She then said she's not looking to hook up with anyone and that she loves me but feels we shouldn't limit ourselves as far as hooking up with other people because you never know what can happen and she doesn't want to regret any mistake she'd make.
Red flag, buddy.
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Me and my girl were together for 6 months (3 months long distance) . Before summer break she told me that she was going to study abroad in spain for a full year for the upcoming school year, however we still went into a relationship ignoring that future. When she came back for summer break we had the best of times and its been the healthiest relationship I've ever had. We agreed on not doing long distance because it'd take away from her experience in spain and the same for me vise versa, however we were keeping in consistent contact since she left. She skyped me last week and it was weird cause 2 weeks ago we were together and not were not, I brought that up and told her that we should take a break and not talk for a few months. However throughout the week it got me thinking that I really love this girl and maybe we could make it work. I was thinking maybe we could skype once every week or two, so that she could still take advantage of her studying abroad without too much distraction. I proposed my solution to her the other day and she said that she loves me like crazy but that she wants some time by herself to become more independent without a relationship. However she still wants to keep in contact with me on a regular basis, I told her thats selfish and that we can't do that and if were to do that then I don't want her hooking up with anyone. She then said she's not looking to hook up with anyone and that she loves me but feels we shouldn't limit ourselves as far as hooking up with other people because you never know what can happen and she doesn't want to regret any mistake she'd make.
Bottom of the line I'm not down with her hooking up but I can't really do anything since she's thousands of miles away. At the same time I want to hold on to her and she wants to do the same....Either way it seems like a lose-lose situation, any advice?
If she loves you then she wouldn't suggest in not limiting each other to hooking up with people. Straight up, an actual relationship is exclusive. She might be using an excuse to say she's not looking to hook up with noone now, but that she wouldn't mind. She could be saying this now so she don't have to feel guilty so she telling you now. That's havok on your mental health with her sayin that and your too far away to have any real say in it. Stay in contact since you love her, but I guess don't have any expectations from her i suppose?
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if a guy confessed his love and admiration for your girl and how he wants to be with her (2 months before you get together) and during you guys' relationship, SHE still contacts him(rides to places, eating out etc.) how would you feel?
im obviously in the situation and find it weird. especially when she has better friends(guys and girls) that she could do the same thing with.
That's not called being racist , it's called stereotyping -Dude from the misc
thats been done, but it doesnt change the fact that doin those things in the first place didnt/doesnt faze her, which is what is weird to me.
from my perspective, if a girl say she love me and all that, then i get in a relationship w/ a diff girl, i would almost feel guilty hanging with the girl that wanted me.
but thanks for the response and goodluck on tuesday my brotha
if a guy confessed his love and admiration for your girl and how he wants to be with her (2 months before you get together) and during you guys' relationship, SHE still contacts him(rides to places, eating out etc.) how would you feel?
im obviously in the situation and find it weird. especially when she has better friends(guys and girls) that she could do the same thing with.
lol , she probably cheated on you already .
There's no such thing as guys JUST wanting to go out to eat and hang out , he wants to smash obviously .
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if a guy confessed his love and admiration for your girl and how he wants to be with her (2 months before you get together) and during you guys' relationship, SHE still contacts him(rides to places, eating out etc.) how would you feel?
im obviously in the situation and find it weird. especially when she has better friends(guys and girls) that she could do the same thing with.
lol , she probably cheated on you already .
There's no such thing as guys JUST wanting to go out to eat and hang out , he wants to smash obviously .
thats how i looked at things, but I feel as thouugh she genuinely doesnt like the guy in a love type of way.
but my question was if it was happening to you, how would you feel/react?
@Dino we're 20. i mean the thing thats buggin me, is after a girl friendzones a guy, she doesnt usually eat out with or ask that guy for a ride.
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if a guy confessed his love and admiration for your girl and how he wants to be with her (2 months before you get together) and during you guys' relationship, SHE still contacts him(rides to places, eating out etc.) how would you feel?
im obviously in the situation and find it weird. especially when she has better friends(guys and girls) that she could do the same thing with.
lol , she probably cheated on you already .
There's no such thing as guys JUST wanting to go out to eat and hang out , he wants to smash obviously .
thats how i looked at things, but I feel as thouugh she genuinely doesnt like the guy in a love type of way.
but my question was if it was happening to you, how would you feel/react?
@Dino we're 20. i mean the thing thats buggin me, is after a girl friendzones a guy, she doesnt usually eat out with or ask that guy for a ride.
again this is what happened:
she friendzoned this guy,
he says "he likes her more than a friend",
she says "lolwut we're just friends"
then me nd her get in a relationship,
then after a year, im hearing they went to chilis
and one time when she needed a ride the following week to somewhere urgent she calls him if he can take her.
That's not called being racist , it's called stereotyping -Dude from the misc
