The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

December 4, 2012 @ 02:17 AM
kdubb44

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How do you guys manage to talk to girls you have absolutely nothing in common with? I'm trying to find something to relate to this girl with, but she has no interests or ambitions or anything. She doesn't play sports, go clubbing or anything fun, and I have no idea what to talk about on dates. I got past the first date with this girl just by talking about school, and random stuff that happened while we were walking around the mall. Hypebeast please help me out!


Nigga maker her laugh. Make some creative shit up, If she has no humor then drop that bitch
December 4, 2012 @ 07:43 AM
ManRay

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Don't go out with a girl you have no interst in.



Arent you asian? You gonna be doin da same thang
dont u listen to me fam? i only like white girls and will marry one

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December 4, 2012 @ 08:13 AM
trolos714

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Nigga maker her laugh. Make some creative shit up, If she has no humor then drop that bitch

Lol while I was planning our first date I suggested we go hiking, and she talked me out of it, because she said she didn't want to get dirty. I tried suggesting boogie boarding a while ago, then I found out she can't swim, and that she's deathly afraid of water. LASTLY I tried convincing her to go go-karting with me and a bunch of friends, but then she told me she gets dizzy really easily. I duno man I'm tryin to make it work, but I can't take her to the movies or the mall EVERY time we hang out.

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December 4, 2012 @ 08:17 AM
trolos714

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Ain't gonna work out nigga ^^ friend her ass & find a bitch who is actually interesting 
Damn man, I was afraid of this. I really like her, and I'm sure she likes me, but I kinda knew it was going to be like this.

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December 4, 2012 @ 09:01 AM
tellmewhentogo

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Her excuses sure seem convenient.

Definitely drop her. See if she notices. Give her that gift of missing you.
December 4, 2012 @ 09:12 AM
trolos714

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Her excuses sure seem convenient.
@tellmewhentogo
At first I thought she was trying to let me down easy or something, but she always hits me up to watch t.v or go shopping or something. I duno man I just seem to get really bored with her, and have I no idea how I should go about trying connect with her.

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December 4, 2012 @ 01:00 PM
sado

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Asked out a freshman the other day. Didn't know that until after i approached her. She's cute but me being 22, i feel wayy disconnected.  I've straight up dropped girls in the past lol it was too evil. how to break it to her easy?
December 4, 2012 @ 04:08 PM
dvzr0

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@trolos714 
she seems boring du.. i wouldn't sweat her anymore
December 4, 2012 @ 05:42 PM
MALLET

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Location: UK

ok so i speak to this girl like everyday... but only on fb. i know who she is and i seen her out a few times but didn't really pay attention until recently. She says she likes me and shit but she keeps dodging me every time i ask to meet up or anything. like even if i can call her she is always 'busy' ... then last night she was saying how much she doesn't like getting close to boys because she ruins things and that she is worried things will go further between me and her and she wont be able to talk to me properly anymore. She still goes on about how she likes me alot more than just a friend but everything she is doing seems to give me the opposite idea. i dont know what i should do? should i ignore her for a few days or what?
December 4, 2012 @ 08:11 PM
dvzr0

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ok so i speak to this girl like everyday... but only on fb. i know who she is and i seen her out a few times but didn't really pay attention until recently. She says she likes me and shit but she keeps dodging me every time i ask to meet up or anything. like even if i can call her she is always 'busy' ... then last night she was saying how much she doesn't like getting close to boys because she ruins things and that she is worried things will go further between me and her and she wont be able to talk to me properly anymore. She still goes on about how she likes me alot more than just a friend but everything she is doing seems to give me the opposite idea. i dont know what i should do? should i ignore her for a few days or what?
actions speak louder than words. hit then quit
December 4, 2012 @ 08:26 PM
MALLET

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Location: UK


actions speak louder than words. hit then quit
why should i quit??
December 4, 2012 @ 08:30 PM
dvzr0

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why should i quit??
dodging your attempts to hang out and then saying stuff like she ruins things with boys and may not be able to talk to you properly sends up red flags in my brain, b. idk if those are the exact words she used, but it really doesn't take a lot to make someone a part of your life, whether its for a romantic relationship or a friendship. as i've gotten older i've come to realize that the most important thing you can give to someone else is your time. so if she ain't willin to step away from her computer to talk to you face to face n hang out, then that shows you how much she really values you, as a friend or otherwise. i think you can do better
December 4, 2012 @ 08:31 PM
JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

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ok so i speak to this girl like everyday... but only on fb. i know who she is and i seen her out a few times but didn't really pay attention until recently. She says she likes me and shit but she keeps dodging me every time i ask to meet up or anything. like even if i can call her she is always 'busy' ... then last night she was saying how much she doesn't like getting close to boys because she ruins things and that she is worried things will go further between me and her and she wont be able to talk to me properly anymore. She still goes on about how she likes me alot more than just a friend but everything she is doing seems to give me the opposite idea. i dont know what i should do? should i ignore her for a few days or what?
she is trying to play you and keep you in the friend zone, find a new on bruh bruh.

:)

December 4, 2012 @ 08:34 PM
pew pew pew

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dont u listen to me fam? i only like white girls and will marry one
smh that cali lifestyle might now make it
December 4, 2012 @ 08:44 PM
MALLET

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Location: UK


dodging your attempts to hang out and then saying stuff like she ruins things with boys and may not be able to talk to you properly sends up red flags in my brain, b. idk if those are the exact words she used, but it really doesn't take a lot to make someone a part of your life, whether its for a romantic relationship or a friendship. as i've gotten older i've come to realize that the most important thing you can give to someone else is your time. so if she ain't willin to step away from her computer to talk to you face to face n hang out, then that shows you how much she really values you, as a friend or otherwise. i think you can do better
i get what you mean.. =/ it kinda sucks but i guess i dont wanna keep on if nothing is going to change. thanks bud
December 4, 2012 @ 09:39 PM
ManRay

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smh that cali lifestyle might now make it
Lol don't you like any other asians besides ur own race?

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December 4, 2012 @ 11:57 PM
pew pew pew

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Lol don't you like any other asians besides ur own race?
lol na i dig all girls but when it comes to serious dating, it has to be my own race.

much easier. cant do it with other races due to the clash of culture.

one thing i hate are white washed asians. 
December 4, 2012 @ 11:59 PM
E Styles

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Love me some white washed Asians
December 5, 2012 @ 12:01 AM
pew pew pew

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Love me some white washed Asians

I dont even know how dudes like white teen girls in general personality wise.

they're so "jolly" and talk way too much.

dat communication lyfestyle might not make it
December 5, 2012 @ 12:03 AM
E Styles

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I just like their outgoingness, easier to approach idk
December 5, 2012 @ 12:03 AM
Forests

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Met this bitch at this eating place and she was hella fine, we were talking but I guess her dad or some shit owned the restaurant and screamed at her to get to work so I went home and facebooked searched her and found that hoe and I just got head from her the other night, fuck wid it.

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December 7, 2012 @ 05:39 AM
Belak

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This girl in my class is definitely one of the hottest chicks on campus a straight 10 out of 10, and to be frank out of my league looks wise. Regardless I managed to get her number in the beginning of the quarter and we've been texting back and forth mainly regarding homework, but whenever we're in class we chop it up a bit. Yesterday was our last class and we didn't say bye, she texted me later that night saying "I didn't get to say bye! Keep in touch, hopefully I'll see ya next quarter!" and I said "why wait? lets kick it over break, she said she's down. I'm thinking of hitting her up within the next week or two, however I wanna be careful with how I approach this? She gets hit on by hundreds of dudes I need to stand out and be that exception...I was thinking coffee and then possibly smoking later at my place?
December 7, 2012 @ 05:45 AM
E Styles

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This girl in my class is definitely one of the hottest chicks on campus a straight 10 out of 10, and to be frank out of my league looks wise. Regardless I managed to get her number in the beginning of the quarter and we've been texting back and forth mainly regarding homework, but whenever we're in class we chop it up a bit. Yesterday was our last class and we didn't say bye, she texted me later that night saying "I didn't get to say bye! Keep in touch, hopefully I'll see ya next quarter!" and I said "why wait? lets kick it over break, she said she's down. I'm thinking of hitting her up within the next week or two, however I wanna be careful with how I approach this? She gets hit on by hundreds of dudes I need to stand out and be that exception...I was thinking coffee and then possibly smoking later at my place?
nothing too risky, might work out well 

good luck, dont fuck it up 

keep us posted 
December 7, 2012 @ 09:17 AM
pointforward

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Cop Dick made out of chocolate that ejaculates money.
if only. On to the next one indeed!
December 7, 2012 @ 11:19 AM
JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

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e styles i like you now. 

:)

December 7, 2012 @ 02:56 PM
E Styles

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Thanks brother, I'm just spreading the love in ways other than bs trolling.. I care too much about the site to let it die 
December 7, 2012 @ 06:10 PM
JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

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one of my exes just hit me up in a text saying "aye bai" like wtf. we haven't talked in months. i dont get it.

:)

December 7, 2012 @ 06:27 PM
dmwalking

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Belak, you're already in there b.  Just act like you been there before.  In other words, keep it cool. Don't rush.  I'm guessing what she likes about you is that you don't treat her like meat.  So keep doing what you're doing.  Just don't fall back too much.  Eventually she's going to want to know whether you want her or not.  I'm guessing you're not an awkward dude so yo should be fine when it comes to initiating 

JACOB, it's simple: either she's just broken up with someone, she's lonely, she's horny, or she's bored.   Girls like to go back to what's familiar because they want something "now."  So they hit up ex's because they feel most of the work is done. It should be easier to get it in.   IDK about you, but messing with ex's is easy and fun.  Then you get reminded of why you broke up and it's easier to stop talking again.  There's pro's to messing with ex's.  LOL.

Oh, yeah, ulterior motives aside, it's possible that she just misses you.  Maybe.  I just assume the worst about women until proven otherwise.  

guy on some broke bus. Love, Sosa. "Don't feed the trolls" initiative coming soon. We can rebuild.

December 8, 2012 @ 01:12 AM
JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

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just hit her up a few hours ago, to find out she converted to islam, she was always a cool chick the one ex i was really in love with. but her religion states cant date only marry. i never knew how much i cared for her, i want her but cant have her, idk if i can be around her and stay sane what to do? i really still like this girl.  

:)

December 8, 2012 @ 06:06 AM
sado

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Location: Grove Street, SA

my john is feeling real raw after getting it in tonight. Just had to share that br0s
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