The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

June 12, 2012 @ 18:13:48
wtf can't edit but yeah, maybe i "shouldn't of tried to ask her out via text. would it have made it a difference if i just asked to chill one on one?
June 12, 2012 @ 19:53:01
wtf can't edit but yeah, maybe i "shouldn't of tried to ask her out via text. would it have made it a difference if i just asked to chill one on one?


you fucked up hard by not hooking up with her when you were cuddling and shit. That was sus as fuck...
June 12, 2012 @ 20:47:09
wtf can't edit but yeah, maybe i "shouldn't of tried to ask her out via text. would it have made it a difference if i just asked to chill one on one?


you fucked up hard by not hooking up with her when you were cuddling and shit. That was sus as fuck...


As Ed Lover once said, " C'MON SON, fuck outta here wit daa bullshit."

All you had to do was whip dick out and you wouldve went from cuddling to fuckin

Fly on little wing

June 12, 2012 @ 21:32:08
oh well lol.
June 18, 2012 @ 09:57:23
whats gucci hb fam, i need some advice.

situation is the following: met this girl i know from like 4 yeras back at a friends party and we had some talk and ended up making out a bit, so far so good, not gonna go simp about it but i think i've got a lowkey crush, feel me?

So i want to ask her out on a date, but i dont know what the fuk to do with her. like when talking to her i tried to find out about what stuff shes into but apparently all she does is hang out with her girlfriends and go to partys.
+ i don't want to do some cheesy shit like meet up at a bar or a cafe or go to the movies, like that shit bores me myself.

Ive had some ideas like take her to a nice club i know but thats impossible because the legal age to go to clubs is 18 here and its 2 more months till shes 18.
Then i thought about taking her to a (idk whats the correct term) swimming pond round here thats got stuff like trampolines and shiz on the water, but im not sure wether thats a good idea as we all know some girls arent confident about their body or she might think all i wanna do is like see her almost naked or w/e a girl can come up with you know the shit their fucked up female brains can come up with.

so bruvs i need some ideas for a date, i know you can come up with some trill shit for me.

thanks in advance fam
June 18, 2012 @ 11:09:11
Only advice i got is stop overthinking it so damn much, she finna fuck another dude while you sitting at home wondering what location would be the best for a date. You already made out with her and if you still talk just ask her to come by your place and make some food or whatever.
June 18, 2012 @ 11:30:51
Only advice i got is stop overthinking it so damn much, she finna fuck another dude while you sitting at home wondering what location would be the best for a date. You already made out with her and if you still talk just ask her to come by your place and make some food or whatever.


yo i ain't tryna smash and then run off, b. couldve done that, no problemo. i even surpressed my instincts to rip off her clothes and straight hulksmash her at my friends party bruv. no im talking about seducing her. i need some straight ass seduction date typa shit, like on some make her not even think about other dudes shit.
im sick of the fuckin hit'n'run lifestyle, ya boi wants to settle down and start a family smokeyface nah just fuckin with you, she cute af doe, rlly tryna start a relationship or sth. for once.
June 18, 2012 @ 11:41:11
wtf can't edit but yeah, maybe i "shouldn't of tried to ask her out via text. would it have made it a difference if i just asked to chill one on one?


you fucked up hard by not hooking up with her when you were cuddling and shit. That was sus as fuck...


As Ed Lover once said, " C'MON SON, fuck outta here wit daa bullshit."

All you had to do was whip dick out and you wouldve went from cuddling to fuckin


ugh qft zzzzzZZ

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June 20, 2012 @ 17:28:24
yo i ain't tryna smash and then run off, b. couldve done that, no problemo. i even surpressed my instincts to rip off her clothes and straight hulksmash her at my friends party bruv. no im talking about seducing her. i need some straight ass seduction date typa shit, like on some make her not even think about other dudes shit.
im sick of the fuckin hit'n'run lifestyle, ya boi wants to settle down and start a family smokeyface nah just fuckin with you, she cute af doe, rlly tryna start a relationship or sth. for once.


Doesen't change my advice the slightest, she's gonna fall for your personality not the location you chose for a date. C'mon b, it's way more important to act while the spark is still there than overthink shit and let her slip.
June 20, 2012 @ 18:09:06
yo i ain't tryna smash and then run off, b. couldve done that, no problemo. i even surpressed my instincts to rip off her clothes and straight hulksmash her at my friends party bruv. no im talking about seducing her. i need some straight ass seduction date typa shit, like on some make her not even think about other dudes shit.
im sick of the fuckin hit'n'run lifestyle, ya boi wants to settle down and start a family smokeyface nah just fuckin with you, she cute af doe, rlly tryna start a relationship or sth. for once.


Doesen't change my advice the slightest, she's gonna fall for your personality not the location you chose for a date. C'mon b, it's way more important to act while the spark is still there than overthink shit and let her slip.


anyways as the advice from hb wasnt coming ya boi took a shot and asked her to chill at the swimming thing, i mean seriously doe, that broad put her tongue straight in my mouth for a good 30minutes, hows she gonna act like she doesnt want me to see her in a bikini.
June 20, 2012 @ 18:55:15
The first time I got away from being with this girl, I felt like I was dying for about 2 weeks. Then, we got back, then ya know, I felt horrible again, but, now we just ended that shit like today, over some stupid shit, what ever yo, but, real talk, I don't feel anything.. Idk why, but I dont feel anything about it right now, is that bad?

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June 23, 2012 @ 03:37:12
HB need sum advice real fast....sum slick shiet naw mean

so long story short ive been knowing this chic ever since our youngin days. we always used to kicked it only during the summer time(she got sum strict asian beat yah ass kind of parents) ...we usually txt couple times a week but lately we aint really feelin each other basically feelin like she has me in the friend zone...soo i dont hit her up anymore feel me...and she givin me mixed signals like one day she says"i wish we could be together" bs like that...the next week she saying"i feel like i can hit u up whenever and feel like we can tlk bout watever" sum BFF shiet.....ight this is getting to long aha im not the best story teller but yah anyone been in a similiar situation and pulled sum slick shiet and had a dialogue that was like a everyday thing... i sent her txts hinting to kick it jus playing around type of shiet but she would reply with sum cute shiet but not tryna kick it....what do i do? i know she has strict parents but c'mon now

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June 23, 2012 @ 03:42:29
HB need sum advice real fast....sum slick shiet naw mean

so long story short ive been knowing this chic ever since our youngin days. we always used to kicked it only during the summer time(she got sum strict asian beat yah ass kind of parents) ...we usually txt couple times a week but lately we aint really feelin each other basically feelin like she has me in the friend zone...soo i dont hit her up anymore feel me...and she givin me mixed signals like one day she says"i wish we could be together" bs like that...the next week she saying"i feel like i can hit u up whenever and feel like we can tlk bout watever" sum BFF shiet.....ight this is getting to long aha im not the best story teller but yah anyone been in a similiar situation and pulled sum slick shiet and had a dialogue that was like a everyday thing... i sent her txts hinting to kick it jus playing around type of shiet but she would reply with sum cute shiet but not tryna kick it....what do i do? i know she has strict parents but c'mon now


Tell her you don't have time for games and to tell you wassup with you guys.
June 23, 2012 @ 03:58:51
HB need sum advice real fast....sum slick shiet naw mean

so long story short ive been knowing this chic ever since our youngin days. we always used to kicked it only during the summer time(she got sum strict asian beat yah ass kind of parents) ...we usually txt couple times a week but lately we aint really feelin each other basically feelin like she has me in the friend zone...soo i dont hit her up anymore feel me...and she givin me mixed signals like one day she says"i wish we could be together" bs like that...the next week she saying"i feel like i can hit u up whenever and feel like we can tlk bout watever" sum BFF shiet.....ight this is getting to long aha im not the best story teller but yah anyone been in a similiar situation and pulled sum slick shiet and had a dialogue that was like a everyday thing... i sent her txts hinting to kick it jus playing around type of shiet but she would reply with sum cute shiet but not tryna kick it....what do i do? i know she has strict parents but c'mon now


Tell her you don't have time for games and to tell you wassup with you guys.]

HB need sum advice real fast....sum slick shiet naw mean

so long story short ive been knowing this chic ever since our youngin days. we always used to kicked it only during the summer time(she got sum strict asian beat yah ass kind of parents) ...we usually txt couple times a week but lately we aint really feelin each other basically feelin like she has me in the friend zone...soo i dont hit her up anymore feel me...and she givin me mixed signals like one day she says"i wish we could be together" bs like that...the next week she saying"i feel like i can hit u up whenever and feel like we can tlk bout watever" sum BFF shiet.....ight this is getting to long aha im not the best story teller but yah anyone been in a similiar situation and pulled sum slick shiet and had a dialogue that was like a everyday thing... i sent her txts hinting to kick it jus playing around type of shiet but she would reply with sum cute shiet but not tryna kick it....what do i do? i know she has strict parents but c'mon now

Just be more direct when asking her out on a date, don't go on some pussy shit and send any 'signals'. If she says no, she won't say it in a bad way cause it seems like she's close to you like that (even as a friend) so you have nothing to lose. And if she says no, then don't force it bro.
yee i feel it.. were close friends, but i dont wana come off thirsty...i hit her up like the last 2 times so ima wait for her to hit me up..or should i?
June 23, 2012 @ 04:01:48
My ex told me she cut herself the night she "broke up with me". WTF!!!

:)

June 23, 2012 @ 04:50:12
Originally posted by Inactive User
My ex told me she cut herself the night she "broke up with me". WTF!!!


Just be thankful you dodged that bullet my du, bitch sounds like a head case
June 23, 2012 @ 07:57:13
you fucked up hard by not hooking up with her when you were cuddling and shit. That was sus as fuck...


As Ed Lover once said, " C'MON SON, fuck outta here wit daa bullshit."

All you had to do was whip dick out and you wouldve went from cuddling to fuckin


ugh qft zzzzzZZ


aii well another update tonight we ended up making out in public every 5 min and shit cause we were pretty drunk. she ended up biting the shit outta my body (still did not get to smash but we was outside the whole time). but after all that we went to go eat and when i got a chance to be with her alone i pinched her butt at this halal food spot and suddenly she was like "you can't be doing that to me in public". while i was doing that whole time for the 20 min walk and we was holding each other by the waists and shit. what the fuck is going on?
June 23, 2012 @ 08:14:45
make love to her

While there's life there is hope, only the dead have none.

June 23, 2012 @ 08:45:25
I don't know if anyone has posted this but would you date a pregnant chick?
June 23, 2012 @ 08:55:28
I don't know if anyone has posted this but would you date a pregnant chick?


nigga no, all she do is try to find a simp who'll pay for the baby another nikka gave her and then ran off.
June 23, 2012 @ 10:22:16
As Ed Lover once said, " C'MON SON, fuck outta here wit daa bullshit."

All you had to do was whip dick out and you wouldve went from cuddling to fuckin


ugh qft zzzzzZZ


aii well another update tonight we ended up making out in public every 5 min and shit cause we were pretty drunk. she ended up biting the shit outta my body (still did not get to smash but we was outside the whole time). but after all that we went to go eat and when i got a chance to be with her alone i pinched her butt at this halal food spot and suddenly she was like "you can't be doing that to me in public". while i was doing that whole time for the 20 min walk and we was holding each other by the waists and shit. what the fuck is going on?


yo come on kicks youre being gay as hell talking about "i pinched her butt" and shit. just play it cool. chick already doesnt sound like wifey since shes playing little games. 2 options.
1.play the game better.
2.feel her out a little more if you want an actual relationship.
June 23, 2012 @ 14:08:22
lol so nigga? what do you mean "feel her out"?
June 24, 2012 @ 22:06:32
lol so nigga? what do you mean "feel her out"?


CMON SON. chick sounds like shes playing you. play the game better, smash, bounce. OR "feel her out" as in make sure this bitch isnt playing games and call her ass out when she does.
July 11, 2012 @ 23:48:51
Just ended a two and half year relationship. Shit feels weird. I feel like I should be more hurt than I am.
July 12, 2012 @ 00:40:07
Just ended a two and half year relationship. Shit feels weird. I feel like I should be more hurt than I am.

you dont care thats why.

:)

July 12, 2012 @ 01:01:40
Just ended a two and half year relationship. Shit feels weird. I feel like I should be more hurt than I am.


nigga ur free, should be happy!

relationships are against nature fam, we supposed to fuck mad broads!!

we are MEN smokeyfacesmokeyface
July 12, 2012 @ 05:27:49
nigga ur free, should be happy!

relationships are against nature fam, we supposed to fuck mad broads!!

we are MEN smokeyfacesmokeyface

Originally posted by Inactive User
you dont care thats why.


As corny and obvious as it may sound to other people: Thank you to both "@nycxeric" and "@JACOB LACIDAR". This break-up bullshit had thrown me for a loop, but it's this type of advice that keeps me grounded.
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