^ lol me neither. I mean, I can maneuver each mediocre, but once i try to shoot or something i lose control and crash =[ mad hard to multitask in that shit.
not to mention every time i hop in, i get raped by another jet -__-
Try changing the helicopter sticks to legacy, it's the closest you can get to Bad Company 1 settings which were also available in Bad Company 2. I can fly all the choppers in the game now pretty well, and I'm a beast with the Little Bird. They made the chopper controls much more realistic, so you can't do stuff like circle strafe endlessly the way you could in Bad Company 2.
For jets, my advice is to fly in 3rd person 99% of the time. When you're getting ready to take off, click your thumbstick to go into 3rd person and fly around like that. It gives you a much larger field of view and it's easier to track other jets and choppers. When you're in a position behind another jet or approaching an enemy chopper, switch back to first person and start firing or try locking on if you have the heat seeking missiles. I would recommend getting really good with the jets gun, because once people unlock flares it gets pretty hard to land a missile.
I didn't change jet controls at all, but I think you'll like helicopters a lot more if you switch the stick layout to legacy.