October 4, 2009 @ 01:30 PM

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so yesterday morning my dad collapsed on his usual saturday morning jogging trail. by the time paramedics arrived, he was already dead. apparently he had congestive heart failure...an autopsy is being performed today to figure out the exact cause.

the last thing i did with my dad was argue with him on friday night. he was mad that i drove home from school around 10-11 pm because he says its not safe to drive long distances that late at night, especially when alone. i argued that nothing would ever happen to me and that hes just being his usual paranoid self.

well, the next morning, i woke up to my phone ringing. i answered and heard my mom crying and saying get to the hospital now because something has happened to my dad. i immediately rushed over, not sure what to make of all of this. i thought he simply had a heat stroke or something and that he would be ok when i got there...it was the exact opposite. i walked into the ER to find my mom on the ground screaming and crying with her brother by her side trying to calm her down. as i called my brother in berkeley to tell him to come down as soon as possible, i began crying for the first time in many years.

his body was cold...very cold. it was the first dead body i had actually ever seen...and it was my father's. i half expected him to wake up suddenly and act like nothing ever happened, but of course it was not to be.

my brother and i are taking it very well. thankfully, we are old enough to have our own goals and the determination to see them through. the only thing i am worried about is my mom. she is not taking the situation very well and cries through the night and randomly throughout the day. i am thinking about taking a quarter off just to be at home, but she told me that she doesnt want to put my academic career on hold.

so, just letting you guys know, make sure you let your parents know that you care for them. shit happens, and i never thought something like this would occur.
October 4, 2009 @ 01:33 PM

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October 4, 2009 @ 01:35 PM

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Sorry about your loss homiesad
October 4, 2009 @ 01:36 PM

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im really sorry for you sad
October 4, 2009 @ 01:36 PM
Jim Jardashian

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October 4, 2009 @ 01:36 PM

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id be so fucked if i lost one of my parents unless they died of natural causes like 40 years from now
October 4, 2009 @ 01:37 PM

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my condolences to you and yours fam. r.i.p
October 4, 2009 @ 01:39 PM

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i'm truly sorry to hear about that dude, just realize that he died lovin you and knows you loved him, so don't trip about it.

Melo Gang All Day

October 4, 2009 @ 01:40 PM

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Stay strong man. You'll see him again one day. RIP.
October 4, 2009 @ 01:41 PM

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sorry. does your bro go to cal? maybe i know him
October 4, 2009 @ 01:56 PM

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October 4, 2009 @ 01:56 PM

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damn, this shit opened my eyes. really sorry to hear that..
October 4, 2009 @ 01:58 PM

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my condolences. sad
October 4, 2009 @ 02:08 PM

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Damn Riki, sorry to hear that.
October 4, 2009 @ 02:12 PM
Capt Baho

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sorry my dude. keep looking up.
October 4, 2009 @ 02:12 PM

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I'm really sorry to hear that. Have faith in Jesus and God, and you will see him again one day. Stay strong man, and may God be with you and your family.
October 4, 2009 @ 02:15 PM

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wow, id be devastated, really sorry to hear that bro, RIP stay strong.
October 4, 2009 @ 02:20 PM

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damn keep your head up homie,
if i lost a parent i would be pretty smashed yo
October 4, 2009 @ 02:21 PM

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damn zzz ma boy sorry to hear this shit yo.
October 4, 2009 @ 02:24 PM

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RIP sad
he's in a better place du
best of luck for you and your family
October 4, 2009 @ 02:26 PM

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Sorry to hear man,stay strong and R.I.P to your dad.
October 4, 2009 @ 02:32 PM

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My condolences to you and your family. Hope all goes well for you. rip

It is what it is.

October 4, 2009 @ 02:33 PM

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that really sucks...my condolences and prayers goes out to you and your family. stay strong!
October 4, 2009 @ 02:33 PM

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Had a friend last night die from a drunk driving accident.

RIP to ur pops and him
October 4, 2009 @ 02:36 PM

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keep ya head up
the best is yet to come

October 4, 2009 @ 02:43 PM

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hey man...

This is really really really shitty... although you know that already.
My father was killed when I was 19... now 21.. A man ran a red light and t bone'd him on his motorcycle...
I was awaken to the call that he had passed away from my mother sobbing. I will never forget that day.
But things get better man. Just cherish those memories that you guys did have together and make him proud.

October 4, 2009 @ 02:48 PM

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damn. i feel so bad for you man... i dunno what i would ever do if any of my relatives died. fuck sorry man but keep your head up everything'll be alright sad
October 4, 2009 @ 02:52 PM

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R.I.P to your pops. Stay strong homie. sad
October 4, 2009 @ 02:52 PM

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my condolences. i hope your mom starts feeling better.
October 4, 2009 @ 02:58 PM

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i know saying sorry won't help anything, but i hope everything goes well with your family after this loss. it must be very hard dealing with it =/ sad


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