-Met this girl at this party bus during the club
-Started talking, danced, and made out a couple times
-Exchange numbers and start texting
-Talked on the phone and ended up telling her, "I'm not looking for anything serious right now since I just got out of a relationship, but if something serious does happen then it happens."
-Her friend (who I'm pretty cool with) told me she's interested and she has a good feeling about me.
-I stop talking to her for a bit; cut off contact to get her to miss me
-Don't talk for a week amd some number of days
-I hit her up today because I didn't have shit to do
-I flirt with her a little and tell her we should go out on a date but she says we shouldn't kick it because she's looking for something serious and says that we should be friends
-I say I'm fine with that
Did she mean it when she said that? I'm still tryna smash so if she means what she said, how do I go about smashing?
you already fucked up by being too straight up, should just wait til she hits you up
Idk how I feel about my relationship anymore man.Being in the military and having a long distance relationship fucking sucks,but I love her and want her to be my wife one day .Me and my girl have been together since august and she hasn't told any of her friends or roommates about me,I asked her if she told her roommates that she has a man,and she said "No why would I tell them". And she isnt "In a relationship" with me on Facebook,I know that sounds childish as fuck on some high school shit,but it makes me feel like she has something to hide,or that she's still talking to her ex or some shit you know. She also rarely texts me first or calls,doesnt tell me that she misses me or nothing like she used to do,I feel like im always reaching out to her,if she loved me like she says she does then she'd make an effort. Idk man I fucking love this girl though,I've never been into a girl as hard as ive been into this one,and I want her to be around for a long time,but this last week has been making me feel like it could be coming to an end,like shes replaced me while ive been gone for these 8 months. Maybe im just looking to deep into it,and I come home in six weeks so things could be different in person,but fuck theres so much shit going through my head dude.
yo its obvious you're into her more than she is into you. man she got you wrapped up son aint good for your health b. real talk she's probably found someone already and just keeping you on the side. and besides clearly she doesnt view you guys as in a relationship. shit like this aint worth it, just end whatever it is you think you have with her