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September 20, 2012 @ 01:55 PM
leejames

Post: 60

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Location: UK

I would as long as i didn't feel threatened by him. And in most cases i wouldn't feel threatened. You say bullshit like this "Him and i went to chilli's" - is the polite way of saying, "he and i didn't go out to chilli's, we just went somewhere and fucked" .. and that's being real, sorry if that sounds rude or out of line, but i think you need to hear it how it is."

Which is why im calling you a moron. Come on that is bullshit and it shows you aren't very experienced with girls and have no idea how they think.

If a girl is with you, in a relationship, but there is another guy who has confessed his feelings for her and she rejected him even BEFORE she met you then this guy will for sure have lower value than you. As long as you just maintain that value she will never ever feel any sexual attraction for him and would never risk your relationship for him. Sure this could happen if you neglect her too much but most likely she will find some random guy and not someone she has been talking to and using for favors for a long time.

He is just some white knight that she can call when she needs a ride because she knows he will do what she asks him to, he means nothing to her.


I'm agreeing with most of your logic here, but on the real - if OP has said to his girlfriend, "nah - im sorry, im not comfortable with you hanging out with this guy" and she's brushed off his opinions and put this guy before respecting her own boyfriend, what does that say? why is THIS guy so important? Because she can exploit him? How is that an attractive quality .. although you're right, my bad for, "they didnt go to chilli's, they probably just fucked". But i did say, it's either she's cheating or she's using the other guy.

I'm not going to get into a "my dick is bigger then yours, i've fucked more girls then you" teenage type of arguement, but i'm plenty confident with women. I'm 25 and i've been around enough women to know the difference between a girl that respects people, and girls who will do what they want because they think it benefits them.

My girlfriend would never hang around with some guy that had admitted "love" feelings for her, not because of how i might percieve it, but because ultimately - if she doesn't feel the same, she effectively see's the friendship as ruined. It WOULD be different - if OP's girlfriend and this guy were best-friends, then one night he let slip he really liked her, she said no, but the guy just took it in his stride and continued wanting to be a friend... but that's not the situation at all. She's all about doing her & either using this guy or completely disrespecting OP.

Feelin like a young simba, I can't wait to be the king.

September 20, 2012 @ 02:20 PM
hndlz

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Location: Miami, FL


However, this guy has just said his girl hangs around with a guy who has admitted to her that he loves her, OP told her it makes her uncomfortable and yet she still does it


i didnt say she still does it. she actually didnt after i addressed it. All I asked in the OP is how would it make you feel?
and what was weird to me most:
1. she apparently didnt see any harm
2. i had to say something for it to register in her mind.

Pantic, i like how you come to this thread with a "no bullshit" attitude, i think its needed, but in leejames' defense, i also thought like that initially although I admit to having no exp in relationships.

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September 20, 2012 @ 02:27 PM
leejames

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Location: UK

then that's my bad, misread the post.

Feelin like a young simba, I can't wait to be the king.

September 20, 2012 @ 03:14 PM
justinslayer

Post: 450

Join Date: Jul 2012

shut the fuck up niggas. Just because ya girl was a hoe and cheated on you doesn't mean every girl is or that @hndlz girl is cheating. Man y'all just seem like some butthurt lil kids. There are plenty of good respectable trust worthy girls. Girls cheat only if you let them. They just don't go around fucking other niggas, unless she is a super hoe, then which you shouldn't have wifed anyways.


How are you supposed to know if she's a superhoe or not ?
Girls hide things .

& lol @ girls only cheat when you let them .
Being possessive only makes things worse , it doesn't matter how good looking or bad looking you look .
In human nature we find other people appealing .

80% of girls in America are sluts , you just can't tell because you're brainwashed by Hollywood .
September 20, 2012 @ 03:52 PM
$$$$$

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Location: NY

shut the fuck up niggas. Just because ya girl was a hoe and cheated on you doesn't mean every girl is or that @hndlz girl is cheating. Man y'all just seem like some butthurt lil kids. There are plenty of good respectable trust worthy girls. Girls cheat only if you let them. They just don't go around fucking other niggas, unless she is a super hoe, then which you shouldn't have wifed anyways.


How are you supposed to know if she's a superhoe or not ?
Girls hide things .

& lol @ girls only cheat when you let them .
Being possessive only makes things worse , it doesn't matter how good looking or bad looking you look .
In human nature we find other people appealing .

80% of girls in America are sluts , you just can't tell because you're brainwashed by Hollywood .



lol how old are you? How many girls have you talked to?
You know nothing. I never said be possessive, but if a girl respects you, and loves you, she won't cheat on you. 80% of American girls are sluts??? Lmfao you know American girls are known for being not as casual with sex as European and other girls right? You seem like some whiney teenager who got cheated on by his only girlfriend and just said fuck love. Like I said before, there are sluts, but there are also plenty of nice girls out there. If you can't tell which is which after talking to them for while, then i cant help you.
September 20, 2012 @ 03:56 PM
Pantic

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I need a lil advice here, not a relationship but i hooked up with this girl at the club some time ago, took her out back trying to smash but she didn't let me go all the way and i couldn't take her home cause i was with my boys in another town and had to sleep there. Now afterwards we've been talking a little but she's giving me the whole sweet girl deal, and made quite an effort in telling me how drunk she was. Now my take on this is that she is embarrased because we don't really know each other but still interested. I need some help on how to make her come out of her shell and show that freaky side again.
September 20, 2012 @ 04:01 PM
$$$$$

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Location: NY

Take her out and get her drunk again duh.
September 20, 2012 @ 04:05 PM
Pantic

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Location: cold north

I'm too busy for that, i want to make her invite me over for the D
September 20, 2012 @ 04:05 PM
traggi

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Location: Houston

I need a lil advice here, not a relationship but i hooked up with this girl at the club some time ago, took her out back trying to smash but she didn't let me go all the way and i couldn't take her home cause i was with my boys in another town and had to sleep there. Now afterwards we've been talking a little but she's giving me the whole sweet girl deal, and made quite an effort in telling me how drunk she was. Now my take on this is that she is embarrased because we don't really know each other but still interested. I need some help on how to make her come out of her shell and show that freaky side again.


You were at a club bruh. 95% chance she WAS drunk. Don't take club behavior as normal behavior. Ever.
September 20, 2012 @ 04:31 PM
justinslayer

Post: 450

Join Date: Jul 2012

I need a lil advice here, not a relationship but i hooked up with this girl at the club some time ago, took her out back trying to smash but she didn't let me go all the way and i couldn't take her home cause i was with my boys in another town and had to sleep there. Now afterwards we've been talking a little but she's giving me the whole sweet girl deal, and made quite an effort in telling me how drunk she was. Now my take on this is that she is embarrased because we don't really know each other but still interested. I need some help on how to make her come out of her shell and show that freaky side again.


She was intoxicated bro , she didn't know wtf she was talking about .
September 20, 2012 @ 04:45 PM
Pantic

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Location: cold north

Nah dude's you mistake me for a rookie. She wasn't that drunk and we were outside for a good 3 hours together before i left her at her girlfriends crib, nobody stays super drunk after that. Plus i just gave her my number and she hit my up the day after and is still being flirty and interested, just that she was busy "excusing" her behaviour. She wants me to think she is a good girl but i don't want none of that.
September 20, 2012 @ 09:54 PM
.AG23.

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Location: I still hate missy.

Nah dude's you mistake me for a rookie. She wasn't that drunk and we were outside for a good 3 hours together before i left her at her girlfriends crib, nobody stays super drunk after that. Plus i just gave her my number and she hit my up the day after and is still being flirty and interested, just that she was busy "excusing" her behaviour. She wants me to think she is a good girl but i don't want none of that.


you guys saying she was too drunk or either being sarcastic or a just fucking rookies. like pantic said, all the "im drunk" shit is just excusing behavior
September 20, 2012 @ 10:14 PM
traggi

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Location: Houston

Nah dude's you mistake me for a rookie. She wasn't that drunk and we were outside for a good 3 hours together before i left her at her girlfriends crib, nobody stays super drunk after that. Plus i just gave her my number and she hit my up the day after and is still being flirty and interested, just that she was busy "excusing" her behaviour. She wants me to think she is a good girl but i don't want none of that.


If all you're looking for is some pussy then on to the next one, both of you are wasting time on each other otherwise.
September 21, 2012 @ 01:53 AM
JEANPAULDAVINCI

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question. do some girls act bad or act like some bitches in front of you to hide their feelings for you?
September 21, 2012 @ 02:10 AM
slytendencies

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Location: LA

question. do some girls act bad or act like some bitches in front of you to hide their feelings for you?


If she texts you or you guys are alone and she acts normal and flirty then yes I have known some girls that tend to do that.
September 21, 2012 @ 02:17 AM
rumee24

Post: 402

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Location: California

question. do some girls act bad or act like some bitches in front of you to hide their feelings for you?

I know some girls that won't talk to you when they're with friends but then just like get mad when you try to leave even if they're ignoring you.
September 21, 2012 @ 02:43 AM
JEANPAULDAVINCI

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nah b i barely know her so i dont know if shes acting like a bitch to get my attention or she is a striaght up bitch
September 21, 2012 @ 02:45 AM
traggi

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Location: Houston

nah b i barely know her so i dont know if shes acting like a bitch to get my attention or she is a striaght up bitch


Either way, avoid that shit nigga. IF she does like you and she's already sending mixed signals you need to boot that bitch. Aint gonna get no better in the future.
September 21, 2012 @ 03:30 AM
.AG23.

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Location: I still hate missy.

traggi coming through with that no experience advice though...
September 21, 2012 @ 03:36 AM
traggi

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Location: Houston

traggi coming through with that no experience advice though...


How do you know I have no experience, exactly?

That's not dating experience anyways. That's general person experience. If someone is playing games you don't become their friend or significant other regardless.
September 30, 2012 @ 03:58 AM
JEANPAULDAVINCI

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1. Saying “I love you” immediately before, during, or following sex doesn’t count.

2. Real men drive stick shift.

3. I will leave if you lie.

4. You are cute in raglan-sleeved T-shirts (two-toned baseball undershirts).

5. I’m convinced I’m pregnant and obsess about it for a minimum of 24 to 48 hours before my period, even when I have no rational reason to think so.

6. I love it when you hug me from behind and whisper in my ear.

7. “Fine” is never an appropriate response when I ask you how I look.

8. Most of the time when I fantasize, it’s about you.

9. I’m terrified of becoming my mother, even though I admire her.

10. I get turned on simply seeing that I have an e-mail from you.


11. I expect you to call me.

12. Only rock stars are allowed to wear leather pants.

13. I’m scared of losing my independence.

14. I’m more forgiving of you than I really should be.

15. Oral sex is your get-out-of-the-doghouse-free card. Manolo Blahnik shoes also do the trick.

16. You did something bad. I seem cool with it. I’m not. (See directly above.)

17. If I’m not having sex with you, I’m… a.) …having a fat day. b.) …not feeling “connected” to you. c.) …blackmailing you to get something I want.

18. Shoes determine whether you’re fashionable or not.

19. I own a Debbie Gibson CD, and I’m not afraid to use it.

20. When I compare my flabby tummy to a kangaroo pouch, say nothing.

21. A man I love plans the occasional fancy-schmancy dress-up date and impromptu weekend getaways, and he buys my favorite candy in advance when we’re just going to the movies.

22. You look hot in hooded clothing items.

23. You should never tell me what to do.

24. If I slept over, you owe me breakfast.

25. My breasts love much licking and sucking.

26. If you ask me out directly, I will say yes.

27. I’m very impressed when you ask for my advice.

28. I’m unimpressed with a man who doesn’t take the lead.

29. When in doubt, go with the shirt that matches your eye color.

30. I want to be Madonna.

31. Women get urinary-tract infections easily, so watch (and wash) your fingers.

32. I’m in heaven when you hold my hand.

33. You’re sexy when you’re shaving, fixing things, wearing a white T-shirt and jeans, driving, eating a peach, holding a baby.

34. I need to hear how you feel about me. Often. Tell me now.

35. Surprises, especially gifts for moi = more loving.

36. I want to be the best thing that ever happened to you–and for you to recognize this.

37. If I’m not feeling loved, I will start looking….

38. Discussion of ex-gf’s and ex-bf’s should be avoided at all times.

39. I like it when you tell me what you’re thinking, even if you don’t know yourself.

40. Celebrating our anniversary, even if it’s only been a few months, earns major bonus points.

41. I love it when you’re sweaty.

42. It’s best to consult your gal pals for gift ideas.

43. A lady should always be greeted with kisses.

44. I like porn.

45. I love holding your bum in the palms of my hands.

46. Even nice girls like hushed dirty talk in public.

47. It’s cheating as soon as you’re doing something with her that you wouldn’t want me to see, hear, read…

48. For the record: I’d rather you break up with me than cheat.

49. I remember everything about our relationship.

50. You should know all this and more without my telling you.













September 30, 2012 @ 04:24 AM
backlikethat

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Join Date: Feb 2009

28. I’m unimpressed with a man who doesn’t take the lead.

is true doe... prob why my ex broke up wit me lol
September 30, 2012 @ 04:58 AM
tmwtg

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50 Things Girls Want Guys To Know


I fucking hate lists like this. Probably written by some obese bitch at a "lifestyle" magazine.
September 30, 2012 @ 05:04 AM
unoedoe

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Location: L.A.



26. If you ask me out directly, I will say yes.



Got out a ltr some time ago-aiming for dat rebound. Honest opinion on this?
September 30, 2012 @ 05:06 AM
tmwtg

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Join Date: Jun 2009



26. If you ask me out directly, I will say yes.



Got out a ltr some time ago-aiming for dat rebound. Honest opinion on this?


Read it as: Don't beat around the bush. Get the #, ask her out, go on from there.
September 30, 2012 @ 07:00 AM
M.

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Join Date: Aug 2012

Location: California

Finally found a good thread.
My 2 year 5 month relationship ended, how do I cope with things when I put everything else on the side just for her? Feels like I lost everything when I feel I made her my everything?! </3

muhstakes.tumblr.com

September 30, 2012 @ 07:24 AM
RiFF RaFF

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Location: San jose

Finally found a good thread.
My 2 year 5 month relationship ended, how do I cope with things when I put everything else on the side just for her? Feels like I lost everything when I feel I made her my everything?! </3


advice, go to a club, get fucked up and hit on as many girls as possible. if you get a girl, take her home and if even that it doesn't change your mind then idk dude.

Be about it

September 30, 2012 @ 07:54 AM
B Low Brown

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Location: Eastlake

Finally found a good thread.
My 2 year 5 month relationship ended, how do I cope with things when I put everything else on the side just for her? Feels like I lost everything when I feel I made her my everything?! </3


No matter what you do it's gonna bother you for a while, but with time you'll stop giving a fuck. That's guaranteed. The only temporary solutions is to get lots of excess money, get intoxicated, or get pussy

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September 30, 2012 @ 07:55 AM
M.

Post: 928

Join Date: Aug 2012

Location: California

Finally found a good thread.
My 2 year 5 month relationship ended, how do I cope with things when I put everything else on the side just for her? Feels like I lost everything when I feel I made her my everything?! </3


advice, go to a club, get fucked up and hit on as many girls as possible. if you get a girl, take her home and if even that it doesn't change your mind then idk dude.
The thing is, I ain't about that life. Even if I tried, I wouldn't be in the mental state to actually go with it and shit.

muhstakes.tumblr.com

September 30, 2012 @ 08:16 AM
huynh

Post: 751

Join Date: Aug 2009

Location: Vancouver

Finally found a good thread.
My 2 year 5 month relationship ended, how do I cope with things when I put everything else on the side just for her? Feels like I lost everything when I feel I made her my everything?! </3


advice, go to a club, get fucked up and hit on as many girls as possible. if you get a girl, take her home and if even that it doesn't change your mind then idk dude.
The thing is, I ain't about that life. Even if I tried, I wouldn't be in the mental state to actually go with it and shit.

You got other priorities now.
Easier said than done, I know.. but just gotta stop thinking about her.
The best way is to occupy your mind.
Work, join sports teams, join clubs if you're at school, do other shit.

some wisdom too, lol

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