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July 28, 2012 @ 02:08 PM
Pantic

Post: 3532

Join Date: Jan 2010

Location: cold north


If you argue with your girl, leave the relationship! And if she leaves, DO NOT CHASE! LET IT COOL DOWN, OR DIP OUT THE RELATIONAHIP, fuck arguing with a bitch!

Ps. If you step down to the level of arguing with your bitch, your a bitch too. Too many bitches out there too be stuck on one.

Can i get an Amen.


Was gonna type a real response but decided against it, you are fucking stupid.
July 28, 2012 @ 03:05 PM
$$$$$

Post: 1773

Join Date: May 2011

Location: NY

northbay obviously knows nothing about relationships.

Oh and my ex texted me out of nowhere yesterday on some, "OMG I just heard this new song and I had to tell someone and I know you love music!" Next thing I know we have a full blown convo. She missin da dick cool. She's cool people and we broke up on good foot, we just didn't have time for each other, but we have always been friends, and we were each others first loves. Idk whats gonna happen, but what y'all think? Is this a good idea to stay in touch/friends?
July 28, 2012 @ 03:06 PM
Pantic

Post: 3532

Join Date: Jan 2010

Location: cold north

Only if you won't mind when she starts getting other dick, and it will happen.
July 28, 2012 @ 03:28 PM
$$$$$

Post: 1773

Join Date: May 2011

Location: NY

Only if you won't mind when she starts getting other dick, and it will happen.


Well I've pretty much been over her for a while and hooked up with other chicks since breaking up. I know she made out with a dude at a party once cause she told me trying to get me jealous or some shit. I didn't care and she got at me like wtf. Girls are crazy. But if she fucks some other dude I prolly wont care, but I wont get into a relationship with her again.
July 28, 2012 @ 03:44 PM
Pantic

Post: 3532

Join Date: Jan 2010

Location: cold north

then sure be her friend, i prefer to have a friendly relationship with exes too. It seems fake to pretend you never knew each other or whatever else you do. If you broke up nice, be nice afterwards too.
July 29, 2012 @ 02:31 AM
northbayx415

Post: 160

Join Date: Apr 2012

Location: Bay Area

@Pantic speak ya mind homie.

On the other had answer me this, where did your arguments with a bitch go? Did you resolve it? And if so did the arguments stop?

This is simply my perspective, to each their own. Real talk tho, fuck arguing with a bitch. When you see other couples arguing/friends argue, I know i aint the only one that is like "Damn, yall arguing over pointless shit"

TPTB Coming Soon!

July 29, 2012 @ 04:37 AM
Pantic

Post: 3532

Join Date: Jan 2010

Location: cold north

Arguments wont stop, some get resolved some dont. It's all about accepting that there is two people in a relationship, and there will be differences and things that needs to be resolved through arguing. The key is to understand that even if you argue, however heated it gets. You still love each other and it's just that, an argument, and it doesent affect how you feel. Sure, relationships at some point might end because you have too many arguments or a single one that gets too big. I had a relationship with a girl that i was with for the most of my life, and that ended in an argument too, but that doesent mean i changed my perspective, i still know that arguing is a part of it, if not necessary.
August 15, 2012 @ 01:00 AM
Dino Spumoni

Post: 787

Join Date: Apr 2009

Location: CT

Alright so I've been dating two girls lately, but I haven't seen one of them in two weeks and I've tried to a couple times. Last time we chilled I spent the night at her place and we boned twice (I got her off at least three times so I don't think my performance is an issue). She's given me some excuses about working and shit for not seeing me. I just texted her tonight about getting together tomorrow and she said she's too broke but she's going to this thing on Thursday night with a bunch of friends and I should go too. I told her money ain't an issue since I got her, but I might be able to make it up Thursday.

Anyway, have I been friendzoned?
August 15, 2012 @ 01:03 AM
$$$$$

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Join Date: May 2011

Location: NY

Naw i doubt it. Does she know you're talking to another girl? If she does then thats probably why she doesn't wanna see you. Or maybe ya know, she was just legitimately busy.
August 15, 2012 @ 01:14 AM
Dino Spumoni

Post: 787

Join Date: Apr 2009

Location: CT

Naw i doubt it. Does she know you're talking to another girl? If she does then thats probably why she doesn't wanna see you. Or maybe ya know, she was just legitimately busy.


OK cool. How do you think I should handle this thing on Thursday though? She said she's going up with "a bunch of friends." I'd like to go home with her again so I don't really wanna bring any friends with me, but I always have a hard time holding a girl's attention when she's surrounded by her friends (part of the reason why I think she might be trying to keep me at bay).
August 15, 2012 @ 01:28 AM
$$$$$

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Join Date: May 2011

Location: NY

if its only girls she's going with then i would pass. But if its a bunch of dudes and girls just go and have fun. Don't just foucs on her. This is a good chance to meet other people too. And ask her what she plans to do after the thing on thursday.
August 15, 2012 @ 01:30 AM
Lew

Post: 3336

Join Date: Apr 2007

Location: Los Angeles

then sure be her friend, i prefer to have a friendly relationship with exes too. It seems fake to pretend you never knew each other or whatever else you do. If you broke up nice, be nice afterwards too.
lol
August 15, 2012 @ 02:04 AM
bobby

Post: 703

Join Date: Apr 2010

edit- nvm...lifes all about figuring shit out on your own
August 15, 2012 @ 06:20 AM
freemaxb

Post: 120

Join Date: Jun 2012

Too many Simpsons in this thread man, You don't gotta read all this shit, but its real rap and will help niggas out.

It's not really the generosity factor more than it is about having certain standards and principles that you will uphold no matter what. It's more about not going for certain things and maintaining an aura of respectability around yourself. Most of these 'nice guys' do anything a female wants whenever she wants and let her act any way around them and worst of all, they stay concerned with what she thinks way too much.

What rules do you have that a female must follow if she is to deal with you? What things will you say no to? If she says, "Can I chill with my male friend this weekend? He wants to invite me to a party," what will you say? The nice guy will say something along the lines of, "Sure, I trust you baby. Go ahead and have fun." Why? Because his whole mentality is around PLEASING a woman, therefore making him her inferior. A real man will be like, "Listen, don't ask me something like that again. If you're going to deal with me, it's going to be me and you... not me, you and the male homies. If you can't respect that, we should save ourselves some time and go our separate ways because it's not going to work out."

Don't worry about how your actions just directly affect a woman's emotions. Your first goal is to maintain respect way before it is about pleasing. Realize that you are not here to cater to her emotional state. That's the problem with nice guys. They don't have a personality of their own. They sort of morph into whatever they imagine the girl they are currently in the presence of wants. They turn into butlers and do whatever it takes to 'please' her. That is following, not leading. Realize that any one woman is not that important. What what she has between her legs, billions of other beings on this planet have. What makes her important is her actual personality and morals and how she deals with you and how you connect with her.

Another key is recognizing that a woman fits into YOUR program. You don't fit into hers. That's why I say have higher priorities than a woman. Have things that you are into and enjoy doing on a regular basis. These should be activities that you put ahead of rushing out to hang out with her. People like to play these phone games to give the illusion they are busy, and it works for a little while... but as with all tricks, tactics and routines, it falls apart. GENUINELY make yourself busy. You might tell your woman, "I'm about to be out here hunting, so I won't be back until 9 tonight." She will sit there and think about you, wondering what you're doing. The 'nice guy' will sit at home wondering what she is doing and waiting up on her. In other words, playing the role of a woman. Women want to wait up on a man, not the other way around. Don't be no koala bear and stay all on a woman's back.

So with that said, your life should be enjoyable way before you start dealing with a woman. Maybe you like hunting, working out, relaxing at a lounge, bowling, playing the guitar, writing or whatever. Focus on enjoying your life FIRST. Focus on handling your priorities FIRST. When you do that, you are naturally LEADING. You end up being a way more interesting person in general because you have things you like to do and are able to expose her to a new world.

If you take a woman out, either she likes it or she doesn't. If she doesn't, don't try to rearrange things next time and please her. Find another woman that's into what you're into. A woman is supposed to follow up behind the man, not the other way around. A key realization most nice guys fail to make is that not every woman, especially a pretty woman, is for you. If you take her out somewhere and she doesn't like it and is whining and complaining, that's highly likely to be a female you don't want to be dealing with.

One of the key things women love is CONFIDENCE. You can't develop real confidence by being a woman appeaser. You can never read a woman's mind and know what she wants. She doesn't even know what she wants. Therefore, you are shooting in the dark and you cannot develop confidence on such instability. By doing your own thing and focusing on your OWN interests, you can be WAY more confident, because you actually know what you want. How that transfers into dealing with the woman is that you now maintain control. Instead of saying something like, "Baby, what movie would you like to see? And would you like to go to a dinner too? And what restaurant?" you can say, "Say baby, I'm going bowling tonight. Come on out with me... and after we gonna hit up the steakhouse after." Or you can flip it up, get her input, and yet still maintain control of the situation... "So after we go bowling, we gonna go out to eat. I want you to pick a restaurant that's a little different than our usual."



None of that involves not being nice, but what it does involve is not being a punk. Women don't like punks, followers and men that lack confidence. A leader maintains control without being controlling. That's what you have to do as a man. As much as this feminism nonsense has flooded society, talking about that 50/50 men and women are completely equal nonsense, women naturally gravitate towards men they look up to and can respect and feel safe around. If all of these women wanted complete equals, they'd go mess with other women.

Negroes got brainwashed with television, rnb, and just a host of other material that promoted sucker behavior. Then they get these expectations of the kind of guy they should be, which is this goofy, appeasing character, and they find out it doesn't work and get bitter. Disappointment is the gap between one's expectations and reality. You were brainwashed with an unrealistic image of what a man should be and you get disappointed when reality doesn't reward that false image of manhood. That's why I don't really watch television, nor do I listen to RnB music that much unless it's grooving. That slow, sappy, whiny RnB is a no-go with me.

THIS is why women usually go for 'thugs' over the 'nice guys.' The thugs embody many more of these characteristics than the 'nice guy'. They don't care about what a woman thinks and they go out and do their own thing. They can take control and demonstrate their strength. They can expose a woman to a whole new world she hasn't seen before. You too can do all these things and yet maintain your generosity. Stop letting these women change you around and LEAD and LIVE. Stop trying to please women and instead focus on finding the one who naturally finds pleasure with the way you live your life.
August 15, 2012 @ 06:58 AM
rocket909

Post: 25

Join Date: May 2012

Too many Simpsons in this thread man, You don't gotta read all this shit, but its real rap and will help niggas out.

It's not really the generosity factor more than it is about having certain standards and principles that you will uphold no matter what. It's more about not going for certain things and maintaining an aura of respectability around yourself. Most of these 'nice guys' do anything a female wants whenever she wants and let her act any way around them and worst of all, they stay concerned with what she thinks way too much.

What rules do you have that a female must follow if she is to deal with you? What things will you say no to? If she says, "Can I chill with my male friend this weekend? He wants to invite me to a party," what will you say? The nice guy will say something along the lines of, "Sure, I trust you baby. Go ahead and have fun." Why? Because his whole mentality is around PLEASING a woman, therefore making him her inferior. A real man will be like, "Listen, don't ask me something like that again. If you're going to deal with me, it's going to be me and you... not me, you and the male homies. If you can't respect that, we should save ourselves some time and go our separate ways because it's not going to work out."

Don't worry about how your actions just directly affect a woman's emotions. Your first goal is to maintain respect way before it is about pleasing. Realize that you are not here to cater to her emotional state. That's the problem with nice guys. They don't have a personality of their own. They sort of morph into whatever they imagine the girl they are currently in the presence of wants. They turn into butlers and do whatever it takes to 'please' her. That is following, not leading. Realize that any one woman is not that important. What what she has between her legs, billions of other beings on this planet have. What makes her important is her actual personality and morals and how she deals with you and how you connect with her.

Another key is recognizing that a woman fits into YOUR program. You don't fit into hers. That's why I say have higher priorities than a woman. Have things that you are into and enjoy doing on a regular basis. These should be activities that you put ahead of rushing out to hang out with her. People like to play these phone games to give the illusion they are busy, and it works for a little while... but as with all tricks, tactics and routines, it falls apart. GENUINELY make yourself busy. You might tell your woman, "I'm about to be out here hunting, so I won't be back until 9 tonight." She will sit there and think about you, wondering what you're doing. The 'nice guy' will sit at home wondering what she is doing and waiting up on her. In other words, playing the role of a woman. Women want to wait up on a man, not the other way around. Don't be no koala bear and stay all on a woman's back.

So with that said, your life should be enjoyable way before you start dealing with a woman. Maybe you like hunting, working out, relaxing at a lounge, bowling, playing the guitar, writing or whatever. Focus on enjoying your life FIRST. Focus on handling your priorities FIRST. When you do that, you are naturally LEADING. You end up being a way more interesting person in general because you have things you like to do and are able to expose her to a new world.

If you take a woman out, either she likes it or she doesn't. If she doesn't, don't try to rearrange things next time and please her. Find another woman that's into what you're into. A woman is supposed to follow up behind the man, not the other way around. A key realization most nice guys fail to make is that not every woman, especially a pretty woman, is for you. If you take her out somewhere and she doesn't like it and is whining and complaining, that's highly likely to be a female you don't want to be dealing with.

One of the key things women love is CONFIDENCE. You can't develop real confidence by being a woman appeaser. You can never read a woman's mind and know what she wants. She doesn't even know what she wants. Therefore, you are shooting in the dark and you cannot develop confidence on such instability. By doing your own thing and focusing on your OWN interests, you can be WAY more confident, because you actually know what you want. How that transfers into dealing with the woman is that you now maintain control. Instead of saying something like, "Baby, what movie would you like to see? And would you like to go to a dinner too? And what restaurant?" you can say, "Say baby, I'm going bowling tonight. Come on out with me... and after we gonna hit up the steakhouse after." Or you can flip it up, get her input, and yet still maintain control of the situation... "So after we go bowling, we gonna go out to eat. I want you to pick a restaurant that's a little different than our usual."



None of that involves not being nice, but what it does involve is not being a punk. Women don't like punks, followers and men that lack confidence. A leader maintains control without being controlling. That's what you have to do as a man. As much as this feminism nonsense has flooded society, talking about that 50/50 men and women are completely equal nonsense, women naturally gravitate towards men they look up to and can respect and feel safe around. If all of these women wanted complete equals, they'd go mess with other women.

Negroes got brainwashed with television, rnb, and just a host of other material that promoted sucker behavior. Then they get these expectations of the kind of guy they should be, which is this goofy, appeasing character, and they find out it doesn't work and get bitter. Disappointment is the gap between one's expectations and reality. You were brainwashed with an unrealistic image of what a man should be and you get disappointed when reality doesn't reward that false image of manhood. That's why I don't really watch television, nor do I listen to RnB music that much unless it's grooving. That slow, sappy, whiny RnB is a no-go with me.

THIS is why women usually go for 'thugs' over the 'nice guys.' The thugs embody many more of these characteristics than the 'nice guy'. They don't care about what a woman thinks and they go out and do their own thing. They can take control and demonstrate their strength. They can expose a woman to a whole new world she hasn't seen before. You too can do all these things and yet maintain your generosity. Stop letting these women change you around and LEAD and LIVE. Stop trying to please women and instead focus on finding the one who naturally finds pleasure with the way you live your life.

TRUTH!. I'm a simpson, got no hobby and no life. study all day.
August 15, 2012 @ 01:54 PM
unoedoe

Post: 341

Join Date: Jul 2012

Too many Simpsons in this thread man, You don't gotta read all this shit, but its real rap and will help niggas out.

It's not really the generosity factor more than it is about having certain standards and principles that you will uphold no matter what. It's more about not going for certain things and maintaining an aura of respectability around yourself. Most of these 'nice guys' do anything a female wants whenever she wants and let her act any way around them and worst of all, they stay concerned with what she thinks way too much.

What rules do you have that a female must follow if she is to deal with you? What things will you say no to? If she says, "Can I chill with my male friend this weekend? He wants to invite me to a party," what will you say? The nice guy will say something along the lines of, "Sure, I trust you baby. Go ahead and have fun." Why? Because his whole mentality is around PLEASING a woman, therefore making him her inferior. A real man will be like, "Listen, don't ask me something like that again. If you're going to deal with me, it's going to be me and you... not me, you and the male homies. If you can't respect that, we should save ourselves some time and go our separate ways because it's not going to work out."

Don't worry about how your actions just directly affect a woman's emotions. Your first goal is to maintain respect way before it is about pleasing. Realize that you are not here to cater to her emotional state. That's the problem with nice guys. They don't have a personality of their own. They sort of morph into whatever they imagine the girl they are currently in the presence of wants. They turn into butlers and do whatever it takes to 'please' her. That is following, not leading. Realize that any one woman is not that important. What what she has between her legs, billions of other beings on this planet have. What makes her important is her actual personality and morals and how she deals with you and how you connect with her.

Another key is recognizing that a woman fits into YOUR program. You don't fit into hers. That's why I say have higher priorities than a woman. Have things that you are into and enjoy doing on a regular basis. These should be activities that you put ahead of rushing out to hang out with her. People like to play these phone games to give the illusion they are busy, and it works for a little while... but as with all tricks, tactics and routines, it falls apart. GENUINELY make yourself busy. You might tell your woman, "I'm about to be out here hunting, so I won't be back until 9 tonight." She will sit there and think about you, wondering what you're doing. The 'nice guy' will sit at home wondering what she is doing and waiting up on her. In other words, playing the role of a woman. Women want to wait up on a man, not the other way around. Don't be no koala bear and stay all on a woman's back.

So with that said, your life should be enjoyable way before you start dealing with a woman. Maybe you like hunting, working out, relaxing at a lounge, bowling, playing the guitar, writing or whatever. Focus on enjoying your life FIRST. Focus on handling your priorities FIRST. When you do that, you are naturally LEADING. You end up being a way more interesting person in general because you have things you like to do and are able to expose her to a new world.

If you take a woman out, either she likes it or she doesn't. If she doesn't, don't try to rearrange things next time and please her. Find another woman that's into what you're into. A woman is supposed to follow up behind the man, not the other way around. A key realization most nice guys fail to make is that not every woman, especially a pretty woman, is for you. If you take her out somewhere and she doesn't like it and is whining and complaining, that's highly likely to be a female you don't want to be dealing with.

One of the key things women love is CONFIDENCE. You can't develop real confidence by being a woman appeaser. You can never read a woman's mind and know what she wants. She doesn't even know what she wants. Therefore, you are shooting in the dark and you cannot develop confidence on such instability. By doing your own thing and focusing on your OWN interests, you can be WAY more confident, because you actually know what you want. How that transfers into dealing with the woman is that you now maintain control. Instead of saying something like, "Baby, what movie would you like to see? And would you like to go to a dinner too? And what restaurant?" you can say, "Say baby, I'm going bowling tonight. Come on out with me... and after we gonna hit up the steakhouse after." Or you can flip it up, get her input, and yet still maintain control of the situation... "So after we go bowling, we gonna go out to eat. I want you to pick a restaurant that's a little different than our usual."



None of that involves not being nice, but what it does involve is not being a punk. Women don't like punks, followers and men that lack confidence. A leader maintains control without being controlling. That's what you have to do as a man. As much as this feminism nonsense has flooded society, talking about that 50/50 men and women are completely equal nonsense, women naturally gravitate towards men they look up to and can respect and feel safe around. If all of these women wanted complete equals, they'd go mess with other women.

Negroes got brainwashed with television, rnb, and just a host of other material that promoted sucker behavior. Then they get these expectations of the kind of guy they should be, which is this goofy, appeasing character, and they find out it doesn't work and get bitter. Disappointment is the gap between one's expectations and reality. You were brainwashed with an unrealistic image of what a man should be and you get disappointed when reality doesn't reward that false image of manhood. That's why I don't really watch television, nor do I listen to RnB music that much unless it's grooving. That slow, sappy, whiny RnB is a no-go with me.

THIS is why women usually go for 'thugs' over the 'nice guys.' The thugs embody many more of these characteristics than the 'nice guy'. They don't care about what a woman thinks and they go out and do their own thing. They can take control and demonstrate their strength. They can expose a woman to a whole new world she hasn't seen before. You too can do all these things and yet maintain your generosity. Stop letting these women change you around and LEAD and LIVE. Stop trying to please women and instead focus on finding the one who naturally finds pleasure with the way you live your life.


just got out a ltr. better late than never on this info its golden
August 28, 2012 @ 02:24 PM
encore818

Post: 614

Join Date: Apr 2012

Location: Cali

I'm in love again boys cool cool
August 28, 2012 @ 03:22 PM
truuuchainz

Post: 593

Join Date: Jul 2012

flex ruger spit some fuckin gold out
August 28, 2012 @ 06:40 PM
tronwin

Post: 150

Join Date: Aug 2012

Alright so this is all real talk.
I dated this girl for a good two years back in high school and it was good while it lasted. She was pretty much my first everything. We smashed on the daily. But once moving into college came around, I wanted to break it off because that long distance relationship shit isn't my forte. That didn't end well. She was totally in love with me, like infatuated. After days and days of fucking arguing, I was finally able to break up with her. Once I got to college we would talk online or on the phone here and there only because she would contact me, but it slowed down as the year went on.

But here comes Thanksgiving break, I go home, she comes over unannounced, we smash almost everyday of the break.

Here comes Christmas break, I go home, she comes over, we smash.

Spring break, home, comes over, smash...

So yeah, we did this same routine over the summer as well and I don't go back to school for another 3 weeks. I don't know if having a regular fuck buddy is normal, but I think this is starting to get out of hand. I don't want her to get the idea that we are getting back together. I really just want to end it in good terms, she is one of my best friends. But I can't think of a way to let her down without completely hurting her feelings. Advice fam?
August 28, 2012 @ 07:02 PM
JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

Post: 3102

Join Date: May 2011

Location: Vashtie\'s Room

^^ if you want it to end stop fucking and lose contact tell her "i just dont want to keep this going, there is no future for us both you an i know this" and that should be the end of it. Don't give into her crying and yelling bullshit just leave and let go. Don't become attached to anything in life. Thats your only way bruh

:)

September 1, 2012 @ 09:30 AM
Jollibee.

Post: 2176

Join Date: Apr 2012

Met a cute white chick at the cafeteria in my college. Shes those bible jesus type people and we were having conversations but i had to go to my class and forget to get her name. She did invite me to this bible thing cause she gave me a flyer but shit is far. so question is, how do i deal with girls like these? What should i do? Always talk about jesus and god and how great they are? Go with her at church gatherings? I heard stories that the religious christian girls are the ones that are DTF or wild. iuno. Help out a college freshman here yo.
September 1, 2012 @ 09:51 AM
veryrareandbased

Post: 2720

Join Date: Aug 2012

Location: Where Drake be at

Will keep this short.

I care and like this girl a lot. We had a thing going on for a couple of months but fought a lot. She ended up cutting me off. We havent spoken/seen eachother for about 7 months now. The feelings are still there for her for sure and I truly seen a future with this girl.

So the advice I need from y'all that might've went through this before. Should I try again some how or just lay it to rest & stop.

#HANSUMBOYZ / "I mean I just wanted the pussy tbh."- Thad #FREETHAD

September 1, 2012 @ 10:10 AM
流行のダチ

suspended

Post: 783

Join Date: Aug 2010

Maybe you should man the fuck up?
September 1, 2012 @ 04:17 PM
RawShack

Post: 1554

Join Date: Jul 2008

Will keep this short.

I care and like this girl a lot. We had a thing going on for a couple of months but fought a lot. She ended up cutting me off. We havent spoken/seen eachother for about 7 months now. The feelings are still there for her for sure and I truly seen a future with this girl.

So the advice I need from y'all that might've went through this before. Should I try again some how or just lay it to rest & stop.


if she worth it then go for it, but since she cut you off iono how's that gonna go. but i'm kinda on the same boat as you, except i'm in between lay it it to rest and try again.
September 1, 2012 @ 06:09 PM
YK

Post: 2465

Join Date: May 2011

Location: Philly

I honestly have no idea why im coming back here for advice, considering about 10 months ago you guys told me I wasnt going to be able to start dating my current girlfriend. Short story, Its been 9 months and tomorrow shes going off to college, about 6 hours away. Im not here to hear how she willl be un faithful because I know she wont cheat. Im here for some tips on how to make a long distance reelationship work and how to keep her from loosing feelings for me andd gaining feeling for someone else. I will probabaly only see her once a month, besides in december where she will be home for the whole month. Please no trolling, just looking for some advice.

Thanks in advance

where the azn girls at

September 1, 2012 @ 06:16 PM
tmwtg

Post: 3096

Join Date: Jun 2009

Will keep this short.

I care and like this girl a lot. We had a thing going on for a couple of months but fought a lot. She ended up cutting me off. We havent spoken/seen eachother for about 7 months now. The feelings are still there for her for sure and I truly seen a future with this girl.

So the advice I need from y'all that might've went through this before. Should I try again some how or just lay it to rest & stop.


She cut you off and hasn't contacted you since while you still have feelings?

Time to move on, my man.
September 1, 2012 @ 07:25 PM
backlikethat

Post: 5231

Join Date: Feb 2009

Will keep this short.

I care and like this girl a lot. We had a thing going on for a couple of months but fought a lot. She ended up cutting me off. We havent spoken/seen eachother for about 7 months now. The feelings are still there for her for sure and I truly seen a future with this girl.

So the advice I need from y'all that might've went through this before. Should I try again some how or just lay it to rest & stop.


She cut you off and hasn't contacted you since while you still have feelings?

Time to move on, my man.


this.
September 1, 2012 @ 07:33 PM
Jollibee.

Post: 2176

Join Date: Apr 2012

Met a cute white chick at the cafeteria in my college. Shes those bible jesus type people and we were having conversations but i had to go to my class and forget to get her name. She did invite me to this bible thing cause she gave me a flyer but shit is far. so question is, how do i deal with girls like these? What should i do? Always talk about jesus and god and how great they are? Go with her at church gatherings? I heard stories that the religious christian girls are the ones that are DTF or wild. iuno. Help out a college freshman here yo.

bump.
September 1, 2012 @ 08:17 PM
B Low Brown

Post: 5492

Join Date: Mar 2010

Location: Eastlake

Don't act like youre on some i love Jesus shit if you aren't. Ive has sexual encounters with girls that go to all kinds of bible studies and shit and they know Im an asshole and cuss and don't really pay much mind to organized religion

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September 1, 2012 @ 08:22 PM
B Low Brown

Post: 5492

Join Date: Mar 2010

Location: Eastlake

I honestly have no idea why im coming back here for advice, considering about 10 months ago you guys told me I wasnt going to be able to start dating my current girlfriend. Short story, Its been 9 months and tomorrow shes going off to college, about 6 hours away. Im not here to hear how she willl be un faithful because I know she wont cheat. Im here for some tips on how to make a long distance reelationship work and how to keep her from loosing feelings for me andd gaining feeling for someone else. I will probabaly only see her once a month, besides in december where she will be home for the whole month. Please no trolling, just looking for some advice.

Thanks in advance


2 words: VIDEO CHAT

Texting/calling alone won't be enough bro. Face time her, Skype, something where you can see her face.


Trust me it'll work if you guys truly care

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