Yo, DM, just a thought I had:
How are decent girls raised? Most I know have daddy issues and aren't really that go-getter, independent type. Wtf happened to all the confident females (who can take a dick and be a lady on the streets as well)?
There's a lot of variables my man. But truth be told, the young brothers already made the most solid point. IMO, it's a solid relationship with their fathers. From my experience and observations, girls who had solid relationships with their fathers had no need for male attention and would not bend to the will of any nigga who was not on the father's good side.
But, don't judge every chick based on that. That's just like one of those up front factors. But every so often some girls may just have a strong enough personality to be their own women despite negative relationships with their parents. A good gauge is to observe how hungry for general attention she is (if it's high, it's a bad situation) and how hungry for male attention she is (if it's high, it's a bad situation). Haha.
As far as freak in the sheets/lady in the streets? You just need to find a woman who's secure enough in herself to be willing to enjoy sex. It may take time for some girls to open up, but if you can make em trust you, they'll open up a lot. Make em love you, they'll do anything for you.