The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Jan 06, 2013 @ 18:54
dammm dudes really be going in on this thread bout they love life lol
That's the whole point of the thread, dummy

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Jan 07, 2013 @ 02:19
Originally posted by Inactive User
drop her bruh no point.
She's the homie though, I have no intentions of throwing my friendship away. I really don't have a problem with the way she is with me because I know it won't get it the way of my relationship. I just wanted an opinion on the situation. 
you know you have feelings for her you can lie all you want, if you want to kill them and let them go cut her off completely. There is no other way. End of story

:)

Jan 07, 2013 @ 11:11
Fucked up.

コム・デ・ギャルソン

Jan 07, 2013 @ 15:13
Why the hell is it a problem to you? If you don't care about it just let it be her problem, i can't see how it's awkard for you at all. 
Jan 07, 2013 @ 20:57
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コム・デ・ギャルソン

Jan 09, 2013 @ 21:17
nvm

10char.
Jan 12, 2013 @ 00:41
ok, now in this class a new girl came in. A few people knew her and when she came by I casually said what school you came from? Fast forward to a new class same people. I hear every week she goes out with a new dude but im not tryna date her. Anyways everytime she looks back she talks about this dude in front of me then while im taking notes, she dead at me but i think she's looking at the chick behind me. So I avoid her look and when I come around shes finished looking.

What to do HB, get that # or leave it alone. Not ugly but not cute.

BTW opinion on basketball games?

Ayyy!-Fonzie

Jan 12, 2013 @ 02:04
ok, now in this class a new girl came in. A few people knew her and when she came by I casually said what school you came from? Fast forward to a new class same people. I hear every week she goes out with a new dude but im not tryna date her. Anyways everytime she looks back she talks about this dude in front of me then while im taking notes, she dead at me but i think she's looking at the chick behind me. So I avoid her look and when I come around shes finished looking.

What to do HB, get that # or leave it alone. Not ugly but not cute.

BTW opinion on basketball games?


Not worth it, if shes with another guy every week she has other options besides you. She just wants your  attention and you to talk with. 
Jan 12, 2013 @ 13:46
I just woke up and my crib looks like shit from a party yesterday. 
So this girl is comming over in 2  hours and im stressin here, we was just supposed to hang out, eat pizza and have sex but i can't make this place presentable in 2 hours... 
Any suggestions what i can come up with that doesent include my apartment (hers is out of the question, 2 hour trip)
Jan 12, 2013 @ 16:39
I just woke up and my crib looks like shit from a party yesterday. 
So this girl is comming over in 2  hours and im stressin here, we was just supposed to hang out, eat pizza and have sex but i can't make this place presentable in 2 hours... 
Any suggestions what i can come up with that doesent include my apartment (hers is out of the question, 2 hour trip)
start cleaning bish

Fucktard we been developed a ratio

Jan 12, 2013 @ 23:43
Hold up, you kissed your nigga on the cheek?
Jan 13, 2013 @ 02:49
i haven't talked to this chick in a month but i used to hit her up between sept-nov. to ask to chill she always flaked, we used to have a thing back in the summer. Between those couple monthes she's been hella sus and avoiding towards me. then suddenly she hits me up 2 days ago and asks if i want to chill this weekend. not sure if i should go and give her that satisfaction or not go.
chilled with her today last night she told me last min she was gonna bring her sister. Nothing much happened except for friendly flirting. might ask her to watch gangster squad next week. its been monthes and im still confused about how she feels about me, do i ask her how she feels about me? or let it rock and stop simpin?
Jan 13, 2013 @ 03:06
Originally posted by Inactive User
i haven't talked to this chick in a month but i used to hit her up between sept-nov. to ask to chill she always flaked, we used to have a thing back in the summer. Between those couple monthes she's been hella sus and avoiding towards me. then suddenly she hits me up 2 days ago and asks if i want to chill this weekend. not sure if i should go and give her that satisfaction or not go.
chilled with her today last night she told me last min she was gonna bring her sister. Nothing much happened except for friendly flirting. might ask her to watch gangster squad next week. its been monthes and im still confused about how she feels about me, do i ask her how she feels about me? or let it rock and stop simpin?



smh nigga straight up tell her you like her and you'll get a response or else you'll just get stuck in that friend zone 
Jan 13, 2013 @ 03:16
Originally posted by Inactive User
i haven't talked to this chick in a month but i used to hit her up between sept-nov. to ask to chill she always flaked, we used to have a thing back in the summer. Between those couple monthes she's been hella sus and avoiding towards me. then suddenly she hits me up 2 days ago and asks if i want to chill this weekend. not sure if i should go and give her that satisfaction or not go.
chilled with her today last night she told me last min she was gonna bring her sister. Nothing much happened except for friendly flirting. might ask her to watch gangster squad next week. its been monthes and im still confused about how she feels about me, do i ask her how she feels about me? or let it rock and stop simpin?
like ole dude said just tell her how you feel don't be afraid of rejection bruh. 

:)

Jan 13, 2013 @ 03:37
Is there even a card to play to get out the friend zone?or is that shit a life sentence?
Jan 13, 2013 @ 03:39
yeah tell her how you feel
the only reason dudes get stuck in the zone is because yall are around the bush with your feelings. 

:)

Jan 13, 2013 @ 09:39
^^dont listen to this nigga man . . . if you in the friend zone then you might as well not even try and take things further with the bitch! straight up, it will just be awkward . . . especially if you "tell her how you feel" and she doesnt like you like that . . . you should be able to tell if a bitch is attracted to you w/ in the first couple mins you meet her . . . if she hasn't shown any attraction to you, like being all touchy feely and flirting with you and shit then you dont have a chance and if you do as this nigga Jacob is saying then you gon' look desperate as fuck . . . she should tell YOU how SHE feels! treat that bitch like shit, ignore her texts/calls for a few days, crack jokes on her . . . make her feel insecure, this will make her try and PROVE HERSELF to YOU! and thats how u pull a bitch u want . . . these simps giving bullshit advice
Jan 13, 2013 @ 12:12
Yo this is gonna sound silly but I told this girl awhile back in summer
that I would be enrolling in college once summer ended, which didn't
happen, and I kept playing along with that lie smh. It's been 7 months
now and she absolutely believes I'm back in school fuck. She was
irrelevant to me when I told her that bs so I didn't really care about the consequences but now
me and her got really close to the point where we both know we like each other and I wanna tell her the truth and ask her
out, but I don't know how I would go into doing this?
Jan 13, 2013 @ 16:15
^^dont listen to this nigga man . . . if you in the friend zone then you might as well not even try and take things further with the bitch! straight up, it will just be awkward . . . especially if you "tell her how you feel" and she doesnt like you like that . . . you should be able to tell if a bitch is attracted to you w/ in the first couple mins you meet her . . . if she hasn't shown any attraction to you, like being all touchy feely and flirting with you and shit then you dont have a chance and if you do as this nigga Jacob is saying then you gon' look desperate as fuck . . . she should tell YOU how SHE feels! treat that bitch like shit, ignore her texts/calls for a few days, crack jokes on her . . . make her feel insecure, this will make her try and PROVE HERSELF to YOU! and thats how u pull a bitch u want . . . these simps giving bullshit advice
this will work if your an 16-18 year old immature lame and she is a lame too. 

:)

dmwalking
Jan 13, 2013 @ 17:56
Originally posted by Inactive User
Is there even a card to play to get out the friend zone?or is that shit a life sentence?
yes. There are generally 3 categories.  Based on your actions, a chick will put you in one of the 3. 

1. Friend zone
2. Like zone
3. Sex zone

If you're in the friendzone, it's because you haven't made yourself clear.  If you tell her your intentions, then you'll officially be out of the friendzone.  She may reject you.  But at least you'll be out of the friendzone and in the like zone.   

The like zone has three parts. 

2a. Likes me but I don't like him back
2b. Likes me and I like him back
2c. doesn't like me but I like him

If you're in the friendzone it's most likely that she just doesn't see you in that way. You're non threatening. Possibly sensitive and frail.  Delicate.   So, what I recommend you do once you get out of the friendzone is man up and put on display WHY she should want you.  Also, diversify your bonds nigga.  Niggas always focusing too much on one chick that may or may not like them. Those 50/50 odds are wack B.  Spread your seed. Put the bug in multiple girl's ears.  Sure you may like one more than all of them.  But being a single fapper while she's getting piped down is an uneven exchange.  Don't be that dude.  

Plus, women tend to be like this:  they like you better when other women like you.  So if you're just another frail nigga not getting theirs, you shan't be getting play.  Get women to like  you and other women will like you.  It's like money. At first it's not easy starting from scratch. But once you start rolling, money just seems to come. And after a while, money works for you.  

HB stands for Help Beast. Currently supporting the supportive movement.

dmwalking
Jan 13, 2013 @ 17:59
I should be getting paid for dropping jewels like this. 

HB stands for Help Beast. Currently supporting the supportive movement.

Inactive User

Jan 13, 2013 @ 18:56
My  niggas, I'm at a deilema again, A girl i've been dating on and off for 3 years is throwing mixed ass signs at me. I mean the first year or so it was serious and real now its like i've been used as a fall back but not too sure. So, anyway, she's talking to this dude via Facebook and she's like straight up googley eye'd for this nigga. But yet she's all stuck on me and shit, I mean, the other day she gave me dome out of no-where, and might I add, she hates giving head. But anyway, like her twitter and shit is all about this dude and I'm annoyed as fuck because I don't get what she wants from me. This fool comes back summer and I'm like, wtf do I do now? My homie said I shouldn't play the fall back and be a simp nigga, but I'm like, bro, I can't even read her intentions, if i knew what they were I'd act....what ya'll think??
Jan 13, 2013 @ 22:48
she just a hoe dude. no disrespect. She proly just wants to keep you around and fuck with this other dude at the same time or she might just be tryin to get you jelly. idk nig. girls be playin games too damn much. you'll never know what their intentions are
Jan 14, 2013 @ 05:53
Originally posted by Inactive User
Originally posted by Inactive User
^^dont listen to this nigga man . . . if you in the friend zone then you might as well not even try and take things further with the bitch! straight up, it will just be awkward . . . especially if you "tell her how you feel" and she doesnt like you like that . . . you should be able to tell if a bitch is attracted to you w/ in the first couple mins you meet her . . . if she hasn't shown any attraction to you, like being all touchy feely and flirting with you and shit then you dont have a chance and if you do as this nigga Jacob is saying then you gon' look desperate as fuck . . . she should tell YOU how SHE feels! treat that bitch like shit, ignore her texts/calls for a few days, crack jokes on her . . . make her feel insecure, this will make her try and PROVE HERSELF to YOU! and thats how u pull a bitch u want . . . these simps giving bullshit advice
this will work if your an 16-18 year old immature lame and she is a lame too. 
nigga youre still a virgin, i can tell . . . fuck outta here
Jan 14, 2013 @ 05:56
My  niggas, I'm at a deilema again, A girl i've been dating on and off for 3 years is throwing mixed ass signs at me. I mean the first year or so it was serious and real now its like i've been used as a fall back but not too sure. So, anyway, she's talking to this dude via Facebook and she's like straight up googley eye'd for this nigga. But yet she's all stuck on me and shit, I mean, the other day she gave me dome out of no-where, and might I add, she hates giving head. But anyway, like her twitter and shit is all about this dude and I'm annoyed as fuck because I don't get what she wants from me. This fool comes back summer and I'm like, wtf do I do now? My homie said I shouldn't play the fall back and be a simp nigga, but I'm like, bro, I can't even read her intentions, if i knew what they were I'd act....what ya'll think??



Come on b  you getting head  whats there to complain?
Jan 14, 2013 @ 06:13
she tryna keep you in the backseat don't take that my nigga. if she gonna give the dome let her get your nut off and try not to fall for her shit.
Jan 14, 2013 @ 06:34
My  niggas, I'm at a deilema again, A girl i've been dating on and off for 3 years is throwing mixed ass signs at me. I mean the first year or so it was serious and real now its like i've been used as a fall back but not too sure. So, anyway, she's talking to this dude via Facebook and she's like straight up googley eye'd for this nigga. But yet she's all stuck on me and shit, I mean, the other day she gave me dome out of no-where, and might I add, she hates giving head. But anyway, like her twitter and shit is all about this dude and I'm annoyed as fuck because I don't get what she wants from me. This fool comes back summer and I'm like, wtf do I do now? My homie said I shouldn't play the fall back and be a simp nigga, but I'm like, bro, I can't even read her intentions, if i knew what they were I'd act....what ya'll think??
you ask what we think... me personally, she doesn't like giving head? I know this is a common problem but sorry those girls are not worth my time... and im fair ill eat a clean pussy just for my own fun. 3 years off and on, if its been off a few times its obviously not working out that well anyway. plus you don't even trust her. she sounds wack basic and dime a dozen based of this.
Jan 14, 2013 @ 06:45
Aight so im tryna get at this girl but hella niggas over her and shit. I bought her flowers and a teddy bear and asked her out to a date this friday. She said she cool with it so should i smash on first day or wait a couple of months? 
dmwalking
Jan 14, 2013 @ 07:31
My  niggas, I'm at a deilema again, A girl i've been dating on and off for 3 years is throwing mixed ass signs at me. I mean the first year or so it was serious and real now its like i've been used as a fall back but not too sure. So, anyway, she's talking to this dude via Facebook and she's like straight up googley eye'd for this nigga. But yet she's all stuck on me and shit, I mean, the other day she gave me dome out of no-where, and might I add, she hates giving head. But anyway, like her twitter and shit is all about this dude and I'm annoyed as fuck because I don't get what she wants from me. This fool comes back summer and I'm like, wtf do I do now? My homie said I shouldn't play the fall back and be a simp nigga, but I'm like, bro, I can't even read her intentions, if i knew what they were I'd act....what ya'll think??
Dog, you're a male. Leave that guessing game BS to females b.   You wanna know the deal, use your words nigga. Ask her.   But if it were me in your shoes, she'd be a pop.  You all over one nigga but doming me up?  This leads me to to believe that if we were to be on again, you'd dome up some other nigga with no shame. Not acceptable.  

Solution: don't have any kind of feelings for her.  You can do whatever you want with her. Just don't feel nothing for her.

HB stands for Help Beast. Currently supporting the supportive movement.

Inactive User

Jan 14, 2013 @ 19:18
Alright so a quick update on my situation, she went on my facebook and read one of my messages with one of my close friends on how im pretty much venting to him, then she sent me this message via facebook practically saying its been shitty being with me the past 3 years and now shes looking for someone better, she even said goodbye. I left it at that, i didn't reply or anything, i blocked her off facebook and shes contacting me through my cousin. wtf. she's the one that said bye but still is trying to talk to me....my phone is off too might I add, havent paid the bills yet, skipped it get my EDC tickets. smokeyface
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