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December 14, 2012 @ 04:51 PM
dvzr0

Post: 70

Join Date: Nov 2012

Alright so I'm gonna seem completely bitch made and I'm only a sophmore in high school just to start it off but I need some true wisdom and none of that stupid bullshit that I always here like fuck dat bitch and go for the next. I may be still young and I need to travel, school etc. but I have really mad feelings for this one girl that I've been talking to for a year. I went out with her during the summer and she broke it off with me but in an awful way so I was just being completely pathetic with her and being way too serious when I'm still in high school and shit. maybe two months ago, I find out she's with some ugly ass motherfucker and completely downgraded and leaves me super depressed ( I was already depressed even though we didn't go out that long) and I'm just well fuck. I started talking to her again and I got over her for a while and now I've been talking to her for a week now and my emotions are brought up high as hell. she's all I can think about and all I care about right now and I know it's not right because that's not just me. when I talk to her, I just feel super comfortable and like we're still going out but then she brings up her boyfriend and I'm just like fuck that nigga. but I can't say it to her. but what she tells me is that they've only been talking and they just ACT like they're going out since he doesn't have the balls to actually ask her to be his girlfriend and I'm really trying to go for it but not make it seem like I'm hella thirsty. I'm supposed to chill with her soon and I just have no idea what to do. Like I still have strong feelings for this girl like my great grandma just passed away and she's all I can think about and since we broke up, I've been wearing my heart on my sleeve like some pussy ass bitch and I can't fucking help it. there is probably loose ends in this but I just wrote this all of the top my head. I just need some wisdom on what to do because I don't have anyone helping me at all right now. 
Are you crazy? Your great grandma just died and all you're thinking about is some bitch who left you and downgraded to some ugly ass dude? Smh. You're only a sophomore, move on, there's still more girls out there. I think you're wasting your time.
I think you're wasting your time too, but if you really want the girl you should just man up and ask her out officially since that other guy can't seem to lock it down. Realistically though, she's playing you both. 
December 14, 2012 @ 05:13 PM
TRILL Bill

Post: 284

Join Date: May 2008

Alright so I'm gonna seem completely bitch made and I'm only a sophmore in high school just to start it off but I need some true wisdom and none of that stupid bullshit that I always here like fuck dat bitch and go for the next. I may be still young and I need to travel, school etc. but I have really mad feelings for this one girl that I've been talking to for a year. I went out with her during the summer and she broke it off with me but in an awful way so I was just being completely pathetic with her and being way too serious when I'm still in high school and shit. maybe two months ago, I find out she's with some ugly ass motherfucker and completely downgraded and leaves me super depressed ( I was already depressed even though we didn't go out that long) and I'm just well fuck. I started talking to her again and I got over her for a while and now I've been talking to her for a week now and my emotions are brought up high as hell. she's all I can think about and all I care about right now and I know it's not right because that's not just me. when I talk to her, I just feel super comfortable and like we're still going out but then she brings up her boyfriend and I'm just like fuck that nigga. but I can't say it to her. but what she tells me is that they've only been talking and they just ACT like they're going out since he doesn't have the balls to actually ask her to be his girlfriend and I'm really trying to go for it but not make it seem like I'm hella thirsty. I'm supposed to chill with her soon and I just have no idea what to do. Like I still have strong feelings for this girl like my great grandma just passed away and she's all I can think about and since we broke up, I've been wearing my heart on my sleeve like some pussy ass bitch and I can't fucking help it. there is probably loose ends in this but I just wrote this all of the top my head. I just need some wisdom on what to do because I don't have anyone helping me at all right now. 

But seriously, it's only your sophomore year. There's WAY too many girls out there to get worked up over one with a boyfriend, especially in high school.
December 15, 2012 @ 12:53 AM
JEANPAULDAVINCI

Post: 1603

Join Date: Apr 2012

Location: 916

UPDATE:

So today was pretty cold and i decided to wear a tshirt with no sweater or jacket. Go to my locker and she is next to me. I say hi and she looks sad/tired at the time. I asked her if she is tired and she says yeah and all of a sudden she puts her hand inside my sleeve to feel my right arm. I then react all shocked and say "someone's getting touchy". Srsly wtf. Total signs shes digging me but at the same time she got a bf and cant do shit. I just dont want her to feel like im a pussy or maker her feel like soemthing's wrong with her. 
December 15, 2012 @ 03:31 AM
rumee24

Post: 332

Join Date: Jul 2012

Location: California

Alright so I'm gonna seem completely bitch made and I'm only a sophmore in high school just to start it off but I need some true wisdom and none of that stupid bullshit that I always here like fuck dat bitch and go for the next. I may be still young and I need to travel, school etc. but I have really mad feelings for this one girl that I've been talking to for a year. I went out with her during the summer and she broke it off with me but in an awful way so I was just being completely pathetic with her and being way too serious when I'm still in high school and shit. maybe two months ago, I find out she's with some ugly ass motherfucker and completely downgraded and leaves me super depressed ( I was already depressed even though we didn't go out that long) and I'm just well fuck. I started talking to her again and I got over her for a while and now I've been talking to her for a week now and my emotions are brought up high as hell. she's all I can think about and all I care about right now and I know it's not right because that's not just me. when I talk to her, I just feel super comfortable and like we're still going out but then she brings up her boyfriend and I'm just like fuck that nigga. but I can't say it to her. but what she tells me is that they've only been talking and they just ACT like they're going out since he doesn't have the balls to actually ask her to be his girlfriend and I'm really trying to go for it but not make it seem like I'm hella thirsty. I'm supposed to chill with her soon and I just have no idea what to do. Like I still have strong feelings for this girl like my great grandma just passed away and she's all I can think about and since we broke up, I've been wearing my heart on my sleeve like some pussy ass bitch and I can't fucking help it. there is probably loose ends in this but I just wrote this all of the top my head. I just need some wisdom on what to do because I don't have anyone helping me at all right now. 
Are you crazy? Your great grandma just died and all you're thinking about is some bitch who left you and downgraded to some ugly ass dude? Smh. You're only a sophomore, move on, there's still more girls out there. I think you're wasting your time.

I guess so but I have no fucking idea like how to move on. I know she's a fucking bitch but it's like I'm feeling like one of those pathetic people that post "inspirational" quotes over Tumblr and shit. I kind of got over it and just started worrying more about my grandma since I posted but idk it's been on my mind. I know I'm wasting my time but I guess I can't help BUT waste my time if that makes sense at all. I'm pretty sure what I want to know is how to get over this bitch because I know this shit is really pathetic but I feel like I just can't move on. thanks for the advice though guys. and marvins room is the simp anthem that sadly applies to my situation razz
December 15, 2012 @ 03:51 AM
slurrpee

Post: 119

Join Date: Aug 2008

been talking to this girl for a couple weeks now. we hit it off well and talk all the time. we end up hooking up every time we're drunk. but that's obviously not the best way to start off any relationship, so eventually I sat her down and I told her how I felt. at the time, she said that she wasn't sure if she was ready for a relationship and wasn't sure how she felt about me, so we agreed to just keep at it and give it some more time, but we both wanted to address this hooking up issue and we agreed that it should stop. it happened again last night, and she sent me a text earlier saying she wants to talk. gut feeling says its going to be all bad, but i really like this girl so I want to see it go further. how should i approach this? haven't talked to her since we set up a time and date for the talk, seems mad awkward now.
December 15, 2012 @ 04:26 AM
E Styles

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Join Date: Sep 2012

Ain't no way to approach it nigga, balls in her court.. Hope for the best but keep low expectations
December 15, 2012 @ 04:28 PM
Mr_Chukes

Post: 2262

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Location: California

Slurrpee me and my girl started off like that minus the hook up. We still talk everyday like that but even more now. I asked her out earlier and she told me she wasn't ready for a relationship but she liked me. After that we kissed and talked like normal. I just kept at it and asked her out again and she said yes a month later. I always mess around like oh you rejected me aha 
December 15, 2012 @ 04:47 PM
bugzzz

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December 15, 2012 @ 05:58 PM
Jollibee.

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Why did this thread suddenly become active this December?
December 15, 2012 @ 06:48 PM
E Styles

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Cold winter nights bro..

niggas want a cuddle buddy 
December 15, 2012 @ 07:21 PM
Mr_Chukes

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Location: California

@justsayray I started posting in it lol
December 15, 2012 @ 10:39 PM
JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

Post: 3102

Join Date: May 2011

Location: Vashtie\'s Room

imma about to tell her im still in love with her, idc what happens i just need to let this biddie know smh. 

:)

December 15, 2012 @ 11:44 PM
domingodean

Post: 1067

Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: Ont

@slurpee

well it seems like a total physical relationship. feelings on ur part caught. has she contacted you for any other reason besides sex ? does she wanna hang out besides wanting to do it. seems like shes treating you like a breathing machine for your dick. might as well cut her loose. has she hinted at wanting take relationship to next lvl ? if not might as well get rid of this relationship. seems like your looking for an emotional relationship not just pure physical. 

17000 ferrari

December 17, 2012 @ 09:09 PM
ThatGuyBars

Post: 801

Join Date: Jun 2012

Location: The depths of the 14...

Bout to get this girl number soon. I think she's been dropping hints but dont know for sure she's interested in me.

Ayyy!-Fonzie

December 18, 2012 @ 12:22 AM
RawShack

Post: 1548

Join Date: Jul 2008

i haven't talked to this chick in a month but i used to hit her up between sept-nov. to ask to chill she always flaked, we used to have a thing back in the summer. Between those couple monthes she's been hella sus and avoiding towards me. then suddenly she hits me up 2 days ago and asks if i want to chill this weekend. not sure if i should go and give her that satisfaction or not go.
December 18, 2012 @ 12:37 AM
JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

Post: 3102

Join Date: May 2011

Location: Vashtie\'s Room

i haven't talked to this chick in a month but i used to hit her up between sept-nov. to ask to chill she always flaked, we used to have a thing back in the summer. Between those couple monthes she's been hella sus and avoiding towards me. then suddenly she hits me up 2 days ago and asks if i want to chill this weekend. not sure if i should go and give her that satisfaction or not go.
just chill with her but dont give her the satisfaction of "oh i still got him sprung".

:)

December 18, 2012 @ 01:29 AM
domingodean

Post: 1067

Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: Ont

@rawshack

seen this before. she fielded her other options and nothing worked out with them. you the backup plan. unless she has legitimate reasons. but even then girls will find time for you. she will likely not saying for sure. use you till the next guy comes along.

cancel on her this weeknd. play on your time. and see if she is game for next weeknd or whenever U want to meet up with her. 

17000 ferrari

December 18, 2012 @ 05:10 AM
unoedoe

Post: 312

Join Date: Jul 2012

Opinions on work relationships?

Been teasing/flirting with a co-worker a lot lately. Feelings are arising.One of the homies says don't go for it cause if something goes wrong its going to be too awkward around work. Another says keep low key working at it and determine if the connections really there but, be ready for any consequences. Are they overlooking this or just looking out for me?

I don't want to drag this out and end up getting friend zoned but I don't want to give up either. I think im going "one-itis" with the semester over n shit. Any suggestions. Thanks my hb brethren
December 18, 2012 @ 04:51 PM
dvzr0

Post: 70

Join Date: Nov 2012

Opinions on work relationships?

Been teasing/flirting with a co-worker a lot lately. Feelings are arising.One of the homies says don't go for it cause if something goes wrong its going to be too awkward around work. Another says keep low key working at it and determine if the connections really there but, be ready for any consequences. Are they overlooking this or just looking out for me?

I don't want to drag this out and end up getting friend zoned but I don't want to give up either. I think im going "one-itis" with the semester over n shit. Any suggestions. Thanks my hb brethren
What kind of job is it? If it's some casual after school thing, then yeah the only thing you really risk is the awkwardness if it doesn't work out. If it's an internship or something serious, then straight up don't do it, Put yourself and your career first. Either way, before you make it official or hook up, have a serious conversation with her laying out the rules and what you guys agree to do/how to act if the romantic relationship doesn't work out. 

Also try not to openly flirt too much in the workspace. That shit just starts rumors and drama with other coworkers. There's a lot more tips in some men's health article I read a while back. Might want to check that out. http://www.menshealth.com/mhlists/successful-interoffice-relationships/
http://blogs.menshealth.com/health-headlines/date-the-hottie-down-the-hall/2011/02/17
December 18, 2012 @ 07:22 PM
ThatGuyBars

Post: 801

Join Date: Jun 2012

Location: The depths of the 14...

Ok so i asked her the question, she hears me out. Aftter i finish she leaves, doesnt say yeah, doesnt say no, just leaves. Now maybe she doesnt know me well but she couldve said no.
What you think this means HB cause i dont know wether to ask her again, or take the L

Ayyy!-Fonzie

December 18, 2012 @ 09:32 PM
Mr_Chukes

Post: 2262

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: California

Leave that bitch alone. You already did your part. If she is feeling you she will come back. Try not to think about her too much. Some girls like to feel like they have these boys going crazy over them. 
December 19, 2012 @ 01:58 AM
ThatGuyBars

Post: 801

Join Date: Jun 2012

Location: The depths of the 14...

Dam girls really need to think about this shit? Not tryna sound desperate but when should i ask her again? Also lol at going crazy over her.

Ayyy!-Fonzie

December 19, 2012 @ 03:04 AM
domingodean

Post: 1067

Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: Ont

Dam girls really need to think about this shit? Not tryna sound desperate but when should i ask her again? Also lol at going crazy over her.
oh she heard you b. time for u to move on and accept that she aint messing with you. dont contact again.

17000 ferrari

December 19, 2012 @ 04:33 AM
RiFF RaFF

Post: 1259

Join Date: Jan 2012

Location: San jose

how do you guys approach chicks in your class? i always seem to talk to the bitches with the stuck up egos.

Be about it

December 19, 2012 @ 05:22 AM
adam5

Post: 764

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Location: l.a

how do you guys approach chicks in your class? i always seem to talk to the bitches with the stuck up egos.
make the initial conversation class related, then eventually build off from it
December 19, 2012 @ 05:31 AM
Jollibee.

Post: 2176

Join Date: Apr 2012

how do you guys approach chicks in your class? i always seem to talk to the bitches with the stuck up egos.
compliment compliment compliment compliment

talk about the environment when you approach

joke about the class

keep looking them at the eyes and lips
December 19, 2012 @ 05:37 AM
Black Donald Trump

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Ok so i asked her the question, she hears me out. Aftter i finish she leaves, doesnt say yeah, doesnt say no, just leaves. Now maybe she doesnt know me well but she couldve said no.

What you think this means HB cause i dont know wether to ask her again, or take the L
if theres any other cute chicks in the class, talk to them and not her or at least only like ask for pencils or shit like that just act like shes anyone else. if shes at all interested she will get jealous and make an effort, if shes really not into it then you already got a foot in the door with the next one
December 19, 2012 @ 05:42 AM
Black Donald Trump

Post: 1489

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Alright so their is this one girl next to my locker which i have a good relationship. Usual short conversation, flirting, and all of this sudden she has been getting physical. like putting her hands on me playwise, eg slapping me on the shoudler pushing me away usual flirting. She asked me a couple days ago if i knew her sister, I knew who she was but didnt know her name or anything else, just seen her around school.She wanted to walk with me today but we had different classes and went different ways. She got a bf so i aitn tryna get friendzoned.  Was happening hb niggas
flirt with her but also try flirting with other girls while shes around see how she reacts. if you get to the point that your pretty sure shes got a thing for you, ask her about her bf. dont make any mention of you and her or anything like that just casually ask her about how things are going between them. wait a min. to do that tho.depending on what she says go from there.
December 19, 2012 @ 06:04 AM
Black Donald Trump

Post: 1489

Join Date: Apr 2008

how do you guys approach chicks in your class? i always seem to talk to the bitches with the stuck up egos.
compliment compliment compliment compliment

talk about the environment when you approach

joke about the class

keep looking them at the eyes and lips
dont compliment too much. you gotta be genuine about it. 
December 19, 2012 @ 06:15 AM
Jollibee.

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Im just emphasizing how it is important to compliment

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