The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Dec 13, 2012 @ 05:35
Through observations and of my girlfriend I found that some woman don't like feeling trapped. My girlfriend raves about how we both have friends and I do not smutter her. She has some independence does not just rely on me for everything. I actually kind of like it to. She is never really jealous when I hang with my friends plus I tell her when I go out anyways. Also I dot ignore her text. Anyone else have a similar thought or experience? 
Dec 13, 2012 @ 05:49
Nigga was able to get another girl # since we live close.

But, after 1 day, she doesnt text back AND catches rides

but before you try to play me, this girl is mad quiet, dont talk to anybody.

should i go for that shy pussy, or leave it alone?

Ayyy!-Fonzie

Dec 13, 2012 @ 05:56
Alright so their is this one girl next to my locker which i have a good relationship. Usual short conversation, flirting, and all of this sudden she has been getting physical. like putting her hands on me playwise, eg slapping me on the shoudler pushing me away usual flirting. She asked me a couple days ago if i knew her sister, I knew who she was but didnt know her name or anything else, just seen her around school.She wanted to walk with me today but we had different classes and went different ways. She got a bf so i aitn tryna get friendzoned.  Was happening hb niggas
Dec 13, 2012 @ 06:02
She like you playa, let her make the moves because as of right now she someone else bf. Simple as that
Dec 13, 2012 @ 06:02
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fuckinjoe

all I gotta say is thats whats up. fuck dealing with a chicken that gets fussy about how fast you reply to a txt or gives a fuck how much time you spend with your homies. Immature, insecure, and dimwitted broads are the ones who lack independence and need male validation. Its a huge red flag when a woman is needy. I see a lot of girls grow out of this shit but some of em stay like that for good. In my observation this often goes hand in hand with being a slut, a lotta girls with these issues rail a lot of D. A relationship needs space to breathe if u want it to last, nothing grows well from suffocation. Even if im 40 and married I believe in doing some shit on my own. Sounds like you found a good woman.
Dec 13, 2012 @ 06:40
Kdubb44 I wouldn't jump at it. Still flirt with her and mess around to stay out of the friendzone. I wouldn't chase or wife it because she is messing around while she has a bf. Its like geniune's song what's so different if she does it to him, what's stopping her from doing it to you.
Dec 13, 2012 @ 07:01
@theguybar try to talk to her in person. She might not be a texter. If you're really interested try to find something she is interested in and talk about it. To get her to open up.
Dec 14, 2012 @ 04:00
@theguybar try to talk to her in person. She might not be a texter. If you're really interested try to find something she is interested in and talk about it. To get her to open up.
imma just move on and wait till she starts walkin home, not tryna question or hound her about why she wont text back.

Ayyy!-Fonzie

Dec 14, 2012 @ 07:30
Alright so I'm gonna seem completely bitch made and I'm only a sophmore in high school just to start it off but I need some true wisdom and none of that stupid bullshit that I always here like fuck dat bitch and go for the next. I may be still young and I need to travel, school etc. but I have really mad feelings for this one girl that I've been talking to for a year. I went out with her during the summer and she broke it off with me but in an awful way so I was just being completely pathetic with her and being way too serious when I'm still in high school and shit. maybe two months ago, I find out she's with some ugly ass motherfucker and completely downgraded and leaves me super depressed ( I was already depressed even though we didn't go out that long) and I'm just well fuck. I started talking to her again and I got over her for a while and now I've been talking to her for a week now and my emotions are brought up high as hell. she's all I can think about and all I care about right now and I know it's not right because that's not just me. when I talk to her, I just feel super comfortable and like we're still going out but then she brings up her boyfriend and I'm just like fuck that nigga. but I can't say it to her. but what she tells me is that they've only been talking and they just ACT like they're going out since he doesn't have the balls to actually ask her to be his girlfriend and I'm really trying to go for it but not make it seem like I'm hella thirsty. I'm supposed to chill with her soon and I just have no idea what to do. Like I still have strong feelings for this girl like my great grandma just passed away and she's all I can think about and since we broke up, I've been wearing my heart on my sleeve like some pussy ass bitch and I can't fucking help it. there is probably loose ends in this but I just wrote this all of the top my head. I just need some wisdom on what to do because I don't have anyone helping me at all right now. 
Dec 14, 2012 @ 07:30
extra posts. 
Dec 14, 2012 @ 07:30
fuck the double posting
Dec 14, 2012 @ 14:26
Alright so I'm gonna seem completely bitch made and I'm only a sophmore in high school just to start it off but I need some true wisdom and none of that stupid bullshit that I always here like fuck dat bitch and go for the next. I may be still young and I need to travel, school etc. but I have really mad feelings for this one girl that I've been talking to for a year. I went out with her during the summer and she broke it off with me but in an awful way so I was just being completely pathetic with her and being way too serious when I'm still in high school and shit. maybe two months ago, I find out she's with some ugly ass motherfucker and completely downgraded and leaves me super depressed ( I was already depressed even though we didn't go out that long) and I'm just well fuck. I started talking to her again and I got over her for a while and now I've been talking to her for a week now and my emotions are brought up high as hell. she's all I can think about and all I care about right now and I know it's not right because that's not just me. when I talk to her, I just feel super comfortable and like we're still going out but then she brings up her boyfriend and I'm just like fuck that nigga. but I can't say it to her. but what she tells me is that they've only been talking and they just ACT like they're going out since he doesn't have the balls to actually ask her to be his girlfriend and I'm really trying to go for it but not make it seem like I'm hella thirsty. I'm supposed to chill with her soon and I just have no idea what to do. Like I still have strong feelings for this girl like my great grandma just passed away and she's all I can think about and since we broke up, I've been wearing my heart on my sleeve like some pussy ass bitch and I can't fucking help it. there is probably loose ends in this but I just wrote this all of the top my head. I just need some wisdom on what to do because I don't have anyone helping me at all right now. 
Are you crazy? Your great grandma just died and all you're thinking about is some bitch who left you and downgraded to some ugly ass dude? Smh. You're only a sophomore, move on, there's still more girls out there. I think you're wasting your time.
Dec 14, 2012 @ 16:51
Originally posted by Inactive User
Alright so I'm gonna seem completely bitch made and I'm only a sophmore in high school just to start it off but I need some true wisdom and none of that stupid bullshit that I always here like fuck dat bitch and go for the next. I may be still young and I need to travel, school etc. but I have really mad feelings for this one girl that I've been talking to for a year. I went out with her during the summer and she broke it off with me but in an awful way so I was just being completely pathetic with her and being way too serious when I'm still in high school and shit. maybe two months ago, I find out she's with some ugly ass motherfucker and completely downgraded and leaves me super depressed ( I was already depressed even though we didn't go out that long) and I'm just well fuck. I started talking to her again and I got over her for a while and now I've been talking to her for a week now and my emotions are brought up high as hell. she's all I can think about and all I care about right now and I know it's not right because that's not just me. when I talk to her, I just feel super comfortable and like we're still going out but then she brings up her boyfriend and I'm just like fuck that nigga. but I can't say it to her. but what she tells me is that they've only been talking and they just ACT like they're going out since he doesn't have the balls to actually ask her to be his girlfriend and I'm really trying to go for it but not make it seem like I'm hella thirsty. I'm supposed to chill with her soon and I just have no idea what to do. Like I still have strong feelings for this girl like my great grandma just passed away and she's all I can think about and since we broke up, I've been wearing my heart on my sleeve like some pussy ass bitch and I can't fucking help it. there is probably loose ends in this but I just wrote this all of the top my head. I just need some wisdom on what to do because I don't have anyone helping me at all right now. 
Are you crazy? Your great grandma just died and all you're thinking about is some bitch who left you and downgraded to some ugly ass dude? Smh. You're only a sophomore, move on, there's still more girls out there. I think you're wasting your time.
I think you're wasting your time too, but if you really want the girl you should just man up and ask her out officially since that other guy can't seem to lock it down. Realistically though, she's playing you both. 
Dec 14, 2012 @ 17:13
Alright so I'm gonna seem completely bitch made and I'm only a sophmore in high school just to start it off but I need some true wisdom and none of that stupid bullshit that I always here like fuck dat bitch and go for the next. I may be still young and I need to travel, school etc. but I have really mad feelings for this one girl that I've been talking to for a year. I went out with her during the summer and she broke it off with me but in an awful way so I was just being completely pathetic with her and being way too serious when I'm still in high school and shit. maybe two months ago, I find out she's with some ugly ass motherfucker and completely downgraded and leaves me super depressed ( I was already depressed even though we didn't go out that long) and I'm just well fuck. I started talking to her again and I got over her for a while and now I've been talking to her for a week now and my emotions are brought up high as hell. she's all I can think about and all I care about right now and I know it's not right because that's not just me. when I talk to her, I just feel super comfortable and like we're still going out but then she brings up her boyfriend and I'm just like fuck that nigga. but I can't say it to her. but what she tells me is that they've only been talking and they just ACT like they're going out since he doesn't have the balls to actually ask her to be his girlfriend and I'm really trying to go for it but not make it seem like I'm hella thirsty. I'm supposed to chill with her soon and I just have no idea what to do. Like I still have strong feelings for this girl like my great grandma just passed away and she's all I can think about and since we broke up, I've been wearing my heart on my sleeve like some pussy ass bitch and I can't fucking help it. there is probably loose ends in this but I just wrote this all of the top my head. I just need some wisdom on what to do because I don't have anyone helping me at all right now. 

But seriously, it's only your sophomore year. There's WAY too many girls out there to get worked up over one with a boyfriend, especially in high school.
Dec 15, 2012 @ 00:53
UPDATE:

So today was pretty cold and i decided to wear a tshirt with no sweater or jacket. Go to my locker and she is next to me. I say hi and she looks sad/tired at the time. I asked her if she is tired and she says yeah and all of a sudden she puts her hand inside my sleeve to feel my right arm. I then react all shocked and say "someone's getting touchy". Srsly wtf. Total signs shes digging me but at the same time she got a bf and cant do shit. I just dont want her to feel like im a pussy or maker her feel like soemthing's wrong with her. 
Dec 15, 2012 @ 03:31
Originally posted by Inactive User
Alright so I'm gonna seem completely bitch made and I'm only a sophmore in high school just to start it off but I need some true wisdom and none of that stupid bullshit that I always here like fuck dat bitch and go for the next. I may be still young and I need to travel, school etc. but I have really mad feelings for this one girl that I've been talking to for a year. I went out with her during the summer and she broke it off with me but in an awful way so I was just being completely pathetic with her and being way too serious when I'm still in high school and shit. maybe two months ago, I find out she's with some ugly ass motherfucker and completely downgraded and leaves me super depressed ( I was already depressed even though we didn't go out that long) and I'm just well fuck. I started talking to her again and I got over her for a while and now I've been talking to her for a week now and my emotions are brought up high as hell. she's all I can think about and all I care about right now and I know it's not right because that's not just me. when I talk to her, I just feel super comfortable and like we're still going out but then she brings up her boyfriend and I'm just like fuck that nigga. but I can't say it to her. but what she tells me is that they've only been talking and they just ACT like they're going out since he doesn't have the balls to actually ask her to be his girlfriend and I'm really trying to go for it but not make it seem like I'm hella thirsty. I'm supposed to chill with her soon and I just have no idea what to do. Like I still have strong feelings for this girl like my great grandma just passed away and she's all I can think about and since we broke up, I've been wearing my heart on my sleeve like some pussy ass bitch and I can't fucking help it. there is probably loose ends in this but I just wrote this all of the top my head. I just need some wisdom on what to do because I don't have anyone helping me at all right now. 
Are you crazy? Your great grandma just died and all you're thinking about is some bitch who left you and downgraded to some ugly ass dude? Smh. You're only a sophomore, move on, there's still more girls out there. I think you're wasting your time.

I guess so but I have no fucking idea like how to move on. I know she's a fucking bitch but it's like I'm feeling like one of those pathetic people that post "inspirational" quotes over Tumblr and shit. I kind of got over it and just started worrying more about my grandma since I posted but idk it's been on my mind. I know I'm wasting my time but I guess I can't help BUT waste my time if that makes sense at all. I'm pretty sure what I want to know is how to get over this bitch because I know this shit is really pathetic but I feel like I just can't move on. thanks for the advice though guys. and marvins room is the simp anthem that sadly applies to my situation tongueface
Dec 15, 2012 @ 03:51
been talking to this girl for a couple weeks now. we hit it off well and talk all the time. we end up hooking up every time we're drunk. but that's obviously not the best way to start off any relationship, so eventually I sat her down and I told her how I felt. at the time, she said that she wasn't sure if she was ready for a relationship and wasn't sure how she felt about me, so we agreed to just keep at it and give it some more time, but we both wanted to address this hooking up issue and we agreed that it should stop. it happened again last night, and she sent me a text earlier saying she wants to talk. gut feeling says its going to be all bad, but i really like this girl so I want to see it go further. how should i approach this? haven't talked to her since we set up a time and date for the talk, seems mad awkward now.
Dec 15, 2012 @ 04:26
Ain't no way to approach it nigga, balls in her court.. Hope for the best but keep low expectations
Dec 15, 2012 @ 16:28
Slurrpee me and my girl started off like that minus the hook up. We still talk everyday like that but even more now. I asked her out earlier and she told me she wasn't ready for a relationship but she liked me. After that we kissed and talked like normal. I just kept at it and asked her out again and she said yes a month later. I always mess around like oh you rejected me aha 
Dec 15, 2012 @ 16:47
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Dec 15, 2012 @ 17:58
Why did this thread suddenly become active this December?
Dec 15, 2012 @ 18:48
Cold winter nights bro..

niggas want a cuddle buddy 
Dec 15, 2012 @ 19:21
@justsayray I started posting in it lol
Dec 15, 2012 @ 22:39
imma about to tell her im still in love with her, idc what happens i just need to let this biddie know smh. 

:)

Dec 15, 2012 @ 23:44
@slurpee

well it seems like a total physical relationship. feelings on ur part caught. has she contacted you for any other reason besides sex ? does she wanna hang out besides wanting to do it. seems like shes treating you like a breathing machine for your dick. might as well cut her loose. has she hinted at wanting take relationship to next lvl ? if not might as well get rid of this relationship. seems like your looking for an emotional relationship not just pure physical. 

17000 ferrari

Dec 17, 2012 @ 21:09
Bout to get this girl number soon. I think she's been dropping hints but dont know for sure she's interested in me.

Ayyy!-Fonzie

Dec 18, 2012 @ 00:22
i haven't talked to this chick in a month but i used to hit her up between sept-nov. to ask to chill she always flaked, we used to have a thing back in the summer. Between those couple monthes she's been hella sus and avoiding towards me. then suddenly she hits me up 2 days ago and asks if i want to chill this weekend. not sure if i should go and give her that satisfaction or not go.
Dec 18, 2012 @ 00:37
i haven't talked to this chick in a month but i used to hit her up between sept-nov. to ask to chill she always flaked, we used to have a thing back in the summer. Between those couple monthes she's been hella sus and avoiding towards me. then suddenly she hits me up 2 days ago and asks if i want to chill this weekend. not sure if i should go and give her that satisfaction or not go.
just chill with her but dont give her the satisfaction of "oh i still got him sprung".

:)

Dec 18, 2012 @ 01:29
@rawshack

seen this before. she fielded her other options and nothing worked out with them. you the backup plan. unless she has legitimate reasons. but even then girls will find time for you. she will likely not saying for sure. use you till the next guy comes along.

cancel on her this weeknd. play on your time. and see if she is game for next weeknd or whenever U want to meet up with her. 

17000 ferrari

Dec 18, 2012 @ 05:10
Opinions on work relationships?

Been teasing/flirting with a co-worker a lot lately. Feelings are arising.One of the homies says don't go for it cause if something goes wrong its going to be too awkward around work. Another says keep low key working at it and determine if the connections really there but, be ready for any consequences. Are they overlooking this or just looking out for me?

I don't want to drag this out and end up getting friend zoned but I don't want to give up either. I think im going "one-itis" with the semester over n shit. Any suggestions. Thanks my hb brethren
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