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December 4, 2012 @ 08:30 PM
dvzr0

Post: 70

Join Date: Nov 2012


why should i quit??
dodging your attempts to hang out and then saying stuff like she ruins things with boys and may not be able to talk to you properly sends up red flags in my brain, b. idk if those are the exact words she used, but it really doesn't take a lot to make someone a part of your life, whether its for a romantic relationship or a friendship. as i've gotten older i've come to realize that the most important thing you can give to someone else is your time. so if she ain't willin to step away from her computer to talk to you face to face n hang out, then that shows you how much she really values you, as a friend or otherwise. i think you can do better
December 4, 2012 @ 08:31 PM
JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

Post: 3102

Join Date: May 2011

Location: Vashtie\'s Room


ok so i speak to this girl like everyday... but only on fb. i know who she is and i seen her out a few times but didn't really pay attention until recently. She says she likes me and shit but she keeps dodging me every time i ask to meet up or anything. like even if i can call her she is always 'busy' ... then last night she was saying how much she doesn't like getting close to boys because she ruins things and that she is worried things will go further between me and her and she wont be able to talk to me properly anymore. She still goes on about how she likes me alot more than just a friend but everything she is doing seems to give me the opposite idea. i dont know what i should do? should i ignore her for a few days or what?
she is trying to play you and keep you in the friend zone, find a new on bruh bruh.

:)

December 4, 2012 @ 08:34 PM
me>u

Post: 4896

Join Date: Feb 2009


dont u listen to me fam? i only like white girls and will marry one
smh that cali lifestyle might now make it

instagram: funthera

December 4, 2012 @ 08:44 PM
MALLET

Post: 42

Join Date: Dec 2011

Location: UK


dodging your attempts to hang out and then saying stuff like she ruins things with boys and may not be able to talk to you properly sends up red flags in my brain, b. idk if those are the exact words she used, but it really doesn't take a lot to make someone a part of your life, whether its for a romantic relationship or a friendship. as i've gotten older i've come to realize that the most important thing you can give to someone else is your time. so if she ain't willin to step away from her computer to talk to you face to face n hang out, then that shows you how much she really values you, as a friend or otherwise. i think you can do better
i get what you mean.. =/ it kinda sucks but i guess i dont wanna keep on if nothing is going to change. thanks bud
December 4, 2012 @ 09:39 PM
Jollibee.

Post: 2176

Join Date: Apr 2012


smh that cali lifestyle might now make it
Lol don't you like any other asians besides ur own race?
December 4, 2012 @ 11:57 PM
me>u

Post: 4896

Join Date: Feb 2009


Lol don't you like any other asians besides ur own race?
lol na i dig all girls but when it comes to serious dating, it has to be my own race.

much easier. cant do it with other races due to the clash of culture.

one thing i hate are white washed asians. 

instagram: funthera

December 4, 2012 @ 11:59 PM
E Styles

Post: 640

Join Date: Sep 2012

Love me some white washed Asians
December 5, 2012 @ 12:01 AM
me>u

Post: 4896

Join Date: Feb 2009


Love me some white washed Asians

I dont even know how dudes like white teen girls in general personality wise.

they're so "jolly" and talk way too much.

dat communication lyfestyle might not make it

instagram: funthera

December 5, 2012 @ 12:03 AM
E Styles

Post: 640

Join Date: Sep 2012

I just like their outgoingness, easier to approach idk
December 5, 2012 @ 12:03 AM
Forests

Post: 140

Join Date: Aug 2012

Met this bitch at this eating place and she was hella fine, we were talking but I guess her dad or some shit owned the restaurant and screamed at her to get to work so I went home and facebooked searched her and found that hoe and I just got head from her the other night, fuck wid it.

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December 7, 2012 @ 05:39 AM
Belak

Post: 1025

Join Date: Mar 2011

This girl in my class is definitely one of the hottest chicks on campus a straight 10 out of 10, and to be frank out of my league looks wise. Regardless I managed to get her number in the beginning of the quarter and we've been texting back and forth mainly regarding homework, but whenever we're in class we chop it up a bit. Yesterday was our last class and we didn't say bye, she texted me later that night saying "I didn't get to say bye! Keep in touch, hopefully I'll see ya next quarter!" and I said "why wait? lets kick it over break, she said she's down. I'm thinking of hitting her up within the next week or two, however I wanna be careful with how I approach this? She gets hit on by hundreds of dudes I need to stand out and be that exception...I was thinking coffee and then possibly smoking later at my place?
December 7, 2012 @ 05:45 AM
E Styles

Post: 640

Join Date: Sep 2012


This girl in my class is definitely one of the hottest chicks on campus a straight 10 out of 10, and to be frank out of my league looks wise. Regardless I managed to get her number in the beginning of the quarter and we've been texting back and forth mainly regarding homework, but whenever we're in class we chop it up a bit. Yesterday was our last class and we didn't say bye, she texted me later that night saying "I didn't get to say bye! Keep in touch, hopefully I'll see ya next quarter!" and I said "why wait? lets kick it over break, she said she's down. I'm thinking of hitting her up within the next week or two, however I wanna be careful with how I approach this? She gets hit on by hundreds of dudes I need to stand out and be that exception...I was thinking coffee and then possibly smoking later at my place?
nothing too risky, might work out well 

good luck, dont fuck it up 

keep us posted 
December 7, 2012 @ 09:17 AM
pointforward

Post: 255

Join Date: Sep 2012

Location: Sydney, Australia


Cop Dick made out of chocolate that ejaculates money.
if only. On to the next one indeed!
December 7, 2012 @ 11:19 AM
JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

Post: 3102

Join Date: May 2011

Location: Vashtie\'s Room

e styles i like you now. 

:)

December 7, 2012 @ 02:56 PM
E Styles

Post: 640

Join Date: Sep 2012

Thanks brother, I'm just spreading the love in ways other than bs trolling.. I care too much about the site to let it die 
December 7, 2012 @ 06:10 PM
JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

Post: 3102

Join Date: May 2011

Location: Vashtie\'s Room

one of my exes just hit me up in a text saying "aye bai" like wtf. we haven't talked in months. i dont get it.

:)

December 7, 2012 @ 06:27 PM
dmwalking

moderator

Post: 3313

Join Date: Aug 2007

Location: New England

Belak, you're already in there b.  Just act like you been there before.  In other words, keep it cool. Don't rush.  I'm guessing what she likes about you is that you don't treat her like meat.  So keep doing what you're doing.  Just don't fall back too much.  Eventually she's going to want to know whether you want her or not.  I'm guessing you're not an awkward dude so yo should be fine when it comes to initiating 

JACOB, it's simple: either she's just broken up with someone, she's lonely, she's horny, or she's bored.   Girls like to go back to what's familiar because they want something "now."  So they hit up ex's because they feel most of the work is done. It should be easier to get it in.   IDK about you, but messing with ex's is easy and fun.  Then you get reminded of why you broke up and it's easier to stop talking again.  There's pro's to messing with ex's.  LOL.

Oh, yeah, ulterior motives aside, it's possible that she just misses you.  Maybe.  I just assume the worst about women until proven otherwise.  

guy on some broke bus. Love, Sosa. "Don't feed the trolls" initiative coming soon. We can rebuild.

December 8, 2012 @ 01:12 AM
JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

Post: 3102

Join Date: May 2011

Location: Vashtie\'s Room

just hit her up a few hours ago, to find out she converted to islam, she was always a cool chick the one ex i was really in love with. but her religion states cant date only marry. i never knew how much i cared for her, i want her but cant have her, idk if i can be around her and stay sane what to do? i really still like this girl.  

:)

December 8, 2012 @ 06:06 AM
sado

Post: 3311

Join Date: Jul 2009

Location: Grove Street, SA

my john is feeling real raw after getting it in tonight. Just had to share that br0s
December 8, 2012 @ 06:14 AM
domingodean

Post: 1067

Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: Ont

just hit her up a few hours ago, to find out she converted to islam, she was always a cool chick the one ex i was really in love with. but her religion states cant date only marry. i never knew how much i cared for her, i want her but cant have her, idk if i can be around her and stay sane what to do? i really still like this girl.  
really just converted...could be front tho. i unno these broads be actin up.let her go man. u got game. dont let this situ thinking u cant get another broad

edit.

but if she did really convert to islam. relationship could be very classical. in the sense of family life and shit like in the future. man has alot of juice in islamic relationships from what i noticed. could be ideal life. she will be loyal, honest, not a cheater, cook take care of kids, cleaning etc. hopefully american culture hasnt destroyed her. 

17000 ferrari

December 8, 2012 @ 06:30 AM
JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

Post: 3102

Join Date: May 2011

Location: Vashtie\'s Room

no bruh she really converted she was always a lover of the islam religion but she finally converted, so it real shit, she wears the hijab and all. but i would have to marry her like marry, no dating. im only 20. like damn we we were talking for a good 4hours. to be honest i have fam that are muslim and almost converted last summer but held off, but damn idk.

:)

December 8, 2012 @ 06:40 AM
domingodean

Post: 1067

Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: Ont



no bruh she really converted she was always a lover of the islam religion but she finally converted, so it real shit, she wears the hijab and all. but i would have to marry her like marry, no dating. im only 20. like damn we we were talking for a good 4hours. to be honest i have fam that are muslim and almost converted last summer but held off, but damn idk.
IMO you are way to young to have to make a decision like that. have u gotten to do you at the ripe age of 20. travel your hobbies, school, living life etc.... 

not saying u cant do all that stuff with ur girl and fam. but their might be pressure from their fam for children. so once kids get involved could get messy. you will prolly wanna be a good dad and all. party life ends. commitments pile up

wat if in like 2 yrs or more u get tired of marriage. and then its too late to enjoi life.

we in our prime i say explore more.did she grow up in an islamic household btw ? 

also has she had men before converting ?

17000 ferrari

December 8, 2012 @ 06:54 AM
JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

Post: 3102

Join Date: May 2011

Location: Vashtie\'s Room

i see what your saying. i do feel like im slightly too young to make such a change but i really do love this girl. 

and about kids i doubt she wants kids now, she is 21 still in college, we're both in college. 

that is a good point idk if i will feel the same way about her in so in so years but right now i feel like she is my yoke not yet equaled.

no she grew up in a christian household, she has been studying islam for about 3-4 years.

she has been with 4 men total including me before conversion. 

:)

December 8, 2012 @ 07:20 AM
domingodean

Post: 1067

Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: Ont

aight so shes seems dedicated to the religion. however some girls. that I know of. not saying yours did this.

convert to try and cleanse them selves of past "sins" ie sex, drugs etc. religion keeps them on that good path. she may have already lived out wat she thought she wanted. she may be an adrenaline junkie.

so young doubt that in this case. but there are some wild girls out there  so she wants to settle down and live a pretty tame life she lived out her wild side.

but if the right opportunity arises some women will dip the fam if better prospects arise.

in this day an age finding the one is rare. and the numbers dont lie (divorce) even in muslim relationships this number is going up. 

17000 ferrari

December 8, 2012 @ 09:10 PM
dmwalking

moderator

Post: 3313

Join Date: Aug 2007

Location: New England

Jacob, she cares about you. You care about her. But if you ain't ready for marriage, you ain't ready.  And if you ain't ready to commit to that religion or at least enable her to feel fulfilled in that religion, you ain't ready.  Do your thing until you're ready.   I remember "loving" this one chick man. I had it bad for her. She was my perfect type. But we grew apart.  That girl I fell in love with at 22 wasn't the same girl I wanted to be with when I got older.  Give it time.  You'll be aight. 

guy on some broke bus. Love, Sosa. "Don't feed the trolls" initiative coming soon. We can rebuild.

December 8, 2012 @ 11:48 PM
JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

Post: 3102

Join Date: May 2011

Location: Vashtie\'s Room

yeah im not even close to ready.ill just be her friend for now i guess.if i decide to make a decision in the future ill be the right one during the right timelike my guru told me; "If you must bow toward Mecca, bow toward Mecca. Bowing is good practice."

thanks for the help domingodean and dmwalking. 

:)

December 12, 2012 @ 02:01 AM
Mr_Chukes

Post: 2263

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: California

Who else has a girlfriend like this. She would rather have me come over and hang and talk to her all day instead of wine and dine. She says she just enjoys my company and talking to me. She feels extremely comfortable with me and has told me a lot.
It was strange at first because I was so use to going out and doing stuff. I pay for most things but sometimes she pays for me.
December 12, 2012 @ 02:02 AM
WatchOutForSelener

Post: 318

Join Date: Dec 2012

Who else has a girlfriend like this. She would rather have me come over and hang and talk to her all day instead of wine and dine. She says she just enjoys my company and talking to me. She feels extremely comfortable with me and has told me a lot.

It was strange at first because I was so use to going out and doing stuff. I pay for most things but sometimes she pays for me.

That's a keeper.

......

December 12, 2012 @ 02:02 AM
E Styles

Post: 640

Join Date: Sep 2012

Shit that's dope..

less money you have to spend 
December 12, 2012 @ 02:52 AM
dmwalking

moderator

Post: 3313

Join Date: Aug 2007

Location: New England

Who else has a girlfriend like this. She would rather have me come over and hang and talk to her all day instead of wine and dine. She says she just enjoys my company and talking to me. She feels extremely comfortable with me and has told me a lot.

It was strange at first because I was so use to going out and doing stuff. I pay for most things but sometimes she pays for me.
Me.  Keep. 

guy on some broke bus. Love, Sosa. "Don't feed the trolls" initiative coming soon. We can rebuild.


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