The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Damn, hearing that gets me discouraged and shit lol.
Oh well, I'll keep you guys updated as time progresses.
Much love fam.

His situation and your situation aren't even in the same ball park brah, you can salvage your's, trust me. Just keep persisting and showing her you care, the only reason she's standoffish now is because you mistreated her, don't even worry about the other dude, history and feelings shit all over the new thing she's got going now, I've seen it happen a hundred times...

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No disrespect to you, WOA, but I already told you, your situations about doing you for a bit and deciding what you really want, fam

nah bro, im probably going to kill her in my head sooner or later, after a while im going to squash everything and move on. i really don't see a point in sticking around like you said. If ever it would be to fuck here and there, but for emotional connection i doubt that will ever be the same.

Whats good,

I finished school a week ago and due to it being the last day and all i got to talking with some girls i had never really spoken with despite being in school with them for 7 years. Anyway, after talking to this one girl for a bit and then seeing her again a couple of days later I've started to develop feelings for her (no homo), the thing is she is going to university next year and im taking a year out. So basically do you think its worth getting into a relationship with someone if you know its not going to last more than a few months.

P.s i know alot of you will suggest that i just fuck her and move on, but this girl is a virgin so that would be tough, in fact i have a feeling she hasnt even kissed a dude before.

Okay so last time I was here I told y'all about this girl who first had interest in me, then stopped showing any interest not too long after we first kicked it.

We've been talking recently after we had stopped talking for about a month'ish. I haven't been able to call her or hang with her since I've been busy with school, work, and friends like I used to call her before. But we text often (pretty long paragraphs usually) and she shows high levels of interest (ex. I didn't reply to her first text of the day to me, but she hit me up the next morning and says hi again). She even calls me daddy (by request) from time to time. My approach from this time to last time hasn't been very different. Why the sudden levels of interest coming from her now? Is she just trying to see how far she can use me?

if she wants the D, why dont you just give it? Sometimes being a stereo-typical man is the way to go about things. Bitches don't understand dudes have feelings and get hurt the same. But if you have a hunch shes trying to just get the D, give it to her. If you want something serious, i mean you should try and connect with her on that level.

By "use me" I wasn't referring to sex lol. I meant use me as a confidence booster or some shit. As in just playing me or whatever. I'm just caught off guard cause she just started coming at me with high levels of interest pretty quickly when she los't interest rather quickly last time. It's just weird. When her and I kick it I'll tell y'all how that goes…

How can I fuck some of her friends without any of them tripping though? Some of her friends are pretty hot, and slutty.

Alright. Yea. this twitter stalking shit has to end. Fuck I'm pathetic.
Fuck love b.

Alright. Yea. this twitter stalking shit has to end. Fuck I'm pathetic.
Fuck love b.

like i said before about my ex who I simped on another level for. I had that first love advantage. we broke up 3 times in 3 years and everytime she was "happy" with these guys she always came back to me. She moves on mad fast too. like 2 weeks bam shes wifed up with another dude. But like I said, I always got her back until now.

Alright. Yea. this twitter stalking shit has to end. Fuck I'm pathetic.
Fuck love b.

like i said before about my ex who I simped on another level for. I had that first love advantage. we broke up 3 times in 3 years and everytime she was "happy" with these guys she always came back to me. She moves on mad fast too. like 2 weeks bam shes wifed up with another dude. But like I said, I always got her back until now.

bro. like i always say, bitches be heartless. SWEAR. I've been in that situation before. Its proof that she isn't worth it, if shes going to use you, you might as well use her too.

Yea, bitches stay heartless. The thing about this girl is that during the relationship, she loved me more than I loved her. After she left i realized how much she meant to me. I feel like these three weeks changed my outlook on relationships. Not only on that, but it changed my perspective on how important people that care for me actually are. If things go the way I hope, our relationship will be on a whole different level effort wise. /simp shit.
And to AG, why didn't it end up working out between you and her?

nah hes not dating her anymore but found emails after break up of her talking intimately to dude while they were together. Bruh is hurt and wants the other dude to know what she is about you feel me?

Damn bruh. Once a cheater always a cheater.
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Yea, bitches stay heartless. The thing about this girl is that during the relationship, she loved me more than I loved her. After she left i realized how much she meant to me. I feel like these three weeks changed my outlook on relationships. Not only on that, but it changed my perspective on how important people that care for me actually are. If things go the way I hope, our relationship will be on a whole different level effort wise. /simp shit.
And to AG, why didn't it end up working out between you and her?

she was my first everything like my sophmore year (late bloomer haha) I was shy as fuck. I broke out of my shell, got things twisted and cheated. we got back together. i was still dumb and still horny. I continued cheating. I told her what i did and said that i wanted a future with her and she needed to know the truth. We got back together. another year passes we break up because "im not putting in enough effort". back together. Fast forward to now, I find out shes hanging out with some other dude and trying to hide it. Im mad as fuck. I basically break it off out of anger. I tell her i overreacted and I still want to be together. she says no. lots of drama. that dude is now her bf.

Looking back I know i brought all this shit upon myself, but that doesnt make losing someone you love hurt any less.

Yea, bitches stay heartless. The thing about this girl is that during the relationship, she loved me more than I loved her. After she left i realized how much she meant to me. I feel like these three weeks changed my outlook on relationships. Not only on that, but it changed my perspective on how important people that care for me actually are. If things go the way I hope, our relationship will be on a whole different level effort wise. /simp shit.
And to AG, why didn't it end up working out between you and her?

she was my first everything like my sophmore year (late bloomer haha) I was shy as fuck. I broke out of my shell, got things twisted and cheated. we got back together. i was still dumb and still horny. I continued cheating. I told her what i did and said that i wanted a future with her and she needed to know the truth. We got back together. another year passes we break up because "im not putting in enough effort". back together. Fast forward to now, I find out shes hanging out with some other dude and trying to hide it. Im mad as fuck. I basically break it off out of anger. I tell her i overreacted and I still want to be together. she says no. lots of drama. that dude is now her bf.

Looking back I know i brought all this shit upon myself, but that doesnt make losing someone you love hurt any less.

know what you mean bro, I cheated on my ex 5 months in and she still doesn't know about it...now shes has gone done some shit with another dude 3 years of knowing each other. Shiit, i believe in karma, and damn it sure does hurt.

Yea, bitches stay heartless. The thing about this girl is that during the relationship, she loved me more than I loved her. After she left i realized how much she meant to me. I feel like these three weeks changed my outlook on relationships. Not only on that, but it changed my perspective on how important people that care for me actually are. If things go the way I hope, our relationship will be on a whole different level effort wise. /simp shit.
And to AG, why didn't it end up working out between you and her?

she was my first everything like my sophmore year (late bloomer haha) I was shy as fuck. I broke out of my shell, got things twisted and cheated. we got back together. i was still dumb and still horny. I continued cheating. I told her what i did and said that i wanted a future with her and she needed to know the truth. We got back together. another year passes we break up because "im not putting in enough effort". back together. Fast forward to now, I find out shes hanging out with some other dude and trying to hide it. Im mad as fuck. I basically break it off out of anger. I tell her i overreacted and I still want to be together. she says no. lots of drama. that dude is now her bf.

Looking back I know i brought all this shit upon myself, but that doesnt make losing someone you love hurt any less.

know what you mean bro, I cheated on my ex 5 months in and she still doesn't know about it...now shes has gone done some shit with another dude 3 years of knowing each other. Shiit, i believe in karma, and damn it sure does hurt.

That's fucked up, lol.
I'm gonna go talk to her tomorrow. Should I let her know I still have feelings or should I approach her as a friend?