The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

April 06, 2012 @ 04:07:04
Well the boyfriend can't be too mad at you, or shouldn't be at least...his girl is the one who strayed. But ya you shouldn't have done anything but she did come to your pad.
April 06, 2012 @ 04:11:00
word let the hoe be a hoe and continue to get in that ass b
April 06, 2012 @ 04:35:11
^ i don't know the boyfriend but i just found out he a hypebeast pinoy dude, guy is everything i despise,so i don't even feel bad anymore. He be one of those typical tumblr faggots
April 06, 2012 @ 05:48:43
did u lay the pipe
April 06, 2012 @ 06:00:51
Lol this guy, you don't feel bad anymore because he's a hypebeast pinoy? Dumb reason. She's still his girl son, still should be some respect there.
April 06, 2012 @ 06:17:41

Inactive User

Ex-girlfriend hits me up asking for favor, sure, im no dick of a boyfriend, why not. Her favor was to bring her to work two days in a row. I had no problem, I was being nice. (prior to her asking me, she broke up with me and i decided i didnt want to talk to her) . So this past two days, I've been kicking it with her, and shes starts telling me shit like im a good guy, she still loves me, I will always be the one. Im like, okay, cool, then why the fuck did you break up with me? (ive been keeping my cool and tried staying as humble as possible about the situation) The girl can't say shit. She likes another dude, and shes been blowing twitter like a shit about this dude, so i blocked her ass to stop receiving tweets from her on my phone. Anyway, I gave her my ultimatum and texted her this long ass paragrah that practically explains what i feel and that i hope she sees it, I told her I'm not going to fight for her back, im just informing her. i told her, choose me or this new kat, either one, I will respect it. Im cool being friends with her but i told her, Im not going to have communication with her for 1 months so i can get the fuck over her. I think I'm being the most mature here....aren't i?
April 06, 2012 @ 06:26:24
Lol this guy, you don't feel bad anymore because he's a hypebeast pinoy? Dumb reason. She's still his girl son, still should be some respect there.


did u lay the pipe


nah and yea
April 06, 2012 @ 06:40:38
Yo there's this girl I've been talking to for about a couple weeks and
We chill often took her out on a couple dates and shit but the thing is she's
Moving away in August should a nigga try and date her or just leave it as friends only
Type of thing
April 06, 2012 @ 08:28:06

Inactive User

smash dude.
April 06, 2012 @ 10:01:02
Ok so I'm friends with this girl. I met her at the beginning of the school year and we became friends. At the time she had a boyfriend and I never even thought of trying to make a move. So eventually she breaks up with her dude and she starts giving me heavy signals. Then one day we were chilling, drinking and shit and I put my hand on her leg. She grabs my hand and puts it right on her pussy. She whispered in my ear that she wanted to fuck but she didn't want to be my first (I know, I'm in college and shit is kind of embarrassing). But then she's like "you wanna go back to my place" so of course I did. Anyway, I'm chillin on her couch and her roommate was there so she was like I'm sorry so and so is here. But before that I hear her tell her roommate she brought a guy home but she's gonna tell me to leave. So as I'm leaving, her roommate comes out and is like "who's the guy" and she sees me and calls her a douchebag (Don't know what the fuck that means). I'm friends with her roommate to so I have know idea what that means. So the day after we talk about it and she goes on about how I deserve someone better and blah blah blah. So whatever we remain friends but then one day we were at a party and I kind of rub her leg and this bitch fuckin flips out. Saying I'm an asshole and a bunch of other crazy shit and that i didn't deserve to talk to her. Whatever that shit blew over and we're friends again. But the thing is this bitch keeps giving me signals but then contradicts herself and throws random shit and saying I'm to innocent for her and shit. I guess long story short, should I even keep trying or should I let this whole topic die? This whole thing has basically happened over this semester.

I know. Sorry for the essay.
April 06, 2012 @ 22:11:39

Inactive User

that girl is on that bipolar syndrome bro. steer away. be her friend, let her make the moves. even if she says she wants to fuck tell her to text it first so you got proof that she started shit. Be the same around her as if she has a boyfriend, if she starts rubbing up on you thats when you pull the clutch and SMASH!
April 06, 2012 @ 22:18:18
Even better, ditch her totally.
Being friends with girls is a waste of time. Every second spend talking to a friend you could spend trying to make a move on some new chick that hasn't already dropped the idea of having sex with you, and being friends with chicks is boring anyways.
April 07, 2012 @ 02:23:31

Inactive User

^^^this nigga got the right recipe though. My approach is different, befriend one and youre in her little click, from there branch out my nigga.
April 07, 2012 @ 06:50:58
I got you guys man. The only thing keeping me in contact with her is because we were friends before. But honestly, stopping being friends with her seems like the best idea at this point. But WOA! You do have a point man. She started this whole fuckin thing and she tried to flip it on me.

Edit: honestly fuck this hoe after what she did tonight.
April 07, 2012 @ 07:33:26
Even better, ditch her totally.
Being friends with girls is a waste of time. Every second spend talking to a friend you could spend trying to make a move on some new chick that hasn't already dropped the idea of having sex with you, and being friends with chicks is boring anyways.


word girl friends are wack as fuck
April 07, 2012 @ 07:52:00

Inactive User

Originally posted by Inactive User
I got you guys man. The only thing keeping me in contact with her is because we were friends before. But honestly, stopping being friends with her seems like the best idea at this point. But WOA! You do have a point man. She started this whole fuckin thing and she tried to flip it on me.

Edit: honestly fuck this hoe after what she did tonight.


now, do everything she hates and smile brotha. she'll miss you and if she really wants something serious or whatever she'll be crawling back. bitches be thinking we're stupid folk, theres a reason why males are on top of the food chain.
April 13, 2012 @ 03:59:09
Alright I apologize in advance for the long post.

Aight so this girl and I have been on and off a few times and each time we're over it's because she's changed or I think she used me or some shit like that. So her and I had been friends and started getting really close. She started sending me pics and we were gonna meet up and do shit and everything was going great. Then she says she can't do this anymore because she feels guilty since her best friend is obsessed with me. Then we went back to friends and I find out from my best friend that she was talking to him and said she wants to hook up with him. (He hates her but decided to talk to her just to mess with her) So I'm pissed and talk to her and she goes off apologizing to me and says she'll make it up to me and that she wants to talk to me for 10 minutes and make everything right. She never made any effort to speak to me and eventually ignores my texts for a week. I told her I wanna talk and fix things but she never really showed she cared enough to fix anything. I just finished talking to her over text and said since only one of us wants to fix things, nothing will ever work. And I ended it and she seems unaffected, did I do everything right? FOr anyone who's read up to here thanks lol We're both 16 btw and go to highschool together
April 13, 2012 @ 04:08:44
Alright I apologize in advance for the long post.

Aight so this girl and I have been on and off a few times and each time we're over it's because she's changed or I think she used me or some shit like that. So her and I had been friends and started getting really close. She started sending me pics and we were gonna meet up and do shit and everything was going great. Then she says she can't do this anymore because she feels guilty since her best friend is obsessed with me. Then we went back to friends and I find out from my best friend that she was talking to him and said she wants to hook up with him. (He hates her but decided to talk to her just to mess with her) So I'm pissed and talk to her and she goes off apologizing to me and says she'll make it up to me and that she wants to talk to me for 10 minutes and make everything right. She never made any effort to speak to me and eventually ignores my texts for a week. I told her I wanna talk and fix things but she never really showed she cared enough to fix anything. I just finished talking to her over text and said since only one of us wants to fix things, nothing will ever work. And I ended it and she seems unaffected, did I do everything right? FOr anyone who's read up to here thanks lol We're both 16 btw and go to highschool together


#pinoidproblems
April 13, 2012 @ 07:19:04
Alright I've been chillin with this new girl here n there the last couple months, probly hung out like 6 times. For a while we always would be texting throughout the days, but in the last week or so she's totally slowed down on texting. We chilled last friday and she showed clear signs that she's still interested and wanted to chill again soon but after texting her monday she stopped right away and I haven't heard from her since, so like 4 days now.

So what do you guys think is up with her? I know I'm not coming off as needy so that's not the problem. Idk if shes trying to play some lame hard to get games or what. Maybe she started getting too attached and got scared and wants to back off? Anyway i can't tell and want some advice on what I should do next
April 13, 2012 @ 10:59:14
Alright I apologize in advance for the long post.

Aight so this girl and I have been on and off a few times and each time we're over it's because she's changed or I think she used me or some shit like that. So her and I had been friends and started getting really close. She started sending me pics and we were gonna meet up and do shit and everything was going great. Then she says she can't do this anymore because she feels guilty since her best friend is obsessed with me. Then we went back to friends and I find out from my best friend that she was talking to him and said she wants to hook up with him. (He hates her but decided to talk to her just to mess with her) So I'm pissed and talk to her and she goes off apologizing to me and says she'll make it up to me and that she wants to talk to me for 10 minutes and make everything right. She never made any effort to speak to me and eventually ignores my texts for a week. I told her I wanna talk and fix things but she never really showed she cared enough to fix anything. I just finished talking to her over text and said since only one of us wants to fix things, nothing will ever work. And I ended it and she seems unaffected, did I do everything right? FOr anyone who's read up to here thanks lol We're both 16 btw and go to highschool together


Sounds like she played you lol, why you wana fuck wit a bitch that wana fuck yo boy. If he got a clear shot to hit it let him hit unless you inlove with the bitch then tell yo boy and if hes really yo boy he wont hit.
My advice? forget the bitch and move on.
Alright I've been chillin with this new girl here n there the last couple months, probly hung out like 6 times. For a while we always would be texting throughout the days, but in the last week or so she's totally slowed down on texting. We chilled last friday and she showed clear signs that she's still interested and wanted to chill again soon but after texting her monday she stopped right away and I haven't heard from her since, so like 4 days now.

So what do you guys think is up with her? I know I'm not coming off as needy so that's not the problem. Idk if shes trying to play some lame hard to get games or what. Maybe she started getting too attached and got scared and wants to back off? Anyway i can't tell and want some advice on what I should do next


Sounds like shes tired of you texting her and wants to see you more face to face, just call her up and ask her to kick it. Get her to come over reassure her then lay the pipe. Or if shes skeptical about you or shes scared and backs of or whatever the best way to find out is just to ask chances are shell tell you. Then you lay the pipe for being the philisophical ass nigga that listened to her problems.

haha fag

April 14, 2012 @ 00:26:59
think she's just tired of texting to the point that she's gonna ignore me all week? lol im in college and she has school and work most of the time so there isnt much for options so that sounds like a lame excuse if thats the case

who else can throw in some input
April 14, 2012 @ 01:11:36
think she's just tired of texting to the point that she's gonna ignore me all week? lol im in college and she has school and work most of the time so there isnt much for options so that sounds like a lame excuse if thats the case

who else can throw in some input


She mighta found another nigga to talk to tbh.

Dont ever focus on one girl, that shit makes you think to hard about a bitch.
Start talkin to more bitches so if one falls off, you got others to fuck with and the ones who fell off might come back when they see other bitches wanting you.
April 17, 2012 @ 09:22:42
-Talked to a girl I always saw around but never really talked to
-Get her number and we start texting often; not a lot but often
-She would text me first
-Finally kick it after a couple days of texting
-Tells me she's interested the same night she gets home and said that she was wondering if I was interested while we were kicking it (I didn't say if I was or wasn't)
-Next night, we talk on the phone
•She says that she's gonna wake up late tomorrow
•I tell her that I'll go wake her up at her crib with some gummmi worms or some gay shit like that
•I kind of brought it up more than once for some odd reason and she sounded kind of cold to the idea
-Two days pass and we don't talk, she doesn't hit me up like she would before
-I text her and we talk for a bit
-She's drunk, says a couple of things that shows she still wants to talk to me (except for when I tried to flirt with her and she just said "mhmmmmm..." when she'd usually reply with a wink whenever I'd come on to her so bluntly), and then stops texting
-I hit her up the next day, her texts are pretty short, and she stops replying later.

Did she really lose interest, and if so, why? I'm not trying to be that creepy guy who keeps hitting her up and bothers her, should I just leave her alone? I'm trying to get her interest back if she did lose interest and I want to know how, if I can't then I'll let it be. I got other hoes but something about her keeps me attracted and shit.
April 17, 2012 @ 10:58:01
Don't give up until she calls you a horny asshole and tells you to leave her alone and/or you get a restraining order!
But yea interrest is fleeting, especially when you mainly talk over text, so it's pretty likely she lost interrest.

Thing is even if you lose her or not, work on your mindstate. Don't worry about being the "creepy guy who keeps hitting her up" instead try looking at it like "this dumb girl that wasted your time and didn't even give it up" Worry about your perspective not the girls, makes the game so much easier.
April 17, 2012 @ 19:41:02
So this girl i liked/like told me one of my guys is texting her, no one knew i liked the girl as we only hung out once and it kinda died from her side. Anyways it bugs me that my homie is making moves on her, but i don't know if i should confront the dude or just let him get it in and get over it?
April 17, 2012 @ 19:49:20
Theres this girl in my class. Who I wanna get her number and see if she wants to chill. Schools over in like 3 weeks so its 4th quarter right now and I need to go Kobe on dis. I only talked to her once and it was for like 2-3 minutes about the class. Going to talk to her tomrrow. How should I do this doe? Should I talk to her a few more times and get her number or what?
April 18, 2012 @ 01:42:48
•She says that she's gonna wake up late tomorrow
•I tell her that I'll go wake her up at her crib with some gummmi worms or some gay shit like that
•I kind of brought it up more than once for some odd reason and she sounded kind of cold to the idea


That prob creeped her out. Plus thats on some simp shit, and simping only works on insecure girls. She lost interest so just ignore her and start flirting with other girls. If she was unsure about you then she'll come running back, but if she alrdy nexted you well you're already working on other girls so it shouldn't matter.

Theres this girl in my class. Who I wanna get her number and see if she wants to chill. Schools over in like 3 weeks so its 4th quarter right now and I need to go Kobe on dis. I only talked to her once and it was for like 2-3 minutes about the class. Going to talk to her tomrrow. How should I do this doe? Should I talk to her a few more times and get her number or what?


Let her know you're interested from the beginning don't beat around the bush. You don't need to have multiple convos w her b4 you get the digits. just show interest and say you wanna get to know her more and ask for the number.
April 18, 2012 @ 06:46:40
Thanks Pantic & Exotic.

By the way, her birthday is coming up soon. I was thinking about texting her a short and simple "happy bday", see how she responds, and gauge her interest based off that... is that a good idea? Or should I just not text her happy birthday at all?
April 18, 2012 @ 06:58:10
text her something, but not happy bday, way too plain
say some funny shit
April 22, 2012 @ 00:50:43
My girlfriend called me a bitch the other day and expected me to just let it slide,I flipped the FUCK out on her and suddenly its the end of the world,and she wont answer my texts or call me. That shit seriously pissed me the fuck off and its childish as fuck,I wasnt even mad at the fact that she called me a bitch,I just felt mad disrespected by someone ive shown nothing but respect to. Ive never called her a bitch or laid my hands on her obviously,because thats how my mother raised me,and she blatantly disrespects my manhood in my FACE,then gets mad when I get mad? goddamn im so pissed yo
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