So me and my first love broke up 3 weeks ago for good.
I went to her house sunday to try and reconcile. We start off talking about our relationship and we were laughing and reminiscing about the past. Then i asked her why we broke up and she said that it's cause i neglected her too much and that we argued a lot.
I asked if we could try it again and she said not right now. She has a new dude and she said that she wants a relationship with him. He's going off to college, and i know he's just going to use my ex and shit because he has history of cheating on his girlfriends.
Anyways, before we left, we hugged for what felt like an eternity, and i had to pull her off me. We kissed each others foreheads and we exchanged I love yous.
Her overall answer to us getting together is that she just wants to be friends, and that she doesn't know what will happen in the future between us and between the new guy.
Honestly, as pathetic as it sounds, i'd still take her back because it was me that drove us in the ground and I know if i out more effort, i can make it work.
Judging by what happened, do you think there is a chance of us getting back together? Like is this thing between her and the new dude temporary?