i want to.
Anyone ever been in this situation? We fucked at a party first time we met too, so i know it's not because shes an innocent little girl.
January 5, 2013 @ 04:12 AM
domingodean

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Location: Ont

@pantic she seems like she in a stage were shes just fucking around. and having fun with her life. one way, is make yourself unavailable. if shes hitting u up n shit thats an early sign. but still first night smash, i unno bout that shit. and dont try changing this broad. she might "change" just to use you of your shit. and move on to the next. 

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January 5, 2013 @ 06:30 AM
tellmewhentogo

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Pantic, you smashed on the first night yet she felt compelled to tell you that she's never been in a relationship?

Something doesn't add up, haha. Play it minimal for now; like dude above said, stay busy and make yourself unavailable. She could very well be playing you hard.
January 5, 2013 @ 07:18 AM
RawShack

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pantic you can always test the waters on her and see how she really is.
January 5, 2013 @ 11:08 PM
ellol

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wtf, sup with all these mind games? just chill
January 6, 2013 @ 12:06 AM
never_nervous

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What's your opinion on this situation.

I have a girlfriend whom I've been with for 2 and a half years and we are currently living together. Are relationship is good, we have our fights here and there about dumb shit but nothing big. We both moved from our hometown to another city but back home one of my best friends (I only have 2 because I realized that they were the only people I stayed in constant contact with after I moved and every time I go home I see them) is a girl, a really pretty one at that and I'm starting to feel weird about hanging out with her. The other day she was telling me that her family thinks she's a lesbian because she never brings any boys home yet I always go to her house and on New Years I even went to her family party (side note I'm black and she's white so I stuck out like a black guy in a crowd of white people). It isn't just that though, there has been a few awkward moments between the two of us. One example is when I had come home after not being there for two weeks. We saw each other at a party and when she saw me she ran to me grabbed my head with both hands and to an on looker it looked like we were about to kiss. My other best friend saw this happen and gave me a wired look. Another time we were at a get together and she intentionally put her hand on top of mine and kept it there for a while. One more example is when at my totter best friends house taking pictures she made me take a picture with her one was nothing special but the other one she laid down on the bed put her head in my lap and made me out my arm around her. She was about to put that one on Instagram but I made her use the other one. Maybe I'm over thinking this but I think shawty is in love with me.
January 6, 2013 @ 12:11 AM
.kciN

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^^ Sounds like she's definitely the flirty type... How does she get along with your girl cause the whole hand holding and pic with her head in your lap and tryna put it on instagram shit sounds grimey... 
January 6, 2013 @ 01:26 AM
taylorswift

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"My ex started calling me at night as soon as we got on break. One night we talked and she said she missed me and that we should hang out the next morning. The morning comes and I'm about to go over to her house when she calls and says that she had to go to her grandma's to help her around the house, and that we should hang out tomorrow. I was like alright cool. The next day she texts me saying "Hey" and I text back saying "Wsup?". We havent talked for 9 days since that. What happened?"
You guys are never ever getting back together.
January 6, 2013 @ 04:07 AM
never_nervous

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^^ Sounds like she's definitely the flirty type... How does she get along with your girl cause the whole hand holding and pic with her head in your lap and tryna put it on instagram shit sounds grimey... 
I never really hang out with them at the same time but as far as I know there are no problems there. My girl does seem a bit bothered that I chill with her but I don't sweat that. She isn't really a flirty person, she's actually kinda awkward when she talks to guys she has a crush on, probably why she has been single so long.
January 6, 2013 @ 04:18 AM
JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

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drop her bruh no point.

:)

January 6, 2013 @ 05:11 AM
ihatedumbhoes

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dammm dudes really be going in on this thread bout they love life lol
January 6, 2013 @ 05:26 AM
never_nervous

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drop her bruh no point.
She's the homie though, I have no intentions of throwing my friendship away. I really don't have a problem with the way she is with me because I know it won't get it the way of my relationship. I just wanted an opinion on the situation. 
January 6, 2013 @ 05:44 AM
WojieWorldPeace

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Location: Buffalo, NY

she def crying herself to sleep cuz ur taken lmao

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January 6, 2013 @ 06:54 PM
DaPark

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dammm dudes really be going in on this thread bout they love life lol
That's the whole point of the thread, dummy
January 7, 2013 @ 02:19 AM
JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

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drop her bruh no point.
She's the homie though, I have no intentions of throwing my friendship away. I really don't have a problem with the way she is with me because I know it won't get it the way of my relationship. I just wanted an opinion on the situation. 
you know you have feelings for her you can lie all you want, if you want to kill them and let them go cut her off completely. There is no other way. End of story

:)

January 7, 2013 @ 11:11 AM
lawless

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I'm in real deep on this one.

I was with this female two summers ago and we stayed together until Christmas time. Like six months or whatever. She was *supposed* to move so I ended things cause I don't do long-distance type shit. Her daddy turned down the job and now she's still here where I'm at. Normally that wouldn't be a big deal, just move on and put it on the backburner.

Here's where shit gets interesting... she's one of my closest homie's life-long friends. He's how we met. Just recently her parents split and her mom's off to Utah and her pops is moving to Arizona. She's a year behind me, a senior in hs. She's gonna finish her senior year here so she doesn't have to transfer half way through her last year with all her friends and miss out on shit blah blah blah all that sentimental bullshit. And since her pops is now moving and so is her mom, she's moving in with my homie to finish out the year. Nigga what the fuck do I do? His place is the go-to whenever the boys wanna chill/blaze/drink/etc. And she's always gonna be there. We hooked up a couple times at some parties since we ended things, most recently being a couple months ago but I know she still has feelings, she's told me. As bad as it is to say I just use her for the free pussy lmao. But now that she'll always be there I feel like it'll be awkward since I don't want anything to do with her anymore and it's gonna complicate things when I have a new girl over there. I'm not about to abandon my boys or pussy out cause she'll be there most of the time but I'm just lost on how to handle things with her. Thoughts?

xxyyxx.

January 7, 2013 @ 03:13 PM
Pantic

Post: 2270

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Location: The basement

Why the hell is it a problem to you? If you don't care about it just let it be her problem, i can't see how it's awkard for you at all. 

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